You may need to have a frank conversation with him. If you begin to have m/s he's going to have to pick up even more of the slack. Better to get it figured out how before it gets worse.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
6 weeks pregnant and not in the mood to do anything just lay around all day and hubby doesn't understand I'm just not feeling it
Pregnancy is exhausting! I agree that you should probably discuss this with DH before it gets worse. Maybe show him some of the things from the bump that explain about exhaustion?
The men don't get it and it's hard to explain to them that even though you were fine yesterday you're drop dead beat today. DH actually called me lazy in my first tri. My MS was so horrible that I did well to go to work every day. I literally sobbed which made him feel horrible and realize I wasn't just BSing him to not have to do anything.
My husband also jokes that I fake it when I'm too nauseated and want to be in bed. I feel a little hurt that he is not supportive sometimes. I remind him that if he were in my shoes, he wouldn't last a week and he agrees. But if you are feeling super exhausted, your iron levels could be low (anemia).
Re: Exhausted!!
/loss mentioned/
TTC#1 July 2014
dx: MFI (morphology)
IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w
d&c, followed by cytotec
TTCAL April 2016
IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN