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LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
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Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
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  • MamaMunnMamaMunn member
    LilLauren17 said:

    Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies

    QFP

    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: August 2014
    TTC #1 Since March 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
    SA results normal April 2016
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
    Uterine polyp removed July 2017
    Round 1 IVF January 2018




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  • MamaMunnMamaMunn member
    edited November 2015
    It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

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    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: August 2014
    TTC #1 Since March 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
    SA results normal April 2016
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
    Uterine polyp removed July 2017
    Round 1 IVF January 2018




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  • izza2izza2 member
    For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

    Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    I dont know the rules either, so I'll go read them.
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  • LulucooksLulucooks member
    LilLauren17 said:

    Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.

    Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

    Again, louder this time
    NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
    It's hurtful to keep saying it
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    Again. I understand that know. It WASNT my intentions to hurt ANYONES feelings. Was the loud enough as well
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    I know I have asked a different question on this app but I don't know how to work it and I can't find it.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    edited November 2015
    Good luck to you ladies trying. I'll be praying for you. I really do wish you all the best of luck. Thanks.
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  • LulucooksLulucooks member
    edited November 2015
    LilLauren17 said:

    Good luck to you ladies trying. I'll be praying for you. *edit out* around. I really do wish you all the best of luck. Thanks.

    Nope nope nope
    We don't use *edit out* here, it's hurtful to loss moms.
    You should really learn about the community you want to join.


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  • MRSCORKERMRSCORKER member
    I get wanting to have an answer but there is ZERO chance that any of us can answer your question. The only thing you can do is chart/temp so you know exactly when you O and keep POAS until you get a BFP or AF. No one on TTGP or on your BMB can tell you one way or the other so continuing to post the same question over and over is obviously not going to be well received.

    Me: 32 & DH: 37
    Married: November 2014
    TTC #1 Since: October 2015
    BFP #1: 11/18/15 - CP
    BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
    IT'S A BOY!!!!
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    MRSCORKER said:

    I get wanting to have an answer but there is ZERO chance that any of us can answer your question. The only thing you can do is chart/temp so you know exactly when you O and keep POAS until you get a BFP or AF. No one on TTGP or on your BMB can tell you one way or the other so continuing to post the same question over and over is obviously not going to be well received.

    I understand that now. I'm sorry. Again, I don't know how to work the app and can't find my previous one so I assumed it got deleted
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    edited November 2015
    Lulucooks said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.

    Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

    Again, louder this time
    NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
    It's hurtful to keep saying it
    hunnybunny17 said:

    How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.
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    Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

    LittleMissTimeLord said:

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    Lulucooks said:

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    Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

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    MRSCORKER said:

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    Mlight28 said:

    Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

    AmMcc12 said:

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    I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

    Mlight28 said:

    I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
    Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

    izza2 said:

    For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

    Ally989 said:

    It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

    ETA: ugh auto correct

    Ally989 said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies

    QFP
    tripledaggerWed95976 said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies

    If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    Lulucooks said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Lulucooks said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.

    Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

    Again, louder this time
    NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
    It's hurtful to keep saying it
    hunnybunny17 said:

    How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.
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    Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

    LittleMissTimeLord said:

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    Lulucooks said:

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    Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

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    MRSCORKER said:

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    Mlight28 said:

    Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

    AmMcc12 said:

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    I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

    Mlight28 said:

    I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
    Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

    izza2 said:

    For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

    Ally989 said:

    It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

    ETA: ugh auto correct

    Ally989 said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies

    QFP
    tripledaggerWed95976 said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies

    If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
    Oh bless your heart....
    Bless yours too
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  • hunnybunny17hunnybunny17 member
    LilLauren17 said:
    I get wanting to have an answer but there is ZERO chance that any of us can answer your question. The only thing you can do is chart/temp so you know exactly when you O and keep POAS until you get a BFP or AF. No one on TTGP or on your BMB can tell you one way or the other so continuing to post the same question over and over is obviously not going to be well received.
    I understand that now. I'm sorry. Again, I don't know how to work the app and can't find my previous one so I assumed it got deleted
    @LilLauren17 There isn't an easy way to do it on the app except look through the threads on the board or search. Here are the threads you started https://forums.thebump.com/profile/discussions/10702594/LilLauren17
     
    TTC + medicated cycles
    3/2015: Start TTC
    8/2015: PCOS Dx
    4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
    2/2017: BFP



    Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    hunnybunny17 said:


    LilLauren17 said:

    MRSCORKER said:

    I get wanting to have an answer but there is ZERO chance that any of us can answer your question. The only thing you can do is chart/temp so you know exactly when you O and keep POAS until you get a BFP or AF. No one on TTGP or on your BMB can tell you one way or the other so continuing to post the same question over and over is obviously not going to be well received.

    I understand that now. I'm sorry. Again, I don't know how to work the app and can't find my previous one so I assumed it got deleted

    @LilLauren17 There isn't an easy way to do it on the app except look through the threads on the board or search. Here are the threads you started https://forums.thebump.com/profile/discussions/10702594/LilLauren17


    It won't let me click on it
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  • AmMcc12AmMcc12 member
    You can copy and paste it into a web search
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    DS1 -- 9/30/2016


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  • hunnybunny17hunnybunny17 member
    edited November 2015
    LilLauren17 said:
    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
    No one is trying to kick you. We tell it straight here, no sugar coating. If you want to learn about how this board operates, this thread is a good starting place: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12613283/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first#latest And there is no board/group here that condones "Am I pregnant?" questions. The entire site has that same TOU.

    Edited to trim tree
     
    TTC + medicated cycles
    3/2015: Start TTC
    8/2015: PCOS Dx
    4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
    2/2017: BFP



    Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    hunnybunny17 said:


    LilLauren17 said:

    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.

    No one is trying to kick you. We tell it straight here, no sugar coating. If you want to learn about how this board operates, this thread is a good starting place: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12613283/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first#latest And there is no board/group here that condones "Am I pregnant?" questions. The entire site has that same TOU.

    Edited to trim tree


    But you know, just as well as I do that the animated pictures, and rude comments aren't very nice. What you just said is all I needed. Thank you
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    Lulucooks said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    hunnybunny17 said:


    LilLauren17 said:

    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.

    No one is trying to kick you. We tell it straight here, no sugar coating. If you want to learn about how this board operates, this thread is a good starting place: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12613283/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first#latest And there is no board/group here that condones "Am I pregnant?" questions. The entire site has that same TOU.

    Edited to trim tree
    But you know, just as well as I do that the animated pictures, and rude comments aren't very nice. What you just said is all I needed. Thank you
    ---qbf---

    You can't dictate how people will respond on a public forum, but people were very nice to you the first 5 times you posted about this.

    ONCE AGAIN, I could not find my other questions, so I assumed they got deleted.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    WitandWhimsy said:

    LilLauren17 said:

    hunnybunny17 said:


    LilLauren17 said:

    But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.

    No one is trying to kick you. We tell it straight here, no sugar coating. If you want to learn about how this board operates, this thread is a good starting place: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12613283/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first#latest And there is no board/group here that condones "Am I pregnant?" questions. The entire site has that same TOU.

    Edited to trim tree
    But you know, just as well as I do that the animated pictures, and rude comments aren't very nice. What you just said is all I needed. Thank you
    ----anticipated QBF-------

    Nobody was rude. We cannot tell you if you are pregnant. Answers you didn't like =/= rude.


    Thanks for your input.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    If any of you notice, I didn't reply on ANY of my other questions because I COULD NOT FIND THEM. I am NEVER on here unless I have one and I could never find them once I asked.
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  • LilLauren17LilLauren17 member
    hunnybunny17 said:


    LilLauren17 said:

    If any of you notice, I didn't reply on ANY of my other questions because I COULD NOT FIND THEM. I am NEVER on here unless I have one and I could never find them once I asked.

    If it's a recent post, it should be on one of the first few pages of the main board you posted on. If it's an older thread, you can search.

    How to search via app: On any main board page, scroll down all the way to the bottom. Click in the "search category" box. Type your screen name and hit search. If you are on the wrong board, click on the option box and select the right board (e.g., August 2015 moms). Change the "Date within" box by clicking on it and selecting the time frame you wish. Click search. Scroll down to the bottom and your threads/posts will be there.


    Thank you. That was very helpful. I appreciate it
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