This is totally not TTC related, but my head is spinning and I need to vent. I live with my husband in a house he bought before we were married. Prior to moving in, I lived in a condo that I own. I still own it, it has been sitting vacant while I do improvements to get it ready to sell.
My HOA decided now was the time to put a new roof on my building. It's late October, in Oregon. We had about 2 inches of rain yesterday alone. I get a text from my neighbor that the roof is not completely on, covered with a tarp, but neighbors are reporting leaking in their ceilings.
My husband and I run out there last night. There was evidence that water was getting in. It was running so down the sliding glass door and there was discoloration on the ceiling and it was dripping from the light fixture. We took pics and cut all the breakers. Nothing we could do at that point. The roofing company had been out to re adjust the tarps.
We show up first thing this morning and half the master bedroom ceiling had collapsed. I burst into tears. I felt a little better after HOA board members came over, took pics and reassured me. The owner of the roofing company also came out and is taking responsibility. My head is just spinning though. I can't risk ending up with a mold problem there. I was planning on selling it in the spring. Two other units have damage as well, but mine is the worst. I'm just so glad I don't live there anymore. No really feel for the ones that have to live there with all this going on.
That's it. I just needed to vent. Hope y'all don't mind
Married: 7/9/15
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017

Re: Totally off topic, but I need to vent.
Good luck and deep breaths. You will get through this nightmare.
Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid DH(43)Low T/ED
MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012 TTC #2 since 04/2014
BFP 8/26/2016
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017
Meanwhile my mom and sister are making me feel like a moron by letting him fix it. I had to stop talking to them for awhile. my mom has a very "paranoid" side, jumps to conclusions and is a general know it all. She practically thinks I should have an attorney now. Hey, the guy owned up and said he'd make it right....might as well give it a chance (that was the adjusters advice too).
So far the ceiling is done, I saw it Sunday and it looks really good. New carpet pad goes in tomorrow. My husband and I will do more investigation on the wall on our own. Maybe he's right and it's okay. If it's not I'll deal with it then. To be quite honest, if the wall isn't okay, I'm not going to argue it. Mostly for my sanity and stress. Arguing with the guy just jacks my stress through the roof. I've replaced a wall before, if we have to tear it out and replace it ourselves, that's fine.
Me: 37, DH: 36
Started TTC #1: 9/2015
Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
BFP: 6/22/2016 EDD 3//6/2017