So this is a rant, I needed to get off my chest. It has been a couple months since my mc and now the hospitable bills are coming in. I feel like this is just opening up old wounds and then adding salt into. This money we saved for the cost labor and delivery is now being used on my mc
And it is expensive even with health insurance and it feels like we are paying for nothing. We did not get a baby out of it, we get to pay all this money for heartache and disappointment. And then to think with the holidays coming in I will have to start fielding questions about when are we going to start trying again and all those annoying comments like it will happen when it meant to be or at least you know you can get pregent... Grrr, sorry for rant.
Re: Hospitable Bills
BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
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Diagnoses and Treatments
PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
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BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏
@GoldenTMama - Oh man, I can't believe they tried to not cover it because it wasn't "urgent" enough for them! I completely lost it when I started to MC and marched down to the ER, even though I medically probably shouldn't have (not much blood or cramping). I haven't gotten the bills yet, but I'm wondering if my insurance might try to play the same game.
They really shouldn't do that to people. It is already bad enough that they won't pay for testing until the 2-3 MC.
Sorry so many of you are dealing with the big bills associated with health care. Such an insult to injury when there is a financial cost around an already difficult situation.
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