Has anyone heard of shaping babies head? Apparently everyone in my family did it.. Im skeptical though... Wondering if its just my weird fam or if head shaping is really a thing?
I have never heard of it. I know that as long as you don't keep them on their back for to long at a time they won't get a flat spot but their head will naturally round out after birth. It takes a few months because their skull is still soft but as far as I understand it will fix itself.
This is common knowledge in Korea! The moms make sure the newborn doesn't stay lying facing up for too long to prevent the back of the head becoming flat. I remember my mom and grandma constantly putting my brothers face to the right one time and the left next time, whether his body was facing up or down. That way each side would be even and the baby's head would be shaped nice and round.
But some babies will turn and get antsy until their face is facing up so eventually the back of their heads could end up being more flat shaped rather than round.
Not sure if this is exactly what you're talking about but I know it's more important now with the "back to sleep" campaign to try and make sure they face different directions each time they lay down. If they like to look out the crib in one direction it can be helpful to have their head at the "head" of the crib the first time you lay them down then their head at the "foot" of the crib the next time.
They can get flat spots and develop torticollis if they are constantly laying & facing the same direction.
DD napped in the Ergo a lot when she was little so that also kept pressure off the back of her head. I know not everyone might agree... but if you can keep an eye on LO during nap time/you're comfortable with it you can lay LO down on their belly. I wouldn't do it until LO is big enough to fully lift his/her head up but being on the belly can help with head shape. DD started sleeping on her belly... I think around 5-6 months old constantly, she wouldn't sleep on her back once she could make the decision herself.
They shape the baby's head when it's in the birthing canal too long. When the baby's head is in the canal for too long it can form a cone shape, so they shape it.
I've heard of certain cultures "shaping" the baby's head. I remembers parents talking about it with a friend. I would probably never do it for fear of hurting my baby, but I have heard of families doing it!
My family has done it. My mother did it for my daughter. I hadn't heard of it as I was a young mother but all she did was gently rub her head in circular motions because my daughter was stuck in birth canal giving her the cone shape. Anyways it didn't hurt her at all there was no pressure and she is a healthy smart nine year old girl.
Re: Shaping babys head
We did lay LO in different directions in her crib/pack n play and did lots of tummy time, but the head shaping process was hands-off.