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  • doozer1345doozer1345 member
    edited November 2015
    NOLA520 said:I'm not even sure what argument you're making here. Because bad people might've already gotten through the vetting process as a legitimate refugee, we shouldn't accept any more? But also, this just constantly goes back to viewing the refugees as terrorists with absolutely no basis other than their nationality and / or religion. If not for that, there would be no comparisons to 9/11. Muslim DOES NOT equal terrorist. I highly doubt we would even be having this conversation about refugees from other (predominantly Christian) European nations.
    I never said Muslim. We are talking about the refugees from Syria. ISIS is in Syria, has been in Syria, and has taken over Syria. No I don't think we should let anymore or the 2000 we already have let in. I'm not looking at them bc of their skin color or religion. I would be saying the same thing about white Christians that were coming from Syria if ISIS were white Christians. It's not a race or religion prejudice. It's an ISIS prejudice. ISIS happens to come from Syria. Therefore, no. I am not supportive of possible ISIS coming into our country posed as something they're not.

    If you saw and heard some people from California had a flesh eating disease and they went to Nevada and wiped out hundreds of people in Nevada would you not be hesitant to welcome people with California licenses into your state?

    Would I be making it a prejudice issue or "racial" issue bc they're from California? Or would I be making it an issue bc I've seen and heard that the flesh eating virus is killing people in masses?? I am my children's protector. They don't have anyone else. I get angry when outside entities make it difficult for me to do my job.

    ETA: Pretty sure we would be having this conversation if this were "other predominately Christian European nations." Never have I mentioned race or religion on my own or made that a factor in any of my arguments. Thanks for proving to me what I've always experienced with liberals. Never looking at the actual problem and calling it what it is. Instead lets make this about race, religion, and the ways those people are different from us. Not a chance lady. I don't have a racist bone in my body and neither will my children. Don't be a stereotype. Be an individual.
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  • NOLA520 said:I'm not even sure what argument you're making here. Because bad people might've already gotten through the vetting process as a legitimate refugee, we shouldn't accept any more?

    But also, this just constantly goes back to viewing the refugees as terrorists with absolutely no basis other than their nationality and / or religion. If not for that, there would be no comparisons to 9/11. Muslim DOES NOT equal terrorist.

    I highly doubt we would even be having this conversation about refugees from other (predominantly Christian) European nations.


    I never said Muslim. We are talking about the refugees from Syria. ISIS is in Syria, has been in Syria, and has taken over Syria. No I don't think we should let anymore or the 2000 we already have let in. I'm not looking at them bc of their skin color or religion. I would be saying the same thing about white Christians that were coming from Syria if ISIS were white Christians. It's not a race or religion prejudice. It's an ISIS prejudice. ISIS happens to come from Syria. Therefore, no. I am not supportive of possible ISIS coming into our country posed as something they're not.

    If you saw and heard some people from California had a flesh eating disease and they went to Nevada and wiped out hundreds of people in Nevada would you not be hesitant to welcome people with California licenses into your state?

    Would I be making it a prejudice issue or "racial" issue bc they're from California? Or would I be making it an issue bc I've seen and heard that the flesh eating virus is killing people in masses?? I am my children's protector. They don't have anyone else. I get angry when outside entities make it difficult for me to do my job.

    ETA: Pretty sure we would be having this conversation if this were "other predominately Christian European nations." Never have I mentioned race or religion on my own or made that a factor in any of my arguments. Thanks for proving to me what I've always experienced with liberals. Never looking at the actual problem and calling it what it is. Instead lets make this about race, religion, and the ways those people are different from us. Not a chance lady. I don't have a racist bone in my body and neither will my children. Don't be a stereotype. Be an individual.


    Dayyuuumm! I must say that I agree with this statement 10000000%. It isn't about race or religion. It is about safety. Period.
  • danalynn86 said:

    Just throwing it out there that their "plan" if it can be called that is the exact opposite of what you are playing at. Daesh/Isis/Isil/The Federateed Douche Nozzles of Muslimhood want to sew enmity and discord between western nations and innocent Muslim refugees fleeing from places like Syria. If these terrorists can convince western nations that Muslims are too scary to help, it will cause good, honest Muslim people to become even more disenfranchised and frustrated with western nations, raising the likelihood that they get fed up with hypocritical western ideals, driving them into extremists arms. The same nations that claim to be bastions of freedom and opportunity look like racist xenophobes, key words: look like. For countries like the United States to turn their backs on refugees would only make our enemies stronger. Don't play into their hand. On top of all of that, none of the attackers in Paris were even refugees. They were all born in places like Belgium, France, and Brussels. Does this mean we should stop international travel into the USA because it's too risky? I sure hope nobody thinks that would ever be a good decision.

    To finish, check out history books in regard to how American's have traditionally viewed refugees. It's nearly universal historically that we haven't wanted to allow refuge inside the US to foreign groups being terrorized because we are in fact traditionally xenophobic, and a bit racist here in the US. I know, shocking! But let's not continue a bad cycle because we are freaked out by boogeymen that don't really exist in the simple ways we think they do.

    I'd be interested to know how you are so for sure of what their plan is. Either way their plan is threatening my life and loved ones. I don't see how these people are going to go running back into their arms after being tortured and seeing the fear they're causing the nations around them, but maybe that's just me. Secondly, again, I find it ironic again that this is being turned around (AGAIN) and being made to look like it is a racial issue. I guess that's what some people need to sleep at night instead of facing the root problem at hand. That's fine but understand you are projecting and accusing racism where it doesn't exist. It is a safety issue, period. No amount of calling it racism or religious prejudice is going to change the fact that the real and only issue is safety of our children and families. In American history we have always stood up for our homeland and protected our homeland. I've not read a history book where that's called racism. 

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  • We are going to have a gender reveal party.  However, nothing really over the top.  Just a get together with family eat food and play a few silly games and have everyone guess what they think it is.  Then reveal what it is.  Nothing over the top.  Just really an excuse to get together since we live a good hour plus drive away from them and it's hard to get together due to schedule conflicts and stuff sometimes.

    Pitbulls..... I am an avid pit bull supporter.   They have a bad rep.  People in general seem to forget that all dogs can bite when provoked.  All dogs are animals and still have instincts like prey drive and be territorial.  Pit Bulls is a type of dog that wants to please its owner more than anything else and it will do anything to please its owner even if it means getting hurt, fighting, etc.  Unfortunately, Aholes take advantage of that and try to fight them, etc.    If you neglect your dog, no matter what the breed, then you are asking for trouble.   Pit Bulls just don't turn on people for no reason.  We have one that is five years old. (He is my profile pic)  He is somewhat dog aggressive, but only to strange dogs.  He is fine with our other two.  (Our little dog does not like the pit bull though so we keep them separated).  Other than that he is a big ole stubborn baby.  On the other hand, there is no doubt in my mind that if someone were to try to harm one of us, he would eat them alive.   He will protect his family!   Common sense pretty much says don't leave your children and dogs (of any kind) together unattended.  That is just asking for trouble.
    Also a lot of people do not properly identify pit bulls.  In a dog attack they see a dog with a big head and ASSume that it is a pit bull.  A loal news station did an experiment online a few years ago where they put a bunch of similar looking dogs of different breeds and asked the public to pick out the pit bull.  The percentage of correct answers was very low.

    Now for my UO.  I don't give a rat's patooty about the new Star Wars movie coming out.  Totally not my thing.  I am a nerd, yes.  People assume that b/c I am a nerd that I automatically like Star Wars.  Wrong!  Can't stand the movies for the most part.  I like certain things about Star Wars and I am familiar with the more popular characters, but I just don't really care overall about it.  People are so excited over the new movie coming out and I'm over here like whoopty freaking doo


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  • doozer1345doozer1345 member
    edited November 2015
    NOLA520Considering that you're the one making this about party lines and bashing me based on your assumption of my political leanings, I'd say you're the one acting like a stereotype and not an individual. I can be an empathetic person and belong to any (or no) party. And your argument is still about justifying prejudice against innocent people simply for being from the same place as bad people. Even taking their race and religion out of the equation, it's still heartless, cruel, and exclusionary toward people who desperately need help and compassion.
    Where have I bashed you? I don't know where party lines come in either. In the name of the safety of MY children and as I stated in the beginning I will absolutely be called heartless if it means the safety of my children. If you're saying I'm "bashing" you bc I corrected you about my points not being racist driven and that your point of view is stereotypical of liberals I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. It's in my experience that liberals have a hard time looking at the bigger picture for the greater good and turning a debate from that picture into a skewed and unnecessary racial or prejudice problem. Don't get me wrong. As I stated in the early part of this: I hate what the innocent people and babies are going through. It makes my heart bleed. But not enough to jeopardize my children.

    ETA: All my points are driven as a mother wanting to protect her children and understanding that we are going into a world where no one else is going to fight for your children's safety but you. I'm not justifying those bastards actions of killing and brutalizing those people. I'm just saying I don't like the chance of that happening being raised by bringing possible hiding ISIS in the refugee groups into our country. Purely as a concerned mother.
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  • @JessicaB0627 ... Sounds like your grandparents' situation is really close to the refugees' current situation. People hate them, they have nothing, etc. Shouldn't this make the refugees' scenario more relatable to you? Being close with an ethnicity or group of people should be all the more reason to treat people in similar situations respectfully, and shouldn't be used as a blanket justification for why you aren't racist. In fact, if you can personally relate to the situation and still fear them and deny basic human privileges based on ethnicity, that seems even colder.

    I'm not well-informed enough to make a strong case one way or the other, I just always caution people against the whole, "oh my best friend is (insert race/ethnicity/sexuality here), so I can make fun of them" attitude.
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  • businessmamabusinessmama member
    edited November 2015
    This is just to the last part because it's something that I have an issue with.

    History books are predominantly written by white men. There is of course going to be skewed Information - ie the 5th grade text book this year that was called out for calling slaves "migrant" workers, rather than slaves and that many of them enjoyed their work.

    A skewed view that tried to make our country look better in history than it was.

    Edited to reply to @doozer1345 - I really do suck at using this board to direct to people- sorry!
  • I just hope that if I ever needed to seek refuge in another country that I wouldn't be banned because of a stereotype against American's that we are all likely to commit school shootings against innocent children....
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  • Now for my UO.  I don't give a rat's patooty about the new Star Wars movie coming out.  Totally not my thing.  I am a nerd, yes.  People assume that b/c I am a nerd that I automatically like Star Wars.  Wrong!  Can't stand the movies for the most part.  I like certain things about Star Wars and I am familiar with the more popular characters, but I just don't really care overall about it.  People are so excited over the new movie coming out and I'm over here like whoopty freaking doo
    Now that is just blasphemy.

    Personally am looking forward to The Force Awakens with a mighty fever.
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