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  • I totally hid in an office this morning while students were testing (I didn't have proctoring duties) and laid down on the couch. It was glorious. I have a 20 hour work day today, so I really don't feel bad.
  • Thank you for starting it, @ButterMyBiscuit ! I've been creeping the boards waiting. Lol
  • @megstervt I did this a couple of days ago because I was feeling too great and got worried really badly... I ended up feeling miserable the rest of the day (and felt like a big idiot too...)
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  • I think some people post contrary opinions in the UO thread just for attention and drama. It works, anyway.
  • I spent the first hour of my work from home day wrapping presents. Whoops.

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  • @stephweinstein I spent some time putting up window decorations today =P. I am also working from home!
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  • I tried to eat real food for lunch and cue the insta vomit back to crap I go. And honestly I don't care as long as I can keep food down
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  • Y0urm0mY0urm0m member
    edited December 2015
    I always have really good ones that I think of during the week and the I can never remember them by Friday. The struggle is real
    ETA: okay I though of one.

    I drop my two year old of at daycare twice a week. I work like 3 days a week in the off season and my hours are 6pm-3am. I really don't need daycare but terrible twos are really hard with a strong willed kid. I dance out of the place

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  • I love unpopular opinions and I wish everyone would post more!!! I know you ladies have way more judgey inappropriate opinions! SPILLLLLLLLLLL I love when people have really mean ones they get flamed for. I think that's what the thread is for. It's no fun if everyone just has nice ones. Yeah yeah leggings are/ are not pants. Trump is a clown. Newborns are ugly. TELL US THE GOOD STUFF! I'll try harder next week...
    ^This, all of this. It was so boring until someone made the SAHM comments, and I just sat back and waited. I love when people defend themselves too, and why should you not. It's your u/o, just be able to back it up with some good sass. It's healthy to release some of that pent up aggression. Can't be unicorns and puppies 24/7.

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  • I fully intend on using my workday today to run all my errands.
  • thebigoaktreethebigoaktree member
    edited December 2015
    Here's my FFFC: People that don't think about what they name their kid. Mostly first and middle names. There is nothing cute about combining Jenna and Taylor. 

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  • I really don't want to work out today. I want to take a nap instead... 
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  • jlgriff11jlgriff11 member
    edited December 2015

    Also, I ate my lunch and all my snacks and it's only ten in the morning...

     

    *edited b/c I ate my lunch and not hate my lunch... words are hard

    This is my favorite. I'm always scrounging in my "snack" drawer at like 9:30.
  • @PinkLady2015 my coworkers now refer to my cube as the snack cube the struggle is real!
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  • I may or may not have spent the first 2 hours of my work day so far (west coast, it's only 10am) bumping and FB'ing when no one can see me. And texting various people about things I consider more important than work!

    In my defense, I'm super irritated because I'm having to use inferior backup equipment today that doesn't work right and it's making me look like an incompetent fool to every customer that has come in so far. I've been apologizing a lot.
  • I want to stop talking to a person I know because her negative comments about pregnancy is getting me down. It sucks because we got into this together but right now we have completely opposite views on this. 

    I understand that she deserves more than me shutting her out and I do plan on talking to her about it, I just don't want to sound like I am forcing my happiness and my opinions onto her. I just need to think about how to say it without offending her and that I am worried that if she continues to go down this negative path it will affect her mentally.
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  • @PinkLady2015 is that a corgi in your picture???
  • @chanfa - she is also pregnant, but not enjoying it? Sometimes distance from a negative person is all you can do to protect yourself... I have a friend like this (not PG) but she is consistently negative about everything and no matter what I try to say to cheer her up or turn her outlook around she finds a reason it wont work so I distance myself when I find the need to because I can't be around that much negativity - its not good for you. 
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  • @msbeachnj yea she is, she is a little further along and shes not enjoying it. I understand that people are entitled to complain about pregnancy and I do it too. It's similar to your situation where I would try to point out the positive side of things but it gets shot down. 

    I spoke to the H about it and we do believe its that she doesn't have a good support system and we try to be there for her but it's not us who she needs but her own H to be there for her. 
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  • @msbeachnj also forgot to mention that we decided to get the timing down together (not in a creepy way) so that we can go through this together. Shes one of my best friends and she definitely deserves more than a cold shoulder from me. 
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  • @chanfa - I see, sounds like a very different situation than my friend and its very nice of you and DH to try and be her support system... perhaps does Dh have any relationship with your friends husband where he can kind of "coach" him on how to be there for her during her pregnancy? I have no idea if it would work, nor obviously do I know anything about what kind of man this husband is, but maybe hearing it from another guy would help him be there for her. I feel badly that she is lacking a supportive DH, I couldn't imagine doing this without mine... he keeps me very sane & grounded. 
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  • @msbeachnj all four of us are very close, however hes very empathetic. He is also the type who is not willing to take advice when he believes that nothing is wrong. I know she's had multiple discussions with her own H but he would change for a bit and then revert back. It's just a crappy situation and it sucks to stand by and watch it. 
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  • @chanfa It sucks but it seems like you either talk to her about it and hope it gets better or you just suffer through it. 
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