Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!! (And a great weekend to our non-US friends).
Hi everyone! This is a two week wait post for anyone who is in or soon will be in the TWW. Tell us your symptoms (no matter how crazy they may be!), how many DPO you are, and when/if you'll test. Good luck everyone!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl!
7 DPO here. No symptoms to speak of, and I can't tell if I really feel like I might be pregnant or if I'm just telling myself that. 7 more long days to wait. Well. Longer, really, because I don't want to test until AF is a few days late if I can help myself. Good thing it's a busy week ahead. Hopefully that will help time pass more quickly.
Hey @sporty1216 ! 7dpo here too! Here's to a quick week!
I'd stopped temping past 3-4dpo in past months so I haven't seen a full cycle of temps for a while. Decided to keep temping this cycle and my temp went up a bit today. I'm not going to get my hopes up though as they were way too high last month and i was crushed when af came early. I'll keep temping and see what happens - I always know when I'm not pg as my temp used to start going down at 8dpo and be pretty close to coverline at 10dpo. We'll see.
I'm 11dpo. I haven't tested yet and had H hide all of my HPTs so that I'm not tempted to test early. Will be testing on Thursday, which will be 14dpo. It still seems so far away!!!
I don't have many symptoms. Breasts are a little sore/full, cramps here and there, feeling a bit tired, moody, emotional...but these have all become normal luteal phase things (on the cycles I actually O) so who knows. I don't "feel" pregnant. I don't know why the 2ww makes you lose all hope but somehow it does.
Fingers crossed we get some more BFPs soon ladies!!!
ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14) 11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!! Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805 12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)! 1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm) EDD: 8/10/16 8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches 5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo) Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
@jilligan14 - I do the same thing with DH hiding my hpt's. Way too tempting. Also - the times I had the least - or no symptoms - were the times I ended up pg, so hopefully your lack of symptoms is a good sign.
I am at the end of my tww. Betas getting drawn this morning. Eek! Not sure which way it will go. This our third ivf transfer. One was a bfp w/ early loss the second a bfn. My symptoms are somewhere in between this time. Plus w the progesterone shots you can't really read into them. So we will see... Keeping everything crossed.
Good luck everyone!
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
I am 8DPO and wondering how the 2WW keeps getting longer and longer and loooonnnger. Blah! I am feeling much less PMS being on Vitex this cycle which is really really nice. I am better able to keep the SS under control when I don't have PMS stuff to over obsess about. I spent the past couple hours cruising cyber monday deals...baaaaahhhh I need to get off the computer and start my day!
Well results are back and sad to report my beta came back negative. This was our last ivf transfer so we are a bit sad right now.
Knowing this was our last transfer, leading into we started to discuss what the next step would be if needed (no decision, just discussion). Anyway i will share more later, but for now we need to let these results fully sink in. I am the positive, move-forward, problem solving type so will bounce back. But we just watched Inside Out this past week, and it is a good reminder for me that time for sadness is important, too.
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
Oh, I'm so sorry. My heart just dropped into my stomach for you....
I just watched Inside Out too, and you're right--sadness is an important part of things. I hope and pray that you and your DH will be able to process this, grieve it, and come together around the next step, whatever that may be. Take care of yourself.
So sorry to read your news, @dolphin012. Sometimes life just knows how to knock the wind out of your sails. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to grieve.
I'm so sorry, @dolphin012. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and I'm so incredibly sad for you and your family. It does give me hope that you are already thinking of the future and what your next steps will be. Wishing you the best and thinking of you.
@dolphin012 I'm so so sorry to hear it was negative. My thoughts are with you and... yes please feel everything and lets us know if we can help you in any way!
Oh @dolphin012 - I was so hoping this would be your sticky BFP. I'm so sorry! You're in my thoughts. You're absolutely right, give yourself this time to be sad. Hugs to you!!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl!
I'm so sorry, @dolphin012. I hope you feel much love and support as you take the time you need to feel sad. When you're feeling ready I hope you'll share more about what comes next.
@dolphin012 I am so so very sorry. Words are shit right now. Please keep us posted and take the time you need to grieve. I can't even imagine what you're feeling. I sometimes wish we were all in person so we could collapse into the support physically if we needed to. I wish I could be there for you in that way, right now. I'm so sorry. Xoxoxoxoox
@dolphin012 I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart breaks for you. I was really hoping this time was it for you. Please take care of yourself during this time. Hugs.
ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14) 11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!! Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805 12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)! 1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm) EDD: 8/10/16 8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches 5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo) Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
Sending you love, @dolphin012. I really wanted this for you. Xoxo
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
So sorry to read this @dolphin012. Hugs and sending healing thoughts of peace your way. Sometimes life just blows....no way over it or around it, just through it. Cherish yourself a little.
I missed a few days here, and @dolphin012, I am so sorry to see this news. You will be in my thoughts.
Me- 39 (turning 40 in April), TTC for the first time ever (since Jan 2015), low ovarian reserve
Married 3/14/14 to my wonderful wife, but her sperm count is rather low
TTC with frozen donor sperm and science
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs. 2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs. Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire. Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus! fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP! Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
Re: TWW post (week of 11/30 - 12/6)
DS 4/2009
m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
DD 12/2013
mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks
Twin girls! 8/26/2017
I don't have many symptoms. Breasts are a little sore/full, cramps here and there, feeling a bit tired, moody, emotional...but these have all become normal luteal phase things (on the cycles I actually O) so who knows. I don't "feel" pregnant. I don't know why the 2ww makes you lose all hope but somehow it does.
Fingers crossed we get some more BFPs soon ladies!!!
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
DS 4/2009
m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
DD 12/2013
mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks
Twin girls! 8/26/2017
Good luck everyone!
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
I just watched Inside Out too, and you're right--sadness is an important part of things. I hope and pray that you and your DH will be able to process this, grieve it, and come together around the next step, whatever that may be. Take care of yourself.
DS 4/2009
m/c 11/12/2010 ~ 7 wks
m/c 7/4/2012 ~ 6 wks
DD 12/2013
mmc Baby Girl 7/12/2015 ~ 14 weeks
Twin girls! 8/26/2017
Words are shit right now.
Please keep us posted and take the time you need to grieve. I can't even imagine what you're feeling. I sometimes wish we were all in person so we could collapse into the support physically if we needed to.
I wish I could be there for you in that way, right now. I'm so sorry. Xoxoxoxoox
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)