Honestly, I don't know the gender of your baby because I'm not experienced in that field, however I do think that you are in the right of asking. She's not showing us a picture of a 6 weeks old embreo askingto be Ramzied. She is only asking if we agree. Also, it's a fetus. If you all are concerned about the "privacy" of her unborn childs penis or lack thereof, then why did you even open the thread? You knew what you were going to see based on the title. Maybe we can tone the attitudes down and actually be supportive and nice, you know, which is the actual point of being a part of this community.
That's why I stopped posting in here. The rudeness is ridiculous. I stay on glow or CafeMom lots of fun, love and support.
@1mae2016 Thank you for your post. I of course totally agree with your post. I am a first time mom preg with twins and don't post on here often at all because the general reaction to any question posted looking for opinions or personal thought from others the poster gets slayed. As adults what we do if our children took this example and used it against kids at school? Would we not wonder how they could think that was ok to shame another? It is not ok to be mean to people because they ask. If you have got nothing nice to say don't say anything. As I have a think skin from a tough life, not all people do. What makes anyone here think that it's ok to potentially destroy someone who asks for your opinion. My disappointment in the reactions of what is supposed to be a community for support and help for others is overwhelming.
I understand that you feel disappointed. If you were more involved in this community, I think you would find that when people have legitimate issues, the ladies and few guys here actually are incredibly supportive. We just have little patience left for drive-by posts asking for expertise we don't have to pit up against a sonographer's expertise-- especially since there have been so many of this same sort of post over the past few months. It's easy to search and see them. There's no reason to drag our children into this.
@1mae2016 Thank you for your post. I of course totally agree with your post. I am a first time mom preg with twins and don't post on here often at all because the general reaction to any question posted looking for opinions or personal thought from others the poster gets slayed. As adults what we do if our children took this example and used it against kids at school? Would we not wonder how they could think that was ok to shame another? It is not ok to be mean to people because they ask. If you have got nothing nice to say don't say anything. As I have a think skin from a tough life, not all people do. What makes anyone here think that it's ok to potentially destroy someone who asks for your opinion. My disappointment in the reactions of what is supposed to be a community for support and help for others is overwhelming.
I'm a teacher. When my students ask questions after already being told the information, or ask a question that has already been asked, they are shamed a bit by their classmates and me. I would gladly use this as an example to pay attention, follow instructions, and to read and listen before acting. People should lurk and learn.
Re: sonogram...boy or girl
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Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)