I miscarried this morning. I knew from bloodwork that it was coming. I had some high hopes. Tuesday I started bleeding and went to the ER, we had a sono, my husband was able to see and hear the heartbeat. My HCG was normal but on the lower side. My doc was able to see me Thursday (a new doc, the practice I had seen for years had stopped OB about a year ago so wouldn't see me). I had had an appt scheduled at the new MD for next week but was grateful they saw me earlier. They ran BW and while my levels should have at least doubled, it went up 60 points. She told me it was a waiting game and if my body didn't miscarriage by Tuesday they would consider other interventions. I lost my baby this morning. I would have been 8 weeks Monday. My heart is broken. Does anyone know of support groups either online or other?
Re: I lost my baby today.
2 angel babies to watch over us- bfp 3/16/13, c/p 3/27/13- bfp 6/27/13, c/p confirmed 7/4/13- We will always carry you in our hearts
Mommy to our princess warrior- 3/4/09
Stay strong, you will heal from this and move on, but you will always remember the baby you never got to meet. My heart goes out to you.
The TTGP board here is wonderful. There is also a TTCAL (Trying to concieve after a loss) on here as well. Take good care of yourself.
As PPs have said, the ttgp and ttcal boards are great communities for support.
DST T4L
I am so sorry that this happened to you. I couldn’t imagine going through what you and your husband are experiencing. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you!
There is a Miscarriage/Loss board here as well at Trying to get pregnant after a Loss. You can see it under the full list of boards.
Me: 42, DH: 46, Married: 11/12
Losses: MMC#1 11/12 BO, MC#2 11/13 at 8w BO?, MMC#3 8/14 chromo healthy M @12 weeks, stopped growing at 10.
Negligible AMH, FSH finally went high. Pursued DE.
DD born at 38w2d on 5-27-16. Finally!!
Pregnant again with OE. EDD 11/9/17 Girl!