Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017
Re: Introduction- losses mentioned
I just went through my second loss in 6 months. Both mmc around 9-10 weeks. I know what you mean about being different than when this all started.
I can't imagine what you have been through and I probably don't have the right words to make you feel better. But I admire your strength and your outlook on life. I pray and I hope that the visit with the specialists gives you some further insight, options and that you get your rainbow baby after these many storms.
((Hugs))
BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks;
BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016
I can definitely understand not being the same person and no one can blame you for that. I can tell from your post that you are a very strong woman and I pray for peace for you and your husband.
The good news is that the specialist who my husband happened to meet has already had his office call and we have an appointment for 12/16. Since he is truly nearly retired, his schedule is open and it was really our choice as to when to meet. The way I see it, there are three possible outcomes. 1. He says, I know why this is happening and you should do this to prevent it. 2. He says, I know why this is happening and there is no way around it. You should try another route to building your family. 3. He says, I have no idea what is causing this.
All of those scenarios present closure of some kind and I would be ok with any of them. I think it will be reassuring to have someone with his level of expertise really give our case serious attention.
Hoping you all have a great week!
Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013
2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages
TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016
2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN
Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017
May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714
EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL! E. L. A. born 12/7/2017