How far along are you: Rants/Raves/Symptoms: What are you doing to get ready for baby? (Feel free to skip this question if you don't have anything) Questions? GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I had a complete meltdown last night, for no apparent reason. I took something DH said WAY too seriously, which then spiraled into holy fuck these hormones are batshit crazy, will DH still love me even if I'm BSC? DH then comes back into the house and bravely proceeds to ask if I need anything. I say no, and he comes over to me, says "I know what you need" and just hugs me for a good 2 minutes as I'm sobbing. I feel like all of my hormones that I was supposed to have the first 12 weeks just built up and exploded all at once right at the end of this first trimester. It's exhausting.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The pure and utter exhaustion for sure. Either I am sleeping all the time, or if I'm not sleeping I wish I was because the lack of sleep just causes me to be cranky and emotional.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Yesterday's reprieve from MS was short-lived. Threw up before I even had a chance to pee after I got up this morning. On the other hand, yay 11 weeks!
Also, my dang dog refuses to consistently do her business in our backyard. Thinking ahead to logistics with a newborn, I will NOT be packing up the baby in the heat, cold, thunderstorms, rain, and sleet to take the dog out for a walk 4-5 times a day so her heiness can pee whrn we have a perfectly good yard. I've tried saying "go potty" WHILE she's peeing on walks for over a week in hopes she'll link that phrase with eliminating, I've given her treats and praise immediately on the rare occasion she DOES use the yard. Nothing. I stood in the facking yard with her for 20 minutes this morning, and she didn't so much as piddle. She's a freaking German Shepherd! Figure it out already, dog!!
End rant.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Teaching my damn dog to pee in the yard. Keeping it a secret until we were ready to share.
Rants/Raves/symptoms? Symptoms/ rave? Still feeling like utter and total crap at 13 weeks. I figured I'm nearing the end of this but not so much. Miserable the last 3 days.
Sounds like you've got a winner, @mrsschmity - gotta love a man who can handle all our BSC pregnant moments!
How far along are you:
11 + 4
Rants/Raves/Symptoms:
I was given the whole day off today, & I was so looking forward to sleeping in this morning...but, that didn't happen. So now I'm just enjoying lounging on the couch in my yoga pants, watching daytime TV. I have a Dr. appt this afternoon to meet a potential new family doctor for both DH & I (& baby)...anyone's got to be better than my current twatwaffle of a doctor.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Ugh, I agree with you @mrsschmity ...the exhaustion is horrible. I am so tired during the day that I can hardly function, & at times it physically hurts. But then I struggle to stay asleep at night & am never able to sleep in (when the opportunity for that is there)...so I'm stuck in this vicious cycle.
I'd also have to say that I struggle a lot with being positive. I'm constantly fighting the fears of losing the baby. It didn't help that my midwife wasn't able to find the heartbeat last week (mind you, I was 10w5d & the baby was still so low down & hidden)...so now I'm just a nervous wreck waiting for my u/s on Friday. It's been a big struggle to not be so damn paranoid.
@mrsschmity: Sounds like you've got a pretty awesome husband. I understand, these wild hormones on top of just the emotions involved in physically and mentally preparing for a new baby can be exhausting. Hugs lady!
@DeePaddy24: Hope you enjoy your day off, and that you like the new doctor! You're right, I'm sure your baby is doing just fine, and was just tucked down a little too low for the doppler. I understand how that would be scary, but I'm sure all will be fine at your u/s!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I woke up slightly nauseated this morning which is new. I think my prenatal is bothering my stomach again. I feel fine, take my pill after lunch, then kind of feel like crap until the next morning. That hasn't happened since week 6! Boo.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? I think I'm going to start taping off the room for paint. Probably won't actually paint for a little while, but taping is the worst part so I want it done.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I think my biggest struggle has been worrying. I am far more educated on everything than the first time around... So I knew the risks and different scenarios for early on. Then I had very slight symptoms that completely disappeared around week 7. DH got irritated with me for being a downer, but I felt I was just being realistic.
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@crdo and @DeePaddy24 DH is great. He really really is. I thought I would breeze through this pregnancy all happy and giddy-like without too much of the BSC hormones. Yeah no. Kudos to our husbands for putting up with it! I think I'll nickname my hormones "BSC" so I can warn DH that BSC is back in the house and he can prepare himself.
@crdo How old is your dog? We had the same problem when we were potty-training ours. It took a while, but she finally figured it out. We used "hurry up" as our trigger word. FX she starts peeing in the yard soon!
@mrsschmity: She's 4!! The kicker is her foster mom would just let her out in the (fenced) yard and say "go potty", which apparently worked just fine. She comes to my house....nada. IDK if it made a difference that she was in a herd of 4 other dogs at the foster's house, so maybe the group inspired her to pee? I'm losing patience....which I feel bad about, but there it is.
Did you use treats, or just keep taking her out there every single time until she got it?
@hockeyfan42: Way to go! I hate taping as well--good for you for knocking it out. I just keep giving our nursery room the side eye since it needs a lot of help.
@crdo Man, that's tough! I'm assuming it has something to do with the change in environment maybe? We used treats and praise when she was first getting the hang of it - once she went potty outside we would praise her with "Good Job" and gave her a treat right after. When you let her out are you watching her the entire time? Maybe just let her out and leave her out for 15-20 minutes while you go back inside if that's an option. Our dog will wander around forever trying to find the "perfect spot" if we sit there and watch. Now I just open the door, let her out and she comes and sits at the door when she's done and ready to come inside.
Hi Ladies. I've been MIA but with vacations and end of year work crazy I haven't had much time to do anything!
How far along are you: 13+4 Rants/Raves/Symptoms: MS is pretty much going away. Just feeling fat now. Bump is trying to come out!
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Ha - we haven't done much. We are both learn as you go people so we will figure this out. We won't buy anything until we figure out the gender. I opted out the 13 week testing, mainly due to insurance, so we should figure that out around 20 weeks I suppose. I'm not really in that much of a hurry.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
EXHAUSTION AND NAUSEA! The nausea is gone for the most part, but I'm still tired.
@mrsschmity: My lawd, that's awesome. Well done on the training! Our yard isn't fenced, so I have to be out there with her at all times....ugh.
We had another dog who passed a little over a year ago, who was with us from apartment living (where we HAD to take him out for every potty break) to when we bought our house with a yard. I do remember it took a while to teach him to pee in the yard, but it got to the point where we could let him out, he'd do his business, and come right back in. Maybe I blocked out all his training frustration or something, but I don't remember this much drama.
@mrsschimity -- your husband sounds so sweet! I'm glad you have a supportive partner!
@crdo -- so frustrating to hear about your dog! Hopefully you can get him trained using positive reinforcement, treats, etc. before baby comes. Keep us posted!
@deepaddy24 -- I'm in exactly the same boat. Very anxious to make sure the LO is still kicking around in there. I had no idea the first trimester would be so fraught with worry. It seems like it's never safe to relax.
How far along are you: 11 weeks!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: My nausea is becoming intermittent which is actually more annoying than when I could count on it. I'm trying to eat frequently but it seems like I under-eat and then get hungry and nauseous or I overeat and get full and nauseous. No winning!
Questions? Anyone have any good mocktail recipes? Not that I'm a complete drunk, but it's going to be so weird spending the holidays sober. It would be nice to have something fancy to sip on!
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The constant worry. First, it was worrying that we would get pregnant, then it was worrying about whether or not the pregnancy would stick. I went through a period where I was convinced I had a molar pregnancy. I had an u/s to date my pregnancy and the baby had a strong heartbeat and was measuring on schedule and I'm still worried about missed miscarriages, genetic testing. Everyone talks about how magical pregnancy is but I have no confidence in my body or my ability to grow a human. The whole thing is hard for me to wrap my head around. If I'm this much of a wreck now, I worry that I'll suffocate this poor child with my worry once s/he's actually here.
Welcome back @KOR121! Glad to hear the MS is leaving. Ditto on the feeling fat part...I'm 13+4 too and this definitely isn't bloat anymore. Baby S is trying to make it's presence known.
@MrsSchmity What an amazing guy! It's awesome he takes care of you like that.
@DeePaddy24 I'm sorry you are dealing with worry. I totally understand!! I have a history of loss so I find myself worrying a lot.
How far along are you: 11+5
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I had a meltdown day all day yesterday. It started with not being able to find any pants that still fit. I finally just grabbed a rubber band and went on. Then I started with MS, I thought it was going away but I was unable to keep anything down yesterday. No matter what my BF did he annoyed me. I ended up telling him "I love you but I need my space today", which oddly he accepted (he usually wouldn't). My 9 years two best friends ditched him yesterday then hung out all evening and excluded him, which is weird for them. He was very hurt and upset! I thought I was going to have to bring the hammer down on some 9 year olds...now that is BSC.
We have an appointment today. I think they will give us full details of the Panorama and we will have the NT done.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Exhaustion...I am too old to be doing this. I am also really starting to worry. I am getting to the time frame with my other losses and I'm starting to get PGaL brain.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I'm home sick for day 2 again today with this freaking sinus infection. I'm miserable and wish there was simmering she I could do to get rid of it. Besides rest, neti pot, hydrate, and steam, I'm all out of options. Calling the doctor today. This is the second one I've had this PG.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Trying to read up while I'm out of work so I'm more mentally prepared for what's to come.
Questions? Anyone have a cure for sinus infections?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Staying healthy. This getting sick business is getting old! That and battling extreme fatigue and struggling with getting through work. I feel like I've been a horrible teacher lately.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? (Feel free to skip this question if you don't have anything)
Questions? Nope
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Having little energy to be the mom I'd like to be- I try to take a quick nap after work/before the kids get home from school, and I'm getting more energy each day, but it's been tough. And feeling like shiz...
@crdo That is very frustrating about your dog's potty habits. Maybe you could try acting like you are going on a walk, like put on the leash, but then just walk around in the yard? Reward and praise like crazy for peeing in the yard. Then work toward not needing to walk with the dog?
@crdo That is very frustrating about your dog's potty habits. Maybe you could try acting like you are going on a walk, like put on the leash, but then just walk around in the yard? Reward and praise like crazy for peeing in the yard. Then work toward not needing to walk with the dog?
That's something I haven't tried. Thanks for the suggestion! I'll give that a shot and see if we make any progress.
@crdo - Could you do an electric fence? We moved into our house in the winter and couldn't put in a fence until the spring, so we put in the electric fence and it made life with dogs SO MUCH EASIER. Not having to hook them to their cables and untangle them and watch them... so much better. Good luck with the training! It's a pain, but she'll get there eventually! @MrsAlliKat had a great idea too, I would definitely try that!
How far along are you: 11w6d
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Every day I hope the nausea is going away, every day I'm disappointed. No rants or raves today. Just waiting for the weekend...
Questions? Anybody have bumps all over their shoulders/chest/stomach? It's not acne and it's not hives, but it's like a weird in-between thing and it's horrendous! I don't know how to get rid of them. They don't itch, they just annoy the crap out of me.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Anything food related. Being hungry and not liking any of the options, not being able to tolerate cooking, eating junk food and then having digestive issues for days, feeling like puking but never actually doing it... ugh. I want to have a normal relationship with food again.
How far along are you: 12w5d Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I just won a big project at work, and it came at the perfect time -right during the start of performance reviews! What are you doing to get ready for baby? I'm about to head out the door for an appointment with my OB. I think we'll get to see the baby (but i forgot to ask for sure! ) we're also doing the Progenity verifi test today. Questions? None today. GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The exhaustion. I thought it was getting better, but that lasted for about 2 days. Now i just want to sleep. ALL.THE.TIME.
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How far along are you: 13+4
-Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Been feeling little cramps and tugs lately, and wearing a belly band every day now to work because none of my jeans fit, but I almost want to look *more* pregnant and not just fat, like I feel!
-What are you doing to get ready for baby?Trying to sell some furniture. H moved from SC to NYC and brought HUGE furniture with him. Not NYC apartment furniture. The baby is a reason to get rid of it and get more space efficient and practical stuff. It's a little stressful since it's been months, and I feel like no one will buy it because it's not apartment friendly, and I would donate it but apparently it's very expensive. Refreshing those Craigslist ads until it's critical we get rid of it! We live in a one bedroom with a dining area that we are converting into a nursery, so every little bit counts. (It sounds cramped but we have a spacious place by Manhattan standards!)
-GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I had major anxiety and stress leading up to my 12 week appt because i didnt feel pregnant and I was convinced something was wrong. Add a side dish of hormones and I was a mess. Now I have anxiety about talking to my boss and starting to tell people. I need to relax!!!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Symptoms: Had a little bit of light pink/light brown tinged CM yesterday evening. I think it was from sex the night before. Haven't seen anything else since. Hoping it's nothing. That's the first bit of any kind of spotting I've had this entire pregnancy so I was surprised and concerned, but since there hasn't been anything since I'm feeling a little better. Other than that, some RLP and still super tired All. The. Time. Rant: I hate Wednesdays. You have only finished 2 work days and still have 2 to go. Ugh. Some weeks just drag on and on. Rave: Less than a week until my next appt! Beyond excited to see/hear the baby again. Just hoping that baby is growing growing growing and that everything is ok. Also, definitely seeing a little bump now that DH can see too. Probably no one else will notice, but excited that it's popping out and not just bloat!
What are you doing to get ready for baby?Nothing much yet. I think after our next appt, we will start doing all the things. I can't wait!
Questions?None atm
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Worrying! I don't think I will stop worrying that this baby is okay until it's here and in my arms. I am definitely a worrier by nature too.
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Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Last day of regular classes today! So that's fun. Other than that, I'm feeling much better the last few days so nothing to report.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Nada. After I get the results of the NT scan I'm having done today, we'll probably start working on that.
Questions? Ooh! I have one, today. For you that have named a baby before, if you were stuck in between two names, how did you pick? Did you just leave them both on the table until birth or did one just click one day over the other? DH and I both like Lincoln and Oliver but we don't like them together. Both prospects have different middle names attached. Of course we don't know what we're having yet so it might be a non issue as we have our girl name solidified.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I think just being pregnant and exhausted on top of work and school. I usually try to give 100% in both areas but lately I've been lucky to give 75%. It's something that really bothers me, but I also have to take care of myself and this baby and pumping myself full of caffeine and staying up most of the night for a few days at a time to make sure the paper I'm turning in is the BEST I can do just can't happen anymore.
@lolonvive this might be dumb but how do you change your username!? When I made mine for this app I didn't realize that there was a community aspect (it was just the first pregnancy app that popped up in my Google store) - I just thought it was a username to log in and out of my app. I'd like to at least take my full last name off, haha. But I figured I was out of luck.
@Kballew10 Yes! Those stupid bumps are annoying me soooo bad! I've always had great skin and now my chest/back/shoulders are covered in those stupid bumps!
@crdo When she does go make it a HUGE deal and say "good potty" so she incorporates that word for what she's doing. Some dogs are more toy/play driven then food. So that may be the case if she's not responding to treats. So when she goes throw her favorite toy or do some type of play with her to make her excited, too, about what she just did.
How far along are you: 11+2
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I'm just miserable! These hormones are really getting to me! I'm becoming depressed which scares me because I had HORRIBLE depression until I was in my early 20's (now 29), and I was able to manage it and get through it. I know it's the hormones, but it still scares me when I'm depressed for no reason. I'm also on edge and ready to snap at anyone and everything (thankfully haven't, except my poor DH that has been taking it and just walks away then asks if I need anything and tries to support me). I can't stop eating..I'm hungry all the time and get nauseous if I don't eat. I have no motivation at work and have to drag myself out of bed every morning to go. What's really bugging me is I feel like Scrooge. I usually LOVE Christmas, but this year I don't feel like decorating or shopping or anything. Sorry for all the rants...today is just a crappy day.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The hormones and being nauseous all the time and EXHAUSTED.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I've been feeling really good and I was worried about it until we got to see baby Monday I had to drive to GA from OH yesterday for work and we had to stop so many times for me to pee!!
Questions? Nada
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The worrying! I have been constantly worrying about the health of baby and something going wrong. Now that we're past our second appointment I'm going to try and calm down and just enjoy the pregnancy more...we shall see how that goes!
@Kballew10: A fence (electric or otherwise) is kind of a last-ditch solution for us, but one we'd consider if she just WON'T be trained. My MIL has one for her 2 dogs, and it works great for them like it does for you. So, maybe in the future!
@KTLehan: That's a good point--she LOVES to play and be outside, and she LOVES food. So, I guess it'll just take even more emphasis on giving scary praise, treats, and a play reward after she uses the yard.
@ahernandez16 Same! I didnt really know about the community aspect and also used my last name. Theres no intuitive way to do it, you have to contact the folks at the bump directly!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: My H clearly learned nothing from my first pregnancy. I have ONE rule while Im pregnant. DONT EAT MY FOOD. I don't understand how he hasn't learned this yet.....
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Just slowly cleaning out the office so we can remodel it and start on DS's big boy room after the new year - I wont actually be able to re-decorate the nursery until a couple months after baby is born due to DS still needing the crib until August. But getting his big boy room ready makes me feel like im making progress.
Questions?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I haven't had much of anything in the symptoms dept. - much the same as my first pregnancy. I would have to say getting over the guilt of my son not being an "only" any more - working through how having a sibling is going to be great for him (which logically I know it will - obviously we wanted him to have a sibling) - but its kinda a whole different ball game once I was actually pregnant and dealing with those feelings.
@crdo and @DeePaddy24 DH is great. He really really is. I thought I would breeze through this pregnancy all happy and giddy-like without too much of the BSC hormones. Yeah no. Kudos to our husbands for putting up with it! I think I'll nickname my hormones "BSC" so I can warn DH that BSC is back in the house and he can prepare himself.
Me too! But I am definitely BSC.
How far along are you: 12w4d
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Still nauseous but getting better.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Finding out I was a Fragile X carrier threw me for a fucking loop... All is well now, but that was a really rough 2 days emotionally.
@lolonvive this might be dumb but how do you change your username!? When I made mine for this app I didn't realize that there was a community aspect (it was just the first pregnancy app that popped up in my Google store) - I just thought it was a username to log in and out of my app. I'd like to at least take my full last name off, haha. But I figured I was out of luck.
You can change your user name on the knot. Go to theknot.com and log in with your bump info. Then under account settings you can change your user name and it will change on here.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Post masks drip and terrible sinus headaches! I am so fed up!!!
Questions? Are we there yet?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
I thought the second tri would bring me relief but noooooo, I had to suffer with HG since I was 6 weeks, now the ms is going down and I only get it in the evening, but I've got a post nasal drip that is making me gag and giving me an upset tummy and really bad daily headaches!!!!! Low blood pressure and dizziness are also starting to affect me and if I don't eat every two hours I get faint. I have gotten I think every symptom there is and I just want to enjoy being pregnant!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!
How far along are you: 12w 3d Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Forgot to eat something or take my Diclectin before running out the door for my 45 minute morning commute. It was a rough morning. GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Taking care of my toddler while being sick and exhausted. I feel like a bad mom because I spend so much time just lying around and hoping she'll play quietly by herself for a while. So much iPad and tv for her. Sorry girly hoping I get some energy back soon so we can enjoy the last months of her time as an only child.
@NLewis1 I feel you on the sibling guilt! It's hard for me to imagine how my daughter will feel having to adjust to not being the only kid, and having our attention so divided. DH and I are both youngest children so I feel like we will never really know how to relate to her as an oldest child or understand her feelings...I'm sure it'll be fine but I guess I'm just scared for our relationship to change.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Bloaty bloat bloat bloat. Either that or the baby is already attempting to bust out of my pelvis. Given that I'm a FTM, I'm going to go with the former but hey, we'll find out how they're doing on size next week. You never know. In other news, super excited that I'm not a carrier for the handful of genetic diseases I was screened for. DH has a high likelihood of being a carrier for a handful of neurodegenerative diseases (1 in 4 chance he is a carrier for at least one on the panel) due to his ancestry so knowing I'm officially not a carrier for any of them is a big weight off my shoulders.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?: Exhaustion. I always have been the type of person who doesn't do well on low sleep. Pregnancy has added a whole new scope to the exhaustion, especially since I cut out caffeine entirely when I got my positive test. Anxiety about all the things that could go wrong ends up flooding into my head if I try to fall asleep in silence but DH can't fall asleep with any noise in the room unless he's utterly exhausted so its been a fun couple of weeks to say the least. As long as we see a healthy baby at the NT scan next week, I think the anxiety will calm down.
@lolonvive this might be dumb but how do you change your username!? When I made mine for this app I didn't realize that there was a community aspect (it was just the first pregnancy app that popped up in my Google store) - I just thought it was a username to log in and out of my app. I'd like to at least take my full last name off, haha. But I figured I was out of luck.
You can change your user name on the knot. Go to theknot.com and log in with your bump info. Then under account settings you can change your user name and it will change on here.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms -- my MS and other symptoms have pretty much subsided... I don't even really feel pregnant at this point... I'm a little more tired than usual and always hungry but what's new haha
Questions --- anyone else around 15 weeks not feel pregnant? Anyone know another way to get fruit in? I have a major fruit aversion ((too sweet)) and I've been th roughing it in my smoothies, but that gets boring sometimes
GTKY --- worrying that something is wrong... I mean how do I know that baby is okay? I had a miscarriage August 2014 so worry bee has become my middle name
Re: WEDNESDAY CHECK-IN
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I had a complete meltdown last night, for no apparent reason. I took something DH said WAY too seriously, which then spiraled into holy fuck these hormones are batshit crazy, will DH still love me even if I'm BSC? DH then comes back into the house and bravely proceeds to ask if I need anything. I say no, and he comes over to me, says "I know what you need" and just hugs me for a good 2 minutes as I'm sobbing. I feel like all of my hormones that I was supposed to have the first 12 weeks just built up and exploded all at once right at the end of this first trimester. It's exhausting.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The pure and utter exhaustion for sure. Either I am sleeping all the time, or if I'm not sleeping I wish I was because the lack of sleep just causes me to be cranky and emotional.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Yesterday's reprieve from MS was short-lived. Threw up before I even had a chance to pee after I got up this morning. On the other hand, yay 11 weeks!
Also, my dang dog refuses to consistently do her business in our backyard. Thinking ahead to logistics with a newborn, I will NOT be packing up the baby in the heat, cold, thunderstorms, rain, and sleet to take the dog out for a walk 4-5 times a day so her heiness can pee whrn we have a perfectly good yard. I've tried saying "go potty" WHILE she's peeing on walks for over a week in hopes she'll link that phrase with eliminating, I've given her treats and praise immediately on the rare occasion she DOES use the yard. Nothing. I stood in the facking yard with her for 20 minutes this morning, and she didn't so much as piddle. She's a freaking German Shepherd! Figure it out already, dog!!
End rant.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Teaching my damn dog to pee in the yard.
Keeping it a secret until we were ready to share.
Rants/Raves/symptoms? Symptoms/ rave? Still feeling like utter and total crap at 13 weeks. I figured I'm nearing the end of this but not so much. Miserable the last 3 days.
Questions? None
GTKY? The constant dryheaving and nausea.
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@cmillar36: Hope your MS eases up soon!
@DeePaddy24: Hope you enjoy your day off, and that you like the new doctor! You're right, I'm sure your baby is doing just fine, and was just tucked down a little too low for the doppler. I understand how that would be scary, but I'm sure all will be fine at your u/s!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms:
I woke up slightly nauseated this morning which is new. I think my prenatal is bothering my stomach again. I feel fine, take my pill after lunch, then kind of feel like crap until the next morning. That hasn't happened since week 6! Boo.
What are you doing to get ready for baby?
I think I'm going to start taping off the room for paint. Probably won't actually paint for a little while, but taping is the worst part so I want it done.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
I think my biggest struggle has been worrying. I am far more educated on everything than the first time around... So I knew the risks and different scenarios for early on. Then I had very slight symptoms that completely disappeared around week 7. DH got irritated with me for being a downer, but I felt I was just being realistic.
@DeePaddy24 FX you find a doctor you like today!
@hockeyfan42 Get the taping done now! That is literally my least favorite part of painting. It sucks.
Did you use treats, or just keep taking her out there every single time until she got it?
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: MS is pretty much going away. Just feeling fat now. Bump is trying to come out!
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
We had another dog who passed a little over a year ago, who was with us from apartment living (where we HAD to take him out for every potty break) to when we bought our house with a yard. I do remember it took a while to teach him to pee in the yard, but it got to the point where we could let him out, he'd do his business, and come right back in. Maybe I blocked out all his training frustration or something, but I don't remember this much drama.
Thanks for the tips! I'll keep at it....grr.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I had a meltdown day all day yesterday. It started with not being able to find any pants that still fit. I finally just grabbed a rubber band and went on. Then I started with MS, I thought it was going away but I was unable to keep anything down yesterday. No matter what my BF did he annoyed me. I ended up telling him "I love you but I need my space today", which oddly he accepted (he usually wouldn't). My 9 years two best friends ditched him yesterday then hung out all evening and excluded him, which is weird for them. He was very hurt and upset! I thought I was going to have to bring the hammer down on some 9 year olds...now that is BSC.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
EDD: 06/25/2006 M/C: 11/03/2005
EDD: 04/08/2012 M/C: 09/03/2011
EDD: 12/27/2012 Born Sleeping: 07/19/2012
EDD: 12/07/2013 M/C 05/30/2013 & 05/31/2013
EDD: 07/01/2016 Born sleeping: 03/02/2016
13 today!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms:
I'm home sick for day 2 again today with this freaking sinus infection. I'm miserable and wish there was simmering she I could do to get rid of it. Besides rest, neti pot, hydrate, and steam, I'm all out of options. Calling the doctor today. This is the second one I've had this PG.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Trying to read up while I'm out of work so I'm more mentally prepared for what's to come.
Questions?
Anyone have a cure for sinus infections?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Staying healthy. This getting sick business is getting old! That and battling extreme fatigue and struggling with getting through work. I feel like I've been a horrible teacher lately.
15w today!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms:
Just feeling meh
What are you doing to get ready for baby? (Feel free to skip this question if you don't have anything)
Questions?
Nope
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Having little energy to be the mom I'd like to be- I try to take a quick nap after work/before the kids get home from school, and I'm getting more energy each day, but it's been tough. And feeling like shiz...
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Every day I hope the nausea is going away, every day I'm disappointed. No rants or raves today. Just waiting for the weekend...
Questions? Anybody have bumps all over their shoulders/chest/stomach? It's not acne and it's not hives, but it's like a weird in-between thing and it's horrendous! I don't know how to get rid of them. They don't itch, they just annoy the crap out of me.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Anything food related. Being hungry and not liking any of the options, not being able to tolerate cooking, eating junk food and then having digestive issues for days, feeling like puking but never actually doing it... ugh. I want to have a normal relationship with food again.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I just won a big project at work, and it came at the perfect time -right during the start of performance reviews!
What are you doing to get ready for baby? I'm about to head out the door for an appointment with my OB. I think we'll get to see the baby (but i forgot to ask for sure! ) we're also doing the Progenity verifi test today.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
The exhaustion. I thought it was getting better, but that lasted for about 2 days. Now i just want to sleep. ALL.THE.TIME.
-Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Been feeling little cramps and tugs lately, and wearing a belly band every day now to work because none of my jeans fit, but I almost want to look *more* pregnant and not just fat, like I feel!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Symptoms: Had a little bit of light pink/light brown tinged CM yesterday evening. I think it was from sex the night before. Haven't seen anything else since. Hoping it's nothing. That's the first bit of any kind of spotting I've had this entire pregnancy so I was surprised and concerned, but since there hasn't been anything since I'm feeling a little better. Other than that, some RLP and still super tired All. The. Time. Rant: I hate Wednesdays. You have only finished 2 work days and still have 2 to go. Ugh. Some weeks just drag on and on. Rave: Less than a week until my next appt! Beyond excited to see/hear the baby again. Just hoping that baby is growing growing growing and that everything is ok. Also, definitely seeing a little bump now that DH can see too. Probably no one else will notice, but excited that it's popping out and not just bloat!
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Nothing much yet. I think after our next appt, we will start doing all the things. I can't wait!
Questions? None atm
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Worrying! I don't think I will stop worrying that this baby is okay until it's here and in my arms. I am definitely a worrier by nature too.
Me - 33, DH - 33
Married - May 2014
DH - Low Count/Motility/Morph - Varicocele vein x 2 - surgery (8/11) - success!
BFP - 10/10/15, EDD - 6/20/16 - It's a BOY!
Baby #1 - 6/29/16 - Lucas Christopher, 10 lbs 3 oz, 22.25 inches
Baby #2 - TTC May 2017
BFP - 9/10/17, EDD - 5/26/18 - It's a GIRL! - RCS May 22nd
My Chart
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Last day of regular classes today! So that's fun. Other than that, I'm feeling much better the last few days so nothing to report.
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Nada. After I get the results of the NT scan I'm having done today, we'll probably start working on that.
Questions? Ooh! I have one, today. For you that have named a baby before, if you were stuck in between two names, how did you pick? Did you just leave them both on the table until birth or did one just click one day over the other? DH and I both like Lincoln and Oliver but we don't like them together. Both prospects have different middle names attached. Of course we don't know what we're having yet so it might be a non issue as we have our girl name solidified.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I think just being pregnant and exhausted on top of work and school. I usually try to give 100% in both areas but lately I've been lucky to give 75%. It's something that really bothers me, but I also have to take care of myself and this baby and pumping myself full of caffeine and staying up most of the night for a few days at a time to make sure the paper I'm turning in is the BEST I can do just can't happen anymore.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I'm just miserable! These hormones are really getting to me! I'm becoming depressed which scares me because I had HORRIBLE depression until I was in my early 20's (now 29), and I was able to manage it and get through it. I know it's the hormones, but it still scares me when I'm depressed for no reason. I'm also on edge and ready to snap at anyone and everything (thankfully haven't, except my poor DH that has been taking it and just walks away then asks if I need anything and tries to support me). I can't stop eating..I'm hungry all the time and get nauseous if I don't eat. I have no motivation at work and have to drag myself out of bed every morning to go. What's really bugging me is I feel like Scrooge. I usually LOVE Christmas, but this year I don't feel like decorating or shopping or anything. Sorry for all the rants...today is just a crappy day.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The hormones and being nauseous all the time and EXHAUSTED.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: I've been feeling really good and I was worried about it until we got to see baby Monday
Questions? Nada
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? The worrying! I have been constantly worrying about the health of baby and something going wrong. Now that we're past our second appointment I'm going to try and calm down and just enjoy the pregnancy more...we shall see how that goes!
@KTLehan: That's a good point--she LOVES to play and be outside, and she LOVES food. So, I guess it'll just take even more emphasis on giving scary praise, treats, and a play reward after she uses the yard.
How far along are you: 14 weeks today
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: My H clearly learned nothing from my first pregnancy. I have ONE rule while Im pregnant. DONT EAT MY FOOD. I don't understand how he hasn't learned this yet.....
What are you doing to get ready for baby? Just slowly cleaning out the office so we can remodel it and start on DS's big boy room after the new year - I wont actually be able to re-decorate the nursery until a couple months after baby is born due to DS still needing the crib until August. But getting his big boy room ready makes me feel like im making progress.
Questions?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? I haven't had much of anything in the symptoms dept. - much the same as my first pregnancy. I would have to say getting over the guilt of my son not being an "only" any more - working through how having a sibling is going to be great for him (which logically I know it will - obviously we wanted him to have a sibling) - but its kinda a whole different ball game once I was actually pregnant and dealing with those feelings.
Mrs. H
Crohn's Dx: August 2008
Endometriosis Dx: May 2010
Married: 05/19/2012
TTC #1: June 2013
BFP: December 2013
DS: Born 08/29/2014
TTC #2: July 2015
BFP #2: September 25, 2015
How far along are you: 12w4d
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Still nauseous but getting better.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Finding out I was a Fragile X carrier threw me for a fucking loop... All is well now, but that was a really rough 2 days emotionally.
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
14+4
Rants/Raves/Symptoms:
Post masks drip and terrible sinus headaches! I am so fed up!!!
Questions?
Are we there yet?
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
I thought the second tri would bring me relief but noooooo, I had to suffer with HG since I was 6 weeks, now the ms is going down and I only get it in the evening, but I've got a post nasal drip that is making me gag and giving me an upset tummy and really bad daily headaches!!!!! Low blood pressure and dizziness are also starting to affect me and if I don't eat every two hours I get faint. I have gotten I think every symptom there is and I just want to enjoy being pregnant!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Forgot to eat something or take my Diclectin before running out the door for my 45 minute morning commute. It was a rough morning.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far? Taking care of my toddler while being sick and exhausted. I feel like a bad mom because I spend so much time just lying around and hoping she'll play quietly by herself for a while. So much iPad and tv for her. Sorry girly
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Bloaty bloat bloat bloat. Either that or the baby is already attempting to bust out of my pelvis. Given that I'm a FTM, I'm going to go with the former but hey, we'll find out how they're doing on size next week. You never know.
In other news, super excited that I'm not a carrier for the handful of genetic diseases I was screened for. DH has a high likelihood of being a carrier for a handful of neurodegenerative diseases (1 in 4 chance he is a carrier for at least one on the panel) due to his ancestry so knowing I'm officially not a carrier for any of them is a big weight off my shoulders.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?: Exhaustion. I always have been the type of person who doesn't do well on low sleep. Pregnancy has added a whole new scope to the exhaustion, especially since I cut out caffeine entirely when I got my positive test. Anxiety about all the things that could go wrong ends up flooding into my head if I try to fall asleep in silence but DH can't fall asleep with any noise in the room unless he's utterly exhausted so its been a fun couple of weeks to say the least. As long as we see a healthy baby at the NT scan next week, I think the anxiety will calm down.
GTKY: What has been your biggest struggle during your pregnancy so far?
Rants/Raves/Symptoms -- my MS and other symptoms have pretty much subsided... I don't even really feel pregnant at this point... I'm a little more tired than usual and always hungry
Questions --- anyone else around 15 weeks not feel pregnant? Anyone know another way to get fruit in? I have a major fruit aversion ((too sweet)) and I've been th roughing it in my smoothies, but that gets boring sometimes
GTKY --- worrying that something is wrong... I mean how do I know that baby is okay? I had a miscarriage August 2014 so worry bee has become my middle name