@fbanke42 paying bills as a Christmas gift should be a thing. Oh, you don't want a bunch of useless crap that you have no space for? Here's $200, go pay your bills!
I'm taking a second to bitch. DH got completely smashed last night after I went to bed. At that point I had told him to stop drinking because he was already drunk. Today he thinks I should have mountains of sympathy for him since he has a monster hangover. I'm sorry but I've been in large amounts of pain (back and sides) for the past three days and carrying our 15month old up and down two flights of stairs hurts. You don't get to check out of parenting because you're a selfish idiot. We haven't even started celebrating Christmas because he's still in bed. Worst Christmas ever. End rant
I'm taking a second to bitch. DH got completely smashed last night after I went to bed. At that point I had told him to stop drinking because he was already drunk. Today he thinks I should have mountains of sympathy for him since he has a monster hangover. I'm sorry but I've been in large amounts of pain (back and sides) for the past three days and carrying our 15month old up and down two flights of stairs hurts. You don't get to check out of parenting because you're a selfish idiot. We haven't even started celebrating Christmas because he's still in bed. Worst Christmas ever. End rant
The malicious person in me would send the toddler in to wake her daddy so she can open gifts and celebrate. Every 10 minutes, if needed. After she'd been given LOTS of sugar, to make sure she's good and hyped up.
We've been at DH's grandma's house for over 3 hours and haven't opened presents yet. We're leaving in an hour to go spend time with my family. It's like this every damn year. We're the only ones ever on time, and then everyone takes forever eating and gossiping and drinking. I'm sorry, my 6 year old is somewhat patient, but next year I'm opening gifts at home and taking my sweet time getting here since we won't open gifts for freaking 4 hours anyway. I'm annoyed and bored and would rather be playing a game or spending time with my own family.
@AEG84 I'm telling DH that next year we're staying home for Christmas. I hate this flip flopping... My family was supposed to be doing breakfast, but now it's past 11 and there's no food and we haven't opened anything yet... We're supposed to go to my ILs later and I can tell DH is in a foul mood... Next year, even though it will be DS2's first, I want to stay home. People can just come to us.
Holy shit - the wife of my former coworker just had a 9 lb 15 oz, 22 1/4 inch-long baby. The woman pushed a 10-lb bundle of slime out of her vagina on Christmas! I'm sore just thinking about it
We drove an hour and a half yesterday with a 40 lb dog in my lap and no room at my feet to husband's family gathering, and were almost at the end of a 3 hour drive now to visit mine. Getting texts from my younger sister demanding ETAs and that we drive faster. I've already gotten the (attempted) guilt trip for not telling her we wouldn't be home until Christmas Day so that she could plan her own travels around our plans (if you care that much, then ask, FFS). Bitch, stop harshing my mellow. We're spending the entire weekend with you. We're spending a large part of our Christmas together in the car to do it. We're not going to rush our time with my ILs, who we also love and want to see, to get here an hour sooner. We are happy to travel because we love everyone, but we don't owe it to anyone. Ugh.
Can people not be self-centered jerk faces all of the time?! DH told me about something someone posted and deleted on a photo of me from October before I could see it, and now I'm just annoyed... I HATE people sometimes... Especially women (no offense ladies).
Trying to cross all of my fingers and toes for my BFF. Her and her SO have been trying for a long time now for a sticky baby, and I'm really hoping this cycle is it for her. She's had a good feeling about this cycle, they had a STORK fly up to them, and I had a dream that she was pregnant. If you can, send some good vibes her way. I know that's kind of random, but hey, that's the point of this thread, right?
Just got back from brunch with a couple of my girlfriends, when one of them announces that they are all taking bets to see how long I'll last cloth diapering. Can you just hurry up and be pregnant so I can annoy the shit out of you with constant comments about how everything you're setting out to do is going to be a failure?
Apparently exclusive breastfeeding is impossible without using a breast pump, and I won't want to do it after six months anyway. I need to apply for Early Headstart because "you say you want to stay at home now, but you'll probably change your mind later." Cloth diapering is gross and it's just easier to throw it away after they poop so you don't have to deal with it. (It's seriously two more loads of clothes a week, and I don't have to spray or do anything crazy until he starts solids...) And apparently making baby food is insanely difficult, and I'll never able to pull that off.
I'm just going to play the bite my tongue game with her, because it's seriously not worth it to get into an argument with someone who knows everything about babies because they've worked in childcare. Just needed to vent...
Just got back from brunch with a couple of my girlfriends, when one of them announces that they are all taking bets to see how long I'll last cloth diapering. Can you just hurry up and be pregnant so I can annoy the shit out of you with constant comments about how everything you're setting out to do is going to be a failure?
Apparently exclusive breastfeeding is impossible without using a breast pump, and I won't want to do it after six months anyway. I need to apply for Early Headstart because "you say you want to stay at home now, but you'll probably change your mind later." Cloth diapering is gross and it's just easier to throw it away after they poop so you don't have to deal with it. (It's seriously two more loads of clothes a week, and I don't have to spray or do anything crazy until he starts solids...) And apparently making baby food is insanely difficult, and I'll never able to pull that off.
I'm just going to play the bite my tongue game with her, because it's seriously not worth it to get into an argument with someone who knows everything about babies because they've worked in childcare. Just needed to vent...
Just got back from brunch with a couple of my girlfriends, when one of them announces that they are all taking bets to see how long I'll last cloth diapering. Can you just hurry up and be pregnant so I can annoy the shit out of you with constant comments about how everything you're setting out to do is going to be a failure?
Apparently exclusive breastfeeding is impossible without using a breast pump, and I won't want to do it after six months anyway. I need to apply for Early Headstart because "you say you want to stay at home now, but you'll probably change your mind later." Cloth diapering is gross and it's just easier to throw it away after they poop so you don't have to deal with it. (It's seriously two more loads of clothes a week, and I don't have to spray or do anything crazy until he starts solids...) And apparently making baby food is insanely difficult, and I'll never able to pull that off.
I'm just going to play the bite my tongue game with her, because it's seriously not worth it to get into an argument with someone who knows everything about babies because they've worked in childcare. Just needed to vent...
You can totally exclusively breastfeed without a pump. I always recommend having a pump because you never know when you may need to be away from baby or you may have supply issues (like I did). I also ended up exclusively pumping for nine months because my darn nipples were too short for DS1 to latch on to. According to the lactation consultant, it's really rare, but it can happen. Sometimes your body tells your boobs that baby is born but forgets completely to talk to your nipples. Thanks, body. I really needed that.
Everyone harassed me about not wanting an epidural. They were all making bets on when I would give up during labor and ask for it... Even DH! Went without it (I was in labor 33 hours, mind you). HA. Suck it. And guess what? I'm going to do it again this time around.
Just got back from brunch with a couple of my girlfriends, when one of them announces that they are all taking bets to see how long I'll last cloth diapering. Can you just hurry up and be pregnant so I can annoy the shit out of you with constant comments about how everything you're setting out to do is going to be a failure?
Apparently exclusive breastfeeding is impossible without using a breast pump, and I won't want to do it after six months anyway. I need to apply for Early Headstart because "you say you want to stay at home now, but you'll probably change your mind later." Cloth diapering is gross and it's just easier to throw it away after they poop so you don't have to deal with it. (It's seriously two more loads of clothes a week, and I don't have to spray or do anything crazy until he starts solids...) And apparently making baby food is insanely difficult, and I'll never able to pull that off.
I'm just going to play the bite my tongue game with her, because it's seriously not worth it to get into an argument with someone who knows everything about babies because they've worked in childcare. Just needed to vent...
You can totally exclusively breastfeed without a pump. I always recommend having a pump because you never know when you may need to be away from baby or you may have supply issues (like I did). I also ended up exclusively pumping for nine months because my darn nipples were too short for DS1 to latch on to. According to the lactation consultant, it's really rare, but it can happen. Sometimes your body tells your boobs that baby is born but forgets completely to talk to your nipples. Thanks, body. I really needed that.
Everyone harassed me about not wanting an epidural. They were all making bets on when I would give up during labor and ask for it... Even DH! Went without it (I was in labor 33 hours, mind you). HA. Suck it. And guess what? I'm going to do it again this time around.
Oh the med free birth is another hot topic issue with her, and my FMIL. "Are you hoping someone will give you a medal?" Smh
I splurged and got my stroller and car seat today! I went to BRU planning to get a Chicco Bravo system but fell in love with the Urban stroller in Obsidian with the matching Keyfit 30 seat. It was about 150$ more than I planned on spending but.. Merry Christmas to me!
I also started a quick Target registry and bought a new body pillow. Checking something off the list finally, holla!
Anyone else having appetite issues after the holiday meals? I had a fine, normal appetite before the holidays. I was eating small meals and snacks. Now I constantly only want large meals, and even when I'm not hungry I want to chew on something like gum. This is going to take a while to break...
I was so over the itching this morning so I did some heavy duty exfoliating in the shower . I lathered up with my normal lotion. Just now when I went to change into my pajamas, look what is now covering my belly. Not a single one from my first pregnancy and now I'm covered. I'd be lying if I said I didn't cry...
I was so over the itching this morning so I did some heavy duty exfoliating in the shower . I lathered up with my normal lotion. Just now when I went to change into my pajamas, look what is now covering my belly. Not a single one from my first pregnancy and now I'm covered. I'd be lying if I said I didn't cry...
I sympathize with you. If you could see mine from my first, well.. let's just say you're lucky you can't. Hopefully they don't get too bad - but if they do, know they're there for a reason! I know that doesn't help much.. sigh. Pregnancy is glamorous.
I was so over the itching this morning so I did some heavy duty exfoliating in the shower . I lathered up with my normal lotion. Just now when I went to change into my pajamas, look what is now covering my belly. Not a single one from my first pregnancy and now I'm covered. I'd be lying if I said I didn't cry...
I sympathize with you. If you could see mine from my first, well.. let's just say you're lucky you can't. Hopefully they don't get too bad - but if they do, know they're there for a reason! I know that doesn't help much.. sigh. Pregnancy is glamorous.
Rationally, I know there are worse things in life. But the pregnancy hormones are feeding my irrational side right now. Waaaaahhhhh. Pity party, table for one.
Am I the only one who has one pregnancy app set to original EDD and another set to adjusted EDD?
My app is set to the original EDD, but I'll probably have the baby a week earlier because I'm having a repeat CSection.
My two EDDs are 8 days apart, so I have the Bump set to my adjusted and Ovia set to original, just in case my new doctor doesn't want to use my current doctor's adjusted date. I know that when I switched last time, they only went by LMP, since they were not the ones who did the dating ultrasound. One doctor also refused to change any due dates unless they were +/- 10 days from the current due date... Which would mean going back to my original due date. I just want to know if I'm going to be scheduled to be induced because of pre-eclampsia at 38+ weeks and from which due date to base that on already! I think that's what's really freaking me out--if baby has cooked enough if they decide to induce me based on my original EDD...
I had put in the UOs at some point that I do not like inflatable lawn ornaments. My neighborhood is full of it. Just about every other yard has a huge inflatable snowman, Grinch, abominable snowman, etc., We went to a new place for the family Christmas party this year which was at my aunt's fiancé's house. It is on an open country road, the only house within a mile of everything. I've never been there before and while looking for the house, we passed one that had a law FULL of inflatable lawn ornaments. Everything from snowmen to Christmas aliens in a sleigh. Here that happened to be the house! And I was thinking to myself how tacky! The inside decorations includes a back of a Santa smashed into a door, kind of like the door witch you see on Halloween and a reindeer table ornament that poops chocolate kisses. I find out my aunt and her fiancé are getting married at the end of April and they're having the reception there. I can't wait.
@fbanke42 I totally have two different edds on two different apps. My charting app still has the due date it calculated based on when it thinks I ovulated. My ultrasounds have both estimated I'm a week further along, and that's what my Dr is going with. I don't know how I could have gotten pregnant that cycle anyway, but clearly it happened. I totally understand being freaked out by the idea of baby not being cooked enough at induction time. The good news is that the problems "early term" babies have are generally easily worked through (the bad news is that you're all hormonal and postpartumish while that working through is happening). Be really honest about that fear with your new Dr, and hope you can work together to pick a date that makes both if you comfortable!
I had put in the UOs at some point that I do not like inflatable lawn ornaments. My neighborhood is full of it. Just about every other yard has a huge inflatable snowman, Grinch, abominable snowman, etc., We went to a new place for the family Christmas party this year which was at my aunt's fiancé's house. It is on an open country road, the only house within a mile of everything. I've never been there before and while looking for the house, we passed one that had a law FULL of inflatable lawn ornaments. Everything from snowmen to Christmas aliens in a sleigh. Here that happened to be the house! And I was thinking to myself how tacky! The inside decorations includes a back of a Santa smashed into a door, kind of like the door witch you see on Halloween and a reindeer table ornament that poops chocolate kisses. I find out my aunt and her fiancé are getting married at the end of April and they're having the reception there. I can't wait.
I had put in the UOs at some point that I do not like inflatable lawn ornaments. My neighborhood is full of it. Just about every other yard has a huge inflatable snowman, Grinch, abominable snowman, etc., We went to a new place for the family Christmas party this year which was at my aunt's fiancé's house. It is on an open country road, the only house within a mile of everything. I've never been there before and while looking for the house, we passed one that had a law FULL of inflatable lawn ornaments. Everything from snowmen to Christmas aliens in a sleigh. Here that happened to be the house! And I was thinking to myself how tacky! The inside decorations includes a back of a Santa smashed into a door, kind of like the door witch you see on Halloween and a reindeer table ornament that poops chocolate kisses. I find out my aunt and her fiancé are getting married at the end of April and they're having the reception there. I can't wait.
@dayj11 I got a small - I'm 5'1" and about 120 lbs pre-pregnancy. I've already gained almost 20 and it fits really well; my only complaint is that I got the underbust version and it rides up funny, feeling like it'll cut my boobs in half if I don't yank it down. If I buy another, it'll be the regular one.
@jonesl12 I'm due the 12th! The women in my family usually go about a week late but I'm measuring consistently big, so here's hoping she comes the second week of April!
A stone fell out of my engagement ring. AGAIN. This is the second time that's happened in less than 6 months! I'm about ready to force the jeweler to exchange the damn ring without having to do their upgrade nonsense... I've only had this thing since June. WTH.
@AmadorRose Thank you!!! I saw both the under boob one, regular tank and just the belly portion one too I was struggling on deciding! I was concerned on size as the reviews were all over the place on size and I didn't want to front the cash for two to send one back. I was also concerned about the under boob because I have implants and I'm uncomfortably large on top right now I was thinking it might be an issue. I appreciate your feedback!!! Looking forward to relief with this product. Ordering on Amazon now!!!!
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Also, MERRY CHRISTMAS, ladies!
Apparently exclusive breastfeeding is impossible without using a breast pump, and I won't want to do it after six months anyway. I need to apply for Early Headstart because "you say you want to stay at home now, but you'll probably change your mind later." Cloth diapering is gross and it's just easier to throw it away after they poop so you don't have to deal with it. (It's seriously two more loads of clothes a week, and I don't have to spray or do anything crazy until he starts solids...) And apparently making baby food is insanely difficult, and I'll never able to pull that off.
I'm just going to play the bite my tongue game with her, because it's seriously not worth it to get into an argument with someone who knows everything about babies because they've worked in childcare. Just needed to vent...
Everyone harassed me about not wanting an epidural. They were all making bets on when I would give up during labor and ask for it... Even DH! Went without it (I was in labor 33 hours, mind you). HA. Suck it. And guess what? I'm going to do it again this time around.
I also started a quick Target registry and bought a new body pillow. Checking something off the list finally, holla!
. I lathered up with my normal lotion. Just now when I went to change into my pajamas, look what is now covering my belly. Not a single one from my first pregnancy and now I'm covered. I'd be lying if I said I didn't cry...
I sympathize with you. If you could see mine from my first, well.. let's just say you're lucky you can't. Hopefully they don't get too bad - but if they do, know they're there for a reason! I know that doesn't help much.. sigh. Pregnancy is glamorous.
Sigh. Here we go.
My app is set to the original EDD, but I'll probably have the baby a week earlier because I'm having a repeat CSection.
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
My two EDDs are 8 days apart, so I have the Bump set to my adjusted and Ovia set to original, just in case my new doctor doesn't want to use my current doctor's adjusted date. I know that when I switched last time, they only went by LMP, since they were not the ones who did the dating ultrasound. One doctor also refused to change any due dates unless they were +/- 10 days from the current due date... Which would mean going back to my original due date. I just want to know if I'm going to be scheduled to be induced because of pre-eclampsia at 38+ weeks and from which due date to base that on already! I think that's what's really freaking me out--if baby has cooked enough if they decide to induce me based on my original EDD...
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
I totally understand being freaked out by the idea of baby not being cooked enough at induction time. The good news is that the problems "early term" babies have are generally easily worked through (the bad news is that you're all hormonal and postpartumish while that working through is happening). Be really honest about that fear with your new Dr, and hope you can work together to pick a date that makes both if you comfortable!
It seems more common for the due date to be a bit off per LMP because a lot of women don't ovulate right on day 14-16.
We tried for 10 months then I lost the first pregnancy. The next month after D&C I got pregnant and it's still hard to believe!
I guess being on vacation the 18th-25th of the month and lots of amaretto is what did it finally.
Who else is due around the 13th?
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
@jonesl12 I'm due the 12th! The women in my family usually go about a week late but I'm measuring consistently big, so here's hoping she comes the second week of April!
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