Oh my goodness that's crazy yes that's where he's going , and I know I watch all these movies about Juarez and all these people murdering I'm scared that's why I'm not going ... Do you know what they do to women over there so sad and especially that I'm pregnant no way in hell am I going and risking anything happen to our baby! But I'm praying he will be going and coming back safe, he won't take anything that will make anyone catch there attention I told him to take like the ugliest clothes and shoes he has... I also heard that people over there know when someone from the U.S is over there so I want him to keep a low profile. And thank you for understanding
Oh my goodness that's crazy yes that's where he's going , and I know I watch all these movies about Juarez and all these people murdering I'm scared that's why I'm not going ... Do you know what they do to women over there so sad and especially that I'm pregnant no way in hell am I going and sacrifice our baby! But I'm praying he will be going and coming back safe, he won't take anything that will make anyone catch there attention I told him to take like the ugliest clothes and shoes he has... I also heard that people over there know when someone from the U.S is over there so I want him to keep a low profile. And thank you for understanding
Whatever you do DO NOT DO ANY RESEARCH OR WATCH ANY VIDEOS ON ANYTHING IN JUAREZ!! You will only scare yourself!!! Trust me.. I had a friend who posted a video of stuff they did and I couldn't sleep for days because I was positively terrified!!!! And they do crazy stuff to anybody but especially women.. I have heard absolute horror stories that have caused nightmares! But usually when they send them there they only send them for a day and then they send them to a safer place!! Will be praying for him to have a safe return! I know how hard it will be and just know your not alone!!
I know I was terrified to I couldn't sleep for days either, I told our lawyer that I'm scared he goes, but the way she was talking to us kinda made me feel a lil better but I just have to stay positive you know! Thank you so much again for your prayers very well needed I really hope you are well as well!
WTF to everything today, from the lady who said I looked huge, then immediately following a lady told me I looked too small to be 7 months (I know this happens to everyone); bumpadmins for banning folks; my stomach that is now apparently the size of a grape so anytime I eat even a small amount of food I immediately want to vom; my sewing machine for breaking mid-hem as I'm trying to make a crib skirt; my hands for not being able to hold onto anything for any amount of time--I have dropped more things in the last two days than collectively my entire life, and each time I get a little more pissed off....I could seriously go on and on. 40 weeks, where are you?!?!
Wtf- coworker... after coming back from my break she comes and tells me " I think I wet myself" i looked at her like wtf. And goes on to tell me " oh its normal, it happens after you have a kid, dont think Im loose but my vagina its not the same . You will know it will happen to you too". Just because I am pregnant doesn't mean I wanna know what happened to your vagina. All i could say wss TMI and walked away
Sorry, i thought of more: baby bird, I obviously love you, but wtf is up with how often you get hiccups? It's weird. Also @GingerAvenger, fb is terrible and people over share way too much! I haven't posted One.Single.Thing about being pregnant on fb, the people I want to, and think should, know, I've told in person. What does my mom do? Post 2-3 things a week on my timeline about baby this and baby that--thanks for posting my personal, private business online mom, great! Ugh, I should not be allowed to be around people right now
Ugh, I know I'm a day late, but WTF neighbor who has been running his lawn mower during the start of daughter's nap EVERY DAY this week?! Seriously? How well mowed should his lawn be by now? And how much sleep has daughter lost...
Wtf- coworker... after coming back from my break she comes and tells me " I think I wet myself" i looked at her like wtf. And goes on to tell me " oh its normal, it happens after you have a kid, dont think Im loose but my vagina its not the same . You will know it will happen to you too". Just because I am pregnant doesn't mean I wanna know what happened to your vagina. All i could say wss TMI and walked away
Thats a very odd thing to just blurt out... and This does NOT happen to all moms
My uncle just stopped by my work to drop something off and tried telling me that I have no idea how expensive a baby is going to be. I told him that we have money saved up and are prepared and he insisted that I have no idea. Really? Why? Because I'm 26 and this is my first baby must mean I have no clue that a baby isn't cheap?! My husband and I planned this and were trying to have a baby, we wouldn't have done that if we weren't already financially stable.
Wtf- coworker... after coming back from my break she comes and tells me " I think I wet myself" i looked at her like wtf. And goes on to tell me " oh its normal, it happens after you have a kid, dont think Im loose but my vagina its not the same . You will know it will happen to you too". Just because I am pregnant doesn't mean I wanna know what happened to your vagina. All i could say wss TMI and walked away
Thats a very odd thing to just blurt out... and This does NOT happen to all moms
Also - and I can't believe I have to say this again - what grown woman believes that she pees out of her vagina?
Not necessarily a WTF, but didn't want to start my own AW thread. My SIL (married to my brother) texted me last night to tell me that they've had some unexpected financial burdens come up and that they have to cut out all non-essential spending and travel through the end of the year. She apologized that she and my neice won't be able to make it to my shower and that they'll have to skip family Thanksgiving with her side and Christmas with my side this year (they live 4 hours away). I totally understand having to cut down on travel/spending, and I am trying not to be emotional about it, but I'm so hurt that she didn't even acknowledge the fact that they won't meet their nephew when he's born. I couldn't care less about whether or not they're able to come for my shower. Yes, it will be sad to not see them at Christmas. But there's a much larger life event (the reason for said shower..) happening that she didn't even mention. I know newborns aren't that much fun at the beginning anyways, and I know they'll meet him as soon as they can. I guess I'm just hurt. If roles were reversed, the first thing on my list of things I'd be sad to miss would be the birth of my first nephew (first neice or nephew for both of them), and it makes me sad that she didn't even think of it. So WTF.
Me: 28, DH: 40 Married 9/28/13 DS born 11/12/15 EDD 8/13/18
Re: WTF Wednesday 9.16
Whatever you do DO NOT DO ANY RESEARCH OR WATCH ANY VIDEOS ON ANYTHING IN JUAREZ!! You will only scare yourself!!! Trust me.. I had a friend who posted a video of stuff they did and I couldn't sleep for days because I was positively terrified!!!! And they do crazy stuff to anybody but especially women.. I have heard absolute horror stories that have caused nightmares! But usually when they send them there they only send them for a day and then they send them to a safer place!! Will be praying for him to have a safe return! I know how hard it will be and just know your not alone!!
My SIL (married to my brother) texted me last night to tell me that they've had some unexpected financial burdens come up and that they have to cut out all non-essential spending and travel through the end of the year. She apologized that she and my neice won't be able to make it to my shower and that they'll have to skip family Thanksgiving with her side and Christmas with my side this year (they live 4 hours away).
I totally understand having to cut down on travel/spending, and I am trying not to be emotional about it, but I'm so hurt that she didn't even acknowledge the fact that they won't meet their nephew when he's born. I couldn't care less about whether or not they're able to come for my shower. Yes, it will be sad to not see them at Christmas. But there's a much larger life event (the reason for said shower..) happening that she didn't even mention.
I know newborns aren't that much fun at the beginning anyways, and I know they'll meet him as soon as they can. I guess I'm just hurt. If roles were reversed, the first thing on my list of things I'd be sad to miss would be the birth of my first nephew (first neice or nephew for both of them), and it makes me sad that she didn't even think of it.
So WTF.
Married 9/28/13
DS born 11/12/15
EDD 8/13/18