Couldn't wait until lunch! Took it about five minutes ago and I'm staring at my BFP!! I want to reiterate that I had two days of a temp drop that really got me down, which, I guess in hind sight was an implantation dip. You seriously aren't out until AF shows. And that skank is not invited for the next couple months. Thank you all so much for every piece of information that I got. I'm glad I had you all to hit me with science when I needed it. I seriously say prayers for you all everyday. I will be lurking to keep updated with everyone. Thank you all so much!
ETA: @khbear117 it was the fire station BD that did it. Or at least that's what I'll tell people.
@halesh5 congrats!!! It was TOTALLY the firehouse sex!!!!
Month/Cycle: 10/1st after tx
CD/DPO: 25/11
Timing: eod cd4-22
Testing: won't unless af doesn't show up on CD28.
R/R/CS: nothing really
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? Probably positions... Lol. When I started getting panicky after three months of bfns I thought maybe different positions would help. Noooooope... Def didn't help lol. I think this is probably pretty common though!
Married May 2014 TTC Nov 2014-Aug 2016 Aug 2015 Dx: Thyroid Cancer and Hashimotos Total Thyroidectomy October 2015 Ovarian Cystectomy Nov 2015 CANCER FREE and resumed TTC Dec 2015.
Testing: I said 9dpo and that I wasn't going to test out my trigger...But I have like 35 cheapies burning a hole in my pocket so I may start at 7dpo to see if my trigger might leave my system earlier this cycle.
R/R/CS: Just waiting until 7dpo when I can start testing and I will have progesterone b/w that morning also.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? I have no idea. Nothing crazy I don't think. Probably just specific HPT sensitivity. And PCOS related issues.
Married 9/19/09 Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
TTC#1 starting Nov. 2009 3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12 TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15. Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15. Forever in our hearts. TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
Testing: It's too early to test. I plan to test on Christmas Eve & Christmas Day just because I can. Plus, how amazing would it be to get a pink line on the holidays!! AF is due December 28 so I will (for sure) be testing then as well. I have a TON of internet cheapies, some dollar tree tests, and I am going to buy a box of FRER to hold me through the holidays. I'm a POAS-aholic, for reals. Keeping those POAS folks in business since 2015...
R/R/CS: I had some mild pain during ovulation starting about 4 days prior to O. I can usually tell if I am ovulating because I get really REALLY irritated. My hormones are pretty wacky. I don't chart temps. I may start temping in the future, but I have inconsistent waking times. I am taking mucinex after CD 10. Besides BDing a lot, I'm trying to keep things SIMPLE. Well, as simple as I can.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? LOL. During ovulation last month, I had emergency gallbladder surgery instead. I asked the googler if I could still get pregnant if I was under anesthesia. I was in such pain that we did not get a good opportunity to BD! I blame the morphine for the crazy compulsive thoughts of BDing while in the hospital so that we were not out last month.
Couldn't wait until lunch! Took it about five minutes ago and I'm staring at my BFP!! I want to reiterate that I had two days of a temp drop that really got me down, which, I guess in hind sight was an implantation dip. You seriously aren't out until AF shows. And that skank is not invited for the next couple months. Thank you all so much for every piece of information that I got. I'm glad I had you all to hit me with science when I needed it. I seriously say prayers for you all everyday. I will be lurking to keep updated with everyone. Thank you all so much!
ETA: @khbear117 it was the fire station BD that did it. Or at least that's what I'll tell people.
The firehouse BD sounded hawt, so definitely go with that! Congrats!
Me: 31; DH: 31 NTNP: May 2015 TTC #1: late August 2015 PCOS Dx: January 2016, starting Femara Feb 2016 BFP: 2/29/16 - Happy Leap Day!
Had some clear, watery CM today, and FF moved my CH to CD 16 from CD 13? How does this make sense if I was 9 DPO? A bit of watery CM today doesn't seem like it should drastically change my O by 3 days... Last week...? I took the CM off my chart just until I can make sense of this. Anyone come across bizarre changes like this?
***question***
Had some clear, watery CM today, and FF moved my CH to CD 16 from CD 13? How does this make sense if I was 9 DPO? A bit of watery CM today doesn't seem like it should drastically change my O by 3 days... Last week...? I took the CM off my chart just until I can make sense of this. Anyone come across bizarre changes like this?
Oh yes, that would be helpful. Sorry!
Here it is WITHOUT the watery CM and changed crosshairs.
Can I see the other one too? With the changes? I tend to trust FF but at first glance it looks like you O'd CD16. Simply based on temps. However, I get why the cm would make it CD13. Especially with the O pain.
I almost didn't chart the O pain, but I'm trying to learn when I have the pain - if it's before O, during or after.
I think that one looks more accurate. And it gives you better timing I tend to see FF favors temps over other fertility signs. I've O'd with random (non-fertile) cm before too. It will be interesting to see when your AF or BFP comes!
@mom2adoodle It definitely gives me better timing ;D I'll just leave the watery and see how it goes. It wasn't an all day CM kind of situation so it makes me feel a little questionable but it was enough to notice.
R/R/CS: Back pain/cramps have calmed down today, and no sign of AF yet, so hoping yesterday was random aches and not AF.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? Oh gosh, everything. Mostly about implantation bleeding, which obviously I have every month.... But that's just me not wanting to give it up for the cycle.
Fur child: One awesome Golden Retriever IUI August 2016 : Cancelled due to polyp September 2016: Polyp removal/hysteroscopy October 2016: IUI #1- BFN November 2016: IUI #2- BFN December 2016: IUI #3 - BFN January/February 2017 - IVF + ICSI + PGD March 2017 - FET
R/R/CS: Getting kind of down on myself on our timing. Trying to do more but it's causing too much pressure on DH. Might try the more nonchalant approach if I can pull it off. How do other people deal with this? Do you tell him when or just kind of be ambiguous about your O date so he doesn't catch on? Sorry if TMI; hope appropriate to ask here.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? TTC lube. Not that weird until I started reading about all the different oils people use.
R/R/CS: Getting kind of down on myself on our timing. Trying to do more but it's causing too much pressure on DH. Might try the more nonchalant approach if I can pull it off. How do other people deal with this? Do you tell him when or just kind of be ambiguous about your O date so he doesn't catch on? Sorry if TMI; hope appropriate to ask here.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? TTC lube. Not that weird until I started reading about all the different oils people use.
I told my DH "I usually prep my DH about a week before with "If we want a baby we need to have sex a lot next week to increase our chances." Then I drop it. Or you can not tell him at all and just be extra seductive during FW
@sarahrose83 I leave him completely out of it. Send him sexy texts while he's at work and have him come home to me in lingere every now and then. Touch him while we snuggle and watch a movie, make it chill so they can just do all their thinking below the waist--us ladies are better multi taskers!!!
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
I don't really Google too much yet, but when I see some of the crazy drive by spotters, I can't help but Google some of their symptoms. I have enjoyed reading what others Google though!
ETA: Congratulations @halesh5 ! H&H 9 months to you!
Me: 29 & DH: 33 Married: May 2009 ttc #1 since October 2015 BFP: 3/8 - CP
*Lurking from WTO* Congrats @halesh5 So happy for you!!!
Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
TTC #1 since June 2015 Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature 5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP! May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019 July 2019 - FET - BFN Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
Thanks @mom2adoodle and @dieforelle! I'm going to try one month leaving him out of it I think - oy, that's going to be hard for me! - with some seduction tricks and see what happens. I like the one week before advice, too. I think I might just be hitting him over the head with it...
Re: TWW Thursday
I want to reiterate that I had two days of a temp drop that really got me down, which, I guess in hind sight was an implantation dip. You seriously aren't out until AF shows. And that skank is not invited for the next couple months.
Thank you all so much for every piece of information that I got. I'm glad I had you all to hit me with science when I needed it. I seriously say prayers for you all everyday. I will be lurking to keep updated with everyone. Thank you all so much!
ETA: @khbear117 it was the fire station BD that did it. Or at least that's what I'll tell people.
Month/Cycle: 10/1st after tx
CD/DPO: 25/11
Timing: eod cd4-22
Testing: won't unless af doesn't show up on CD28.
R/R/CS: nothing really
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
Probably positions... Lol. When I started getting panicky after three months of bfns I thought maybe different positions would help. Noooooope... Def didn't help lol. I think this is probably pretty common though!
Married May 2014
TTC Nov 2014-Aug 2016
Aug 2015 Dx: Thyroid Cancer and Hashimotos
Total Thyroidectomy October 2015
Ovarian Cystectomy Nov 2015
CANCER FREE and resumed TTC Dec 2015.
Month/Cycle: 7/6
CD/DPO: 18/3
Timing: -5, -2, 0
Testing: I said 9dpo and that I wasn't going to test out my trigger...But I have like 35 cheapies burning a hole in my pocket so I may start at 7dpo to see if my trigger might leave my system earlier this cycle.
R/R/CS: Just waiting until 7dpo when I can start testing and I will have progesterone b/w that morning also.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? I have no idea. Nothing crazy I don't think. Probably just specific HPT sensitivity. And PCOS related issues.
Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues
TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12
TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks
Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15. Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15. Forever in our hearts.
TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
Congrats, @halesh5!! H&H 9 Months to you!
CD/DPO: 23/3
Timing: -4, -1, O, +1, +3
Testing: It's too early to test. I plan to test on Christmas Eve & Christmas Day just because I can. Plus, how amazing would it be to get a pink line on the holidays!! AF is due December 28 so I will (for sure) be testing then as well. I have a TON of internet cheapies, some dollar tree tests, and I am going to buy a box of FRER to hold me through the holidays. I'm a POAS-aholic, for reals. Keeping those POAS folks in business since 2015...
R/R/CS: I had some mild pain during ovulation starting about 4 days prior to O. I can usually tell if I am ovulating because I get really REALLY irritated. My hormones are pretty wacky. I don't chart temps. I may start temping in the future, but I have inconsistent waking times. I am taking mucinex after CD 10. Besides BDing a lot, I'm trying to keep things SIMPLE. Well, as simple as I can.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? LOL. During ovulation last month, I had emergency gallbladder surgery instead. I asked the googler if I could still get pregnant if I was under anesthesia. I was in such pain that we did not get a good opportunity to BD! I blame the morphine for the crazy compulsive thoughts of BDing while in the hospital so that we were not out last month.
CD/DPO: 25/7
Timing: -4,-2,0
Testing: hoping to hold out until next week but likely will cave Sunday
R/R/CS: I will not symptom spot....I will not symptom spot...I will, wait is that a cramp? Ughhhh
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? I try to avoid google, it either tells me I'm pregnant or have cancer.
CD/DPO: 27/11
Timing: -5, -4, -1, +1
Testing: all day e'ryday
R/R/CS: I'm pretty sure my wondfos are fucking with me. I really don't believe them anymore!
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
Pretty much everything.
Congrats @halesh5 !!
Month/Cycle: 2/1
CD/DPO: 31/13
Timing: 0, +1
Testing: done testing.
R/R/CS: feel like AF is coming and just wish she would hurry up. *tmi* a little brown spotting since yesterday.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
The most recent ones that made me chuckle are "can you pull an ovary" and "irritable during ovulation".
Me: 31 DH: 36
Married since 11/25/2013
#1 (bio) born 01/18/2006
#2 (bio) born 09/08/2008
#3 (step) born 02/17/2009
#4 (our 1st together) EDD 09/09/2017
NTNP: May 2015
TTC #1: late August 2015
PCOS Dx: January 2016, starting Femara Feb 2016
BFP: 2/29/16 - Happy Leap Day!
Had some clear, watery CM today, and FF moved my CH to CD 16 from CD 13? How does this make sense if I was 9 DPO? A bit of watery CM today doesn't seem like it should drastically change my O by 3 days... Last week...? I took the CM off my chart just until I can make sense of this. Anyone come across bizarre changes like this?
DH: 40
Married: 2 years
Here it is WITHOUT the watery CM and changed crosshairs.
High School Sweethearts: 12/12/04
Engaged: 5/28/10
Married: 5/22/11
TTC #1: October 2015
BFP: 12/22/15 EDD: 9/2/16
Rocky temp earlier in cycle - I had a cold.
Thanks!
Month/Cycle: 9
CD/DPO: 27/7
Timing: -5,-4,-3,-1,+1
Testing: 12 dpo, depending on temps
R/R/CS: Back pain/cramps have calmed down today, and no sign of AF yet, so hoping yesterday was random aches and not AF.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? Oh gosh, everything. Mostly about implantation bleeding, which obviously I have every month.... But that's just me not wanting to give it up for the cycle.
IUI August 2016 : Cancelled due to polyp
September 2016: Polyp removal/hysteroscopy
October 2016: IUI #1- BFN
November 2016: IUI #2- BFN
December 2016: IUI #3 - BFN
January/February 2017 - IVF + ICSI + PGD
March 2017 - FET
CD/DPO: 18
Timing: -3,-1
Testing: 29th or 30th if AF hasn't arrived.
R/R/CS: Getting kind of down on myself on our timing. Trying to do more but it's causing too much pressure on DH. Might try the more nonchalant approach if I can pull it off. How do other people deal with this? Do you tell him when or just kind of be ambiguous about your O date so he doesn't catch on? Sorry if TMI; hope appropriate to ask here.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU? TTC lube. Not that weird until I started reading about all the different oils people use.
CD/DPO: 23/6
Timing: -4,-2, +1
Testing: 12 DPO
R/R/CS: Not too much today - just tired.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
ETA: Congratulations @halesh5 ! H&H 9 months to you!
Married: May 2009
ttc #1 since October 2015
BFP: 3/8 - CP
Congrats @halesh5 So happy for you!!!
MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
Aug 2016 - May 2017 6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved.
Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy
TTC #2 since July 2019
July 2019 - FET - BFN
Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy
Month/Cycle:9/4
CD/DPO: 38/9
Timing: -5, -1, 0
Testing: Not gonna
R/R/CS: Just want to hurry through this cycle so I can start over with higher dose of clomid.
GTKY: What is the most bizarre thing you have googled related to getting KTFU?
Recently it was "Is it OK to have an orgasm during implantation." LOL!
#3 DD June 2014
CP December 2015
M/C 8/2016
Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18