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Court11152325Court11152325 member
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We used to have a weekly twatwaffle post and HDBD post? Did those go away because ChiccoBeanz is gone or because we've just stopped caring? I'm really in the "I just want this to be over with" camp.

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  • Court11152325Court11152325 member
    I miss y'all though. Boo.


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  • ssn109ssn109 member
    I only started twatwaffle tuesday, etc. when I have something to complain about. I enjoyed reading the posts even when I had nothing to say. But unless I have a specific complaint I feel just too lazy to start anything.
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  • BellaM110BellaM110 member
    Court11152325 said:

    We used to have a weekly twatwaffle post and HDBD post? Did those go away because ChiccoBeanz is gone or because we've just stopped caring? I'm really in the "I just want this to be over with" camp.


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    What happened to her? I was wondering why I hadn't seen her post in a while?
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  • BellaM110BellaM110 member
    edited November 2015
    santababy1215 said:

    BellaM110 said:

    Court11152325 said:

    We used to have a weekly twatwaffle post and HDBD post? Did those go away because ChiccoBeanz is gone or because we've just stopped caring? I'm really in the "I just want this to be over with" camp.


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    What happened to her? I was wondering why I hadn't seen her post in a while?
    She was banned. I do think she's still here but it's just not the same. Same with the other ladies who were banned.

    Oh wow, that's unfortunate. :( I hate to ask what for but that will prob just open another can of worms, so nevermind lol


    ETA-- oops! I skimmed thru this thread at first and I didn't read all the PP which explained what happened.
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  • groovylocksgroovylocks member
    hplunkett2883 said:
    What happened was too many people popped in at the very end here and decided they didn't like the way we did things. So a few of our beloved members got banned as a result. Over stupid things might I add. And even now when we do comment on things we are accused of being bullies, rude, or whatever. Just check out that thread about what to take to the hospital from like 2 days ago. People were giving real advice even though that topic has been discussed a million times and some drive by new poster came through calling people rude. It's just not worth it to me anymore. I don't care to share as much as I used to. I will still comment here and there and try to stir a little but really the bump has died for me. It's not the same with all the new ones crying and tattle taling over everything. So idgaf. I still love some of you though and y'all are what keep me from deleting the whole thing... image
    Yeah... I realize i'm a very blunt person.Sometimes the stuff i say is supported by other people and other times it's not. 

    With the current temperature here, and with me being so close to delivery, I just try to help out when i can, ask what i have to and.. yeah. 
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  • groovylocksgroovylocks member
    santababy1215 said:
    We used to have a weekly twatwaffle post and HDBD post? Did those go away because ChiccoBeanz is gone or because we've just stopped caring? I'm really in the "I just want this to be over with" camp.

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    What happened to her? I was wondering why I hadn't seen her post in a while?
    She was banned. I do think she's still here but it's just not the same. Same with the other ladies who were banned.
    Is it safe to ask why? I noticed literally like 10 people, her included, just suddenly gone. And more dropping every day. I realize that "somebody(ies) got upset" but over what? I've seen a lot of posts from these people and none, none that i have seen, would suggest they needed to be shut out or banned. 
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  • suchaglencocosuchaglencoco member
    ^^^ hypnotizing
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  • ssn109ssn109 member
    groovylocks said:


    santababy1215 said:

    BellaM110 said:

    Court11152325 said:

    We used to have a weekly twatwaffle post and HDBD post? Did those go away because ChiccoBeanz is gone or because we've just stopped caring? I'm really in the "I just want this to be over with" camp.


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    What happened to her? I was wondering why I hadn't seen her post in a while?
    She was banned. I do think she's still here but it's just not the same. Same with the other ladies who were banned.

    Is it safe to ask why? I noticed literally like 10 people, her included, just suddenly gone. And more dropping every day. I realize that "somebody(ies) got upset" but over what? I've seen a lot of posts from these people and none, none that i have seen, would suggest they needed to be shut out or banned. 


    Nope, probably not safe. Could get you and the responder banned.

    In short summary, it was over dumb s*** and ladies who couldn't manage to wear big girl panties.
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  • hplunkett2883hplunkett2883 member
    Bombmom3 said:

    hplunkett2883 said:

    What happened was too many people popped in at the very end here and decided they didn't like the way we did things. So a few of our beloved members got banned as a result. Over stupid things might I add. And even now when we do comment on things we are accused of being bullies, rude, or whatever. Just check out that thread about what to take to the hospital from like 2 days ago. People were giving real advice even though that topic has been discussed a million times and some drive by new poster came through calling people rude. It's just not worth it to me anymore. I don't care to share as much as I used to. I will still comment here and there and try to stir a little but really the bump has died for me. It's not the same with all the new ones crying and tattle taling over everything. So idgaf. I still love some of you though and y'all are what keep me from deleting the whole thing...

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    Well, I mean, not all of us who found this group at the end have a problem with the way things go here. I totally get and respect the fact that most of you ladies have been here for the whole nine months. I came in right before ChiccoBeans was banned and since then I've been baffled by the sheer amount of butt-hurtness from folks over little things. Sure, there is a lot of sarcasm here but I've just felt it came from a place where, as has been stated, the core group of ladies were just over the nine millionth thread about whatever topic.

    Honestly, I'm here because I wanted to be able to discuss things with women who were in the same boat as me and be able to vent to people who understood (not my husband, who has a penis and just cant empathize with certain things and not my friends who are not pregnant or have no kids).

    Oh, and the gif parties are the highlight of my days now. I know there is a thread on how to post GIFs and I could actively participate but you ladies do it so well I don't want to interrupt your groove.
    You are an exception though.
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  • VesperLoveVesperLove member
    Court11152325 said:
    santababy1215 said:
    One was a gif that said "and...?"
    Literally, that's all it said. As much as Chicco is loved, it seemed like there were some people out to get her. I guess she just got reported too many times? I don't think there was an actual incident that caused the ban. I do know there is a private group for D15 so I'm assuming that's where most people are posting. Hopefully they still check in.
    I feel so left out.
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    Don't feel too left out ... the last post I see on the private board was made over a week ago ... unless I missed a mass exodus to ANOTHER private group (which is very possible since I don't go in that group like ever) it is dead over there. 
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  • kristen2bkristen2b member
    edited November 2015
    Court11152325 said:


    santababy1215 said:

    hplunkett2883 said:

    One was a gif that said "and...?"

    Literally, that's all it said.

    As much as Chicco is loved, it seemed like there were some people out to get her. I guess she just got reported too many times? I don't think there was an actual incident that caused the ban.

    I do know there is a private group for D15 so I'm assuming that's where most people are posting.     Hopefully they still check in.

    I feel so left out.
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    Yeah no. That's definitely not where the cool people went. But a lot of the people we "bullied" are there if you feel like being called mean and rude. ETA I'm referring to the Fb group for d15.
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  • merbear32merbear32 member
    Wait Chicco was banned? I found her comments helpful never catty.  Most of the rude snarky stuff has increased and those people don't get banned. Can people complain and get Chicco back?
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  • mrs14678mrs14678 member
    ...dumb question. What's "HBDB" mean? Haha
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  • hplunkett2883hplunkett2883 member
    It's HDBD and it means Hump day bump day. When we post pics of our baby bumps.
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  • Court11152325Court11152325 member
    I can't ever get that acronym right.
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  • Beckah31Beckah31 member
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    They're in a better place now...
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