So my mom and sister planned a baby shower for me and as guests call to RSVP they are asking whether I was pregnant at my wedding. Mom and sister never told me outright but I had one person ask me (my mother-in-law), which I was a little surprised by, but then maybe I shouldn't have. The back story here is that we're a military couple and after dating 5 years we got engaged. We took two years to plan our wedding and had been wanting to start a family after waiting so long. We were using NFP and once we realized that I would be ovulating on our wedding night we took a couple of weeks to talk about it and figure it out and we decided that if it was meant to happen it would. Well, it did! We were so happy and overjoyed but once we started sharing with people we got this reaction, which was shocking to me because I thought people who know us best would be supportive and understand that we wanted kids, not to mention that it's really nobody's business if we were pregnant before. Has anyone else had this reaction from "friends" or family? How did you deal with it? I'm not a person that likes attention so this is making me want to put a halt to any shower.
Thanks in advance for your advice!