So my husband likes to stay busy. He goes to the gym, he washes the cars, cuts the grass, messes with his dirtbike/motorcycle/bicycle, and just recently started hunting again. Since I have known him the hunting obsession gets old very fast, even before the baby. Now it drives me insane. I feel guilty because I get insanely jealous that he can just go do things whenever he feels like it and I am "stuck" at home with our adorable 7 month old baby. I have never had any desire to cut the grass but now I'm like please let me cut the grass and you watch the baby. I never had any hobbies before the baby, I would just work a lot and occasionally hang out with girlfriends. Since hunting has started he has come home late every night from work, like 7:30 late. LO bed time is 8-9 anytime between there and I am utterly exhausted and needed a break by 5 pm. So I am the one doing the bath and getting him sleepy and to sleep every night again. I feel like it it putting this huge wedge between us because I am resenting him for getting a "break"...he always asks but it's not like I can say no, come home and parent please. Because half the time if he's here he will find something to keep him busy.. He can't just chill. Cleaning a gun or doing something stupid.he doesn't understand that I need to make baby food , do laundry, and other "mom" things and I actually like to clean the house and I can't just let the baby cry while I do those things. Don't get me wrong he's been a great dad. He loves our babe and plays with him and cooks dinner for us ( he's a very picky cook). But I just want him to have to stay at home and watch our baby to see what I go through every day. It drives me crazy. I'm scared to become that "bitchy wife" that never lets her husband do anything, but I am feeling frustrated because I feel like a single parent more and more lately. I know I need to talk to him about it but I haven't figured out where to start and I get so angry I don't want it to turn into a fight. And now this weekend he will be going away to his families camp to get ready for winter or whatever they do. How do you ladies balance all of this? I am at a loss for words and I'm not sure what to do.