November 2015 Moms

Bat signal for a suspected AE

edited October 2015 in November 2015 Moms
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Re: Bat signal for a suspected AE

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  • She hasn't done anything that counts yet. She stays just in the boundaries. The fetus thread was bad and she was reported but nothing came of it.
  • Hi November 15! I'm visiting from Jan16. A week ago we had a disturbing post from Estrogenfest about "feeling nothing for the fetus". Some of you guys came over calling her on the MUD which was appreciated. She's been all over the board posting after that disaster. She's been posting in the 3rd trimester board about all of her pregnancies and her story is just not adding up. We are trying to sort out the details and are worried we are being catfished or at least we have a crazy in our midst.

             Try PMing one of the mods personally. They will likely check her out and make sure her IP address means she doesn't have multiple accounts. If enough people complain they'll reach out to her and likely ask her to verify she is in fact a pregnant woman, though that doesn't negate her being crazy. 
    Do unto others. 
  • edited October 2015
    Well obviously there's the "report" button. I don't believe in using it for the most part since I'm a firm believer in free speech, no matter whose feelings get hurt. But I'm a part of another community, which is prone to crazies due to the nature of it. So we have to be careful to separate who is just wacky, nutty, inconsistent, unmedicated whatever from people who are baby snatcher crazy. And that's typically how I'd go about it if I had some concerns. So just my two cents. (Fully aware of side eye. But I think for the most part that's a constructive solution.) 

    ETA I just lurked on the J16 board. Didn't realize people thought I was the same person as another poster. Otherwise I would have stayed away from this thread. Anyway, no, I'm not estrogenfest. I have no knowledge about most of the things she's talking about and have never said I don't love my son so...I actually find the comparison pretty offensive. Anyway. You can dislike me all you want but I have nothing to do with her. Seriously though I've been constantly called out on my lack of knowledge about babies, so how can I have five kids? I've been slammed for being "young sounding", "probably sixteen" etc and yet now I'm supposed to be a woman with five children and one on the way? That doesn't even make sense FFS. I have never been on J16 before today and though I take the crap, acknowledging that I brought much of it on myself, I'd really appreciate it if people could leave me out of this one. I don't start posts, I try to limit mentioning anything about my situation, I've actually been doing my best to blend in (maybe I'm failing) but I am not, and will never be, a woman who would condone a third tri abortion. That offends me on a deep level and I'm respectfully asking not to be associated with things I didn't say--plenty of things to flame me for for stuff I actually have. And the only reason I'm even bothering to say all this is because that shit really does offend me and I want no association with it. 
    Do unto others. 
  • I just checked out this poster on the third tri board and it sent me running back here in horror. This is the most uncomfortable I have been made on these forums. I tend to shy from drama but this is beyond that. The things she has said are pretty upsetting to mommas-to-be. Hopefully she loses steam soon if we all try and ignore her.
  • I just checked out this poster on the third tri board and it sent me running back here in horror. This is the most uncomfortable I have been made on these forums. I tend to shy from drama but this is beyond that. The things she has said are pretty upsetting to mommas-to-be. Hopefully she loses steam soon if we all try and ignore her.

    And to clarify, I'm mostly referring to her disturbing post in J16.
  • I just checked out this poster on the third tri board and it sent me running back here in horror. This is the most uncomfortable I have been made on these forums. I tend to shy from drama but this is beyond that. The things she has said are pretty upsetting to mommas-to-be. Hopefully she loses steam soon if we all try and ignore her.
    I think in general people with issues like this do it for attention.  If people pretty much ignore them and recognize them as socially inept and pathetic (without engaging them) they quiet down.
    If there's something strange underneath the hood.  Who you gonna call?  Your Doctor.  If there's something weird and it don't look good.  Who you gonna call?  Your Doctor.  Immediately.  If it's new, painful, and possibly pregnancy related get your ass off the internet and call your doctor.  It's for your health and your child's. 




  • Yeah that post was horrible. We were all pretty upset :-S
  • She posted in another thread on the January board calling the baby her squishy a few days later...it's nuts!
  • I have no idea!! It's so frustrating
  • I can't keep up with insanity
  • Hmmm... suddenly I wonder if your catfish and ours are the same person and just uses multiple AE's on different boards.
  • I can't even visit 3rd tri. Too much stupidity.
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