We are 28 weeks pregnant and had zero interest from my family in planning a baby shower. My husband decided to get the ball rolling and started creating invitations and organizing a shower for me. When my family found out he was trying to set one up they became outraged that he was doing it. They said a man had no place being involved, and a shower is for the mother not for the couple. He is now upset that he took the time to try to do something nice for me, and my family just came in and kicked him out of the planning. I also was told he shouldn't have any influence in the guest list or the items on the registry. We are just wondering if this is right or if it's fair to exclude him and his guy friends entirely from the shower.