@dshannah thank you. That gives me hope. However slim it may be. It's just that fear of letting go of him and the pain that would cause is almost unbearable to even think about. And of course in my head I play the "I'll never find someone else" scenario. Or think who would want me. But those are my own demons and faults. I control my thoughts and unfortunately that's just where they wander. But I hope you're right and if he can't be that person then I pray I would eventually find it and feel that way. Right now a big part of me is still holding on waiting for that phone call or apology and realization for him. I just can't wrap my brain around this that its crumbling all because of something so petty to set us over the edge.
Your uterus has a lot of growing to do still. Doctors usually are not concerned this early if the placenta is covering the cervix. Most of the time it will move up with the expanding uterus. Pelvic rest usually only happens if there's been a history of heavy bleeding, previous complications from placenta previa, or multiple early losses from an incompetent cervix. If there was no funneling or shorting or the cervix and the doctor did not seemed concerned you should not be either.
Our doctor said most woman experience this at some point during the first and second trimester because the uterus grows so quickly. And also said there's over a 90% chance it won't be a problem. So take a deep breath... And simply "take it easy" until your next appointment.
Call the doctor about the sex or no sex question but shame on him for reacting that way! Seriously... You are so much more than a place to "stick it"! I'm so sorry he is causing you this emotional roller coaster. Remember excessive stress is not good for you or baby. So do right for yourself... Take some deep breaths and be healthy!
Hey @kp90 I hope everything has settled down a bit for you!! Sending good thoughts and vibes your way!!! Keep that head of yours up you awesome momma you!! ♡
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Call the doctor about the sex or no sex question but shame on him for reacting that way! Seriously... You are so much more than a place to "stick it"! I'm so sorry he is causing you this emotional roller coaster. Remember excessive stress is not good for you or baby. So do right for yourself... Take some deep breaths and be healthy!
We are all here for you! Hope it gets better.