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Confirmed pregnancy - now NEG. test!

I had a confirmed blood test 8/29 after that I did have some brownish spotting some cramping nothing super painful and slight bright red blood, not enough to soak a pad (tmi) only on TP no cramping during red it's been 4 days since the bright red blood followed now with just pinkish spotting still some light cramping but I'm so horrified because I took two pregnancy tests this morning (although they are Dollar tree bought) I had about 5 before this that all gave me a dark line.... Today I took 2 FMu tests and both are very very faint.... My breasts are not sore today which they had been for days, I'm so scared my feelings are so hurt righ now could I have lost my babies!!????..... Has this happen to anyone before please I need advise and help im loosing my mind right now

Re: Confirmed pregnancy - now NEG. test!

  • You need to call a doctor.
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  • I've called my dr already and they said I'd have to wait for my US on 9/21 to know if the baby is around still or not :(
  • You need bloodwork. For real
  • The darkness of the line on a pregnancy means nothing. A line is a line. Symptoms coming and going are no indication of the viability of pregnancy. Some spotting and light bleeding is common, as long as it's not heavy and filling a pad an hour.

    There really is nothing too alarming that you are describing that the doctors office would want to see you sooner.


    I had a confirmed blood test 8/29 after that I did have some brownish spotting some cramping nothing super painful and slight bright red blood, not enough to soak a pad (tmi) only on TP no cramping during red it's been 4 days since the bright red blood followed now with just pinkish spotting still some light cramping but I'm so horrified because I took two pregnancy tests this morning (although they are Dollar tree bought) I had about 5 before this that all gave me a dark line.... Today I took 2 FMu tests and both are very very faint.... My breasts are not sore today which they had been for days, I'm so scared my feelings are so hurt righ now could I have lost my babies!!????..... Has this happen to anyone before please I need advise and help im loosing my mind right now

    Definitely agree with this. I don't see anything concerning about your symptoms.
  • Really ladies? Ok thank you that puts my mind at ease... I spoke with the office about an hour ago they ordered me a 4th beta to see how my numbers are rising, I guess I'm just freaking out this being my first pregnancy and seeing blood then seeing dark lines to faint lines after bleeding worried the heck out of me my breasts not being as sore as yesterday freaked me out ️OMG I feel like a stress case right now :( im trying to calm myself I went by the lab to try and do it today but it was a huge wait then they take lunch and I have to get to work, so first thing tomorrow morning im heading that way I've made an appointment already for the blood test. I know everyone including the drs office says don't worry my signs don't sound like a MC but I just feel so uneasy I wish o could have an US sooner then waiting till the 21st but I know they want enough time to actually see something worth seeing not just worry me even more.... I thank all you ladies for taking the time to put my mind at ease it means the world to me!! XoXo
  • I have been told that the darkness of the lines dont mean anything but after having my 1st mc I got pregnant again very soon after. I tested everyday and i did start to notice my lines got lighter I call my ob and ended up going to the er bc i was having shoulder pain as well....my hgc did start to drop and it was another mc. I was get more blood work done if i were you, my think is i did not want to sit around thinking everything was fine if it was not, I wanted to know right then. Good luck! 
  • @Sally1990 thank you for the words of advice my worst fear im so scared about doing that beta test tomorrow morning after seeing my hpt with such faint lines after such a dark line last Thursday along with great beta numbers, im trying to stay and think positive im just so worried my worst fears will come to life, what other signs and symptoms did you have when you miscarried? I've had anywhere from brown spotting to bright red blood to light pinkish spotting, I've never soaked a pad and normally my AF are 2 days of full soaked pads with clots I've had nothing like that and I've had some cramping but nothing to double me over or even really bother me pain wise, my last beta tripled and was a great number my Dr told me so to see such faint lines im now worried but I'm going in 7am tomorrow for my forth beta ladies please keep my and my baby in your prayers we need all we can get thank you from the bottom of my soul XoXo --worried mama :(
  • Sorry i dont mean to worry you just to tell you what my experience was with my lines getting lighter. My MC was nothing like what others told me, i knew people and moms from mommy groups who said they had to sit on the toilet for hours letting everything come out, sorry tmi! But mine was nothing like that, the first 3 days i had very brown and pink discharge then it was like cramps came out of the blue on the 4th day and then i started bleeding bright red with clots and what looked like 2 grey sacs, the next day was just clots and red bleeding and then it stopped after 2 more days so maybe 7-8 days total. My 2nd one was weird, I had bleeding and clots two days after my + hpt but them my numbers went up, I had a weird feeling and my test was kind of lighter so i went to the er and they confirmed my numbers were dropping, later that night i had bleeding but it was more like a period...no clots and ended after 4-5 days. Good luck please let me know how things went....i'll be thinking of you!   
  • @Sally1990 thank you for your well wishes but it's confirmed my beta went from 681 last Thursday to 81 today I lost my baby :(
  • @Sally1990 thank you for your well wishes but it's confirmed my beta went from 681 last Thursday to 81 today I lost my baby :(
    I'm so so sorry for your loss :( 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you the best as you continue on this journey. Hugs!


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  • I'm sorry for your loss. :-(

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