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Anyone else disgusted with themselves??

Hbraun200Hbraun200 member
in June 2016 Moms
I just feel like a bum!! I hate taking time to get ready! As weird as it is I dread showering, I can't stand a cold shower but being hot/warm making me nauseous (any heat does we live in wi and I have a/c on in my car). I hate the thought of having to do anywhere I can't wear sweats! My hair is always in a sloppy pony! Anyone else feel this way all the time??
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  • mrsp2213mrsp2213 member
    The blump is no longer cute, it's disgusting.  I feel like I just have to poop all the time but now I'm starting to wonder if I'm just gaining a bunch of weight.  It will not go away and a real bump is nowhere in sight.  It's all flubby chub and it's grossing me out.
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  • bio-oeschbio-oesch member
    edited December 2015
    I feel like that on and off, my back hurts when I sit lately, so i've been laying around and feel like a bum. Granted i'm running around with the kids most of the day, but all DH really sees is me laying around once he gets home :(
    I did dress up nicely today and even curled my hair (gasp), so I feel much better :) We're taking the kids to see Santa tonight at DH's work so I wanted to look semi-decent lol.
    I think it's hard bc we still haven't told anyone we're expecting so I have kind of withdrawn myself so I don't give it away...
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  • IncandescentIncandescent member
    Mine is in a bun all the time! I'm just trying to convince myself to get off the couch and shower right at this very moment! My poor husband lol
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  • Hbraun200Hbraun200 member
    Thank gosh I'm not alone lol! DH just laughs bc I couldn't tell you the last time I saved my legs! I get in that shower and can't wait to get out! I'm actually texting me BFF right now apologizing for always brushing her off and not wanting to do anything but man I just feel gross!! And OMG my poor son!! His classmates parents probably will never let them come to our house thinking I'm such a gross crabby bag! I walk in to school to pick him up in a baggy sweatshirt and yogas, my hair in a messy pony and don't say boo to anyone!! Lol I'm just glad to know I'm not alone
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  • mdargiemdargie member
    Meeee. I am the laziest. Dishes are a monumental effort. Laundry is out of the question. Christmas shopping is going to be 100 percent amazon. And why can't they wrap them too..... Also haven't shaved my legs since my last Dr appt. Poor DH.
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  • Hbraun200Hbraun200 member
    Hey at least we all know DHs must really love us to put up with our lazy bummish selves lol
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  • june2016babyjune2016baby member
    Yes! I have pimples ON MY BACK! This hasn't happened to me since my teens, and at least then I could actually solve the problem with a strong prescription. I'm scared my husband will see them, not because he'll care, but because it will embarrass me.
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  • HBamama2BHBamama2B member
    I'm convinced I'm the laziest most disgusting person on the planet and that I somehow married a candidate for sainthood.
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  • Cdub686Cdub686 member
    Omg! I'm so glad I'm not the only one! No energy for anything, behind on chores, hate showering, never any makeup and all clothes are uncomfortable. Just feel fat and yucky whether it's reality or not. Went to dinner with family tonight and cried after I put on clothes! Please tell me this changes. I feel guilty not enjoying the pregnancy. :(
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  • lauren0913lauren0913 member
    Yes!!!! Feel fat & uncomfortable - impatiently waiting for this little bump so I look pregnant & not just fat!
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  • purplefan1purplefan1 member
    Yes!! Felt pretty good yesterday, put effort in and wore jewelry and everything (which I never do). Had lunch with a friend, did some shopping, worked, and got some exercise in. Have only moved off the couch today for food and bathroom. Felt so miserable with the worst headache ever that I called in to work and I HATE calling in. It's like all of my energy was zapped yesterday with my effort and now I'm paying for it.
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  • RMR7779RMR7779 member
    Yes!! I teach dance so I get the pleasure of seeing myself in the mirror all night long, ugh. I hate this awkward in between phase! My face is a broken out disaster, and all of my maternity workout clothes from last pregnancy are so stretched out they don't fit yet so I'm squeezing into regular clothes still. I don't know if it's worse pulling up saggy maternity pants, or pants that are too tight!
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  • ice_queen91ice_queen91 member
    Husband just about forced me to wash my hair - which I recently cut nearly a foot off from being too lazy to deal with it all - since its been 4ish days since the last hair washing. :scream:
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  • Atlast111Atlast111 member
    "Don't make me run....I'm full of chocolate"
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Yes! All I've been doing since last weekend is coughing & trying to cough up phlegm. I feel like I'm hocking lugies every second it's awful. I also feel like a slob because I have no energy to clean when I can't get over this cold! Ugh!
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Atlast111 said:

    Hairy legs anyone? Hahaha....

    YUP. My life! The other week my friend saw my legs at the gym & was astounded at how much hair I have on them. Hahah no f's given though
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  • Diesel615Diesel615 member
    So glad I'm not alone.......I feel like the biggest bum. My house is a disgusting mess. I haven't vacuumed in WEEKS and there's dust bunnies all over. It's all I can do to go to work and then I just sit there all day not wanting to move or do anything. When I'm home I live in sweats or my pj's and don't move from my chair unless I have to go to the bathroom. I don't have a cute bump. I have a roll and bloat and just feel fat and gross.  I haven't done any Christmas shopping and really don't feel like it. Blah.....I hope this passes soon. 
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  • arosemongarosemong member
    Diesel615 said:

    So glad I'm not alone.......I feel like the biggest bum. My house is a disgusting mess. I haven't vacuumed in WEEKS and there's dust bunnies all over. It's all I can do to go to work and then I just sit there all day not wanting to move or do anything. When I'm home I live in sweats or my pj's and don't move from my chair unless I have to go to the bathroom. I don't have a cute bump. I have a roll and bloat and just feel fat and gross.  I haven't done any Christmas shopping and really don't feel like it. Blah.....I hope this passes soon. 



    I wish we lived in the same state so we could vent about this together, while watching tv & snacking. We are twins.
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  • SMLmomSMLmom member
    I love this!  I hate showering lately.  I've developed the capacity to eat a ridiculous amount of smartfood in one sitting. I haven't been to the gym in weeks.  I look forward to eating carbs and sleeping.  I feel like my husband must feel like a single parent sometimes- poor guy. I swear even my daughter is giving me funny looks sometimes- mummy's looking rough.
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  • lunagrl79lunagrl79 member
    I'm so happy to see this thread. I have been struggling. Sweats only. Laundry? What is that? I don't shave, my eyebrows are out of control and so many zits. I'm embarrassed to even go out but sometimes I do to eat, and usually in my pjs. Supposed to go with a friend to see a Christmas vacation on the big screen tonight and I'm dreading it because I don't want to wear real clothes.
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  • HBamama2BHBamama2B member
    Lol. Had my friend arrive from out of town this morning. Frantically tried to clean he house in 45 minutes. Kinda worked ish? We went for a mani pedi though and I forgot that I've forgotten how long it's been since I shaved. I apologized to the nail tach and said "I'm in my first trimester" praying she'd have a clue and not judge to hard. :)
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  • UseTheTriforce94UseTheTriforce94 member

    Yes! I feel like a grumpy behemoth. My bump just looks like I either have a drinking/bingeing problem and I lose my breath easily so I feel like a stomping, panting, scowling, perpetually hungry but also nauseous pile of hormonal mess.



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  • dennyandleedennyandlee member
    arosemong said:
    Yes! All I've been doing since last weekend is coughing & trying to cough up phlegm. I feel like I'm hocking lugies every second it's awful. I also feel like a slob because I have no energy to clean when I can't get over this cold! Ugh!
    This is me.  The post-nasal drip is going to drive me insane!!

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  • HighFive16HighFive16 member
    Me!! I'm gassy, gagging and all I want to do is lie down. I don't feel like dressing up. I just want to stay awake!!
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  • BabySolemateBabySolemate member
    I'm only 14 weeks and just starting by belly bump but I haven't yet not felt like a bloated peace of crap. And never weighing more then 110lbs in my life my expanding belly view is getting me more depressed and self concious then I thought imaginable! I have body acne and just want to sleep 12 or more hours a day! My husband and I have never had much of a sex life but it's been non existent since we conceived. I do fear I have some pregnancy depression.
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  • gauge1234gauge1234 member
    This made me laugh so hard!! Thank you for the honesty now I know I'm not alone. I'm on the upswing now but there was a point when I wore the same bathrobe every day, ate specifically lucky charms with skim milk, red Gatorade, and mini chef boyardee ... I have shaved once in the last 3 months. Only out of necessity because skirts are more comfy than pants. My husband wants to have sex but I'm bloated and Zitty and cranky and I sleep at least 12-14 hours a day.... Needless to say the trying part was fun but this has been quite the drought lol.
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  • samsonatorsamsonator member
    kjo79 said:

    I'm so happy to see this thread. I have been struggling. Sweats only. Laundry? What is that? I don't shave, my eyebrows are out of control and so many zits. I'm embarrassed to even go out but sometimes I do to eat, and usually in my pjs. Supposed to go with a friend to see a Christmas vacation on the big screen tonight and I'm dreading it because I don't want to wear real clothes.

    This is how feel!! I went to the derm to get a mole check and as she was checking my legs I realized how long my leg hair was!! Oooops! Then she asked me if I wanted her to do anything about "all that acne" on my face. I came home feeling like a hairy zitty blob :( With one less mole.
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  • Atlast111Atlast111 member
    @samsonator. Don't worry about the zits....I'm now resigned to them. I just don't care anymore. Impossible finding decent products that are pregnancy friendly here as we don't have belli range. Thank God for Laura Mercier! Just apply my tinted moisturiser with a trowl now! Quite honestly even the make up can barely cope. :wink:
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  • NikiCochranNikiCochran member
    I hate showering and all the things the come after to get ready. I basically hop in the shower, wash off and if I'm feeling good I'll wash my hair. My husband scheduled me an appointment last Saturday for a cut and color and I cried because I didn't want to have to get ready to go. I will say, I felt so much better after I got a fresh cut and color but I still feel like being a slob. At least he tried. I've just decided that wearing my pajamas all day every day is perfectly acceptable for now.
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  • SarahMike2014SarahMike2014 member
    Best thread ever! So nice to see I'm not the only one! LOL
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  • SMLmomSMLmom member
    @BabySolemate I hear you on the sex life issue!  We're trying to get ours back now but I can't say I'm really enjoying it to be honest.  My boobs are still sore, I still feel like puking most of the time... just not so sexy.  Hope you feel more like yourself soon.
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  • m8881m8881 member
    This thread just made my day. Thank you thank you.
    Every single one of these is me. I've been feeling so down on myself and my bff and mom n H can't seem to say anything that helps. I feel gross, ugly, fat, useless and lazy. I consider compiling the laundry into once place a huge achievement. Dishes I just ignore. I dressed my poor 4 yr old in an inside out red T for his holiday program because nothing else was clean. Thank goodness he was standing in the back.
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  • AshKerynAshKeryn member
    Obviously not alone here! I feel gross 99% of the time. Awkward stage where nothing looks good on me, completely lazy, hate taking a shower because it makes me nauseous.. And let's not forget the discharge!!
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  • likeabellikeabel member
    I feel great!

    Hahahahah no I'm just kidding!! I feel like poop. What is it about showering that just sucks? I try my hardest to shower every other day but it's like 4-5 days between hair washing. It's such a production to ultimately end up in a messy bun.

    When I was pregnant with DS I took a bump photo every week and made a little collage with photos from: 12,16,20,24,28,32,36&40 weeks. I'd love to do it again but I'm still working on taking a 12 week bump photo and I'm almost 15 weeks. Whoops.
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  • Shanna2016Shanna2016 member
    Hello ladies, I agree with most people here, PJ'S and bed lol. My hubby ran around yesterday doing all the laundry and tidying up and I sat on the couch. He just kept looking at me laughing. I agree I just feel like doing nothing lately and I'm in the "has she been gaining weight stage" so no baby bump but plenty of "water weight" I'm going to call it lol.

    We opted for hiring a cleaner to come in just before company arrives on the 24th so o don't have to run around doing it after work.
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