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**The Everything Random Thread for April Mamas**

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Re: **The Everything Random Thread for April Mamas**

  • Our house is currently undergoing a huge renovation and we are going to be displaced for about a month, livining in extended stay lodging, which is ok with me, but I am stressed out because the contractors have already pushed back the job so much, was supposed to start July 7th, then pushed back to August 7th, then pushed back again and finally starting this week. I have this fear we are going to be dealing with alot of weather delays and it will still be a mess when our little one arrives. On top of that, my DH is very grumpy about it all but we are too far into everything to turn back now. I am hoping that I'm just over thinking this, these pregnancy hormones are all over the place right now. All of these new changes are a little overwhelming at times.
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  • I keep forgetting to shave my right leg! The other day I forgot mascara too. Grr.
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  • My sister went through a phase with making bento lunches for my niece. She was a little obsessed. My niece finally decided she liked eating school lunches better. 

    I will say though that I'd probably eat more carrots it they're shaped like flowers. 
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  • Are there any farm people around? 

    I live on a pond and we have several flocks of wild geese that hang around. One of the flocks has a somehow picked up a white farm goose. I read around and I don't think farm geese can fly. I'm worried about what is going to happen to it when the rest of the flock flies off for winter. Does anyone have any suggestions? Maybe I should call the humane society or approach a local farmer. Or is it possible that the goose could fly south with the rest of them this fall? 
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  • In away I feel like Pinterest makes things less creative. My mom used to cut cheese etc into cute shapes for us. Now if someone does something it's like "thanks Pinterest" and it just seems like people are doing it to AW on Facebook or Instagram. I miss when creativity was your own and it wasn't just people trying to out Pinterest each other!
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • I had ritz crackers in bed this morning Bc of all day sickness and then DH brought DS in (wander husband watched him instead of gym so I could sleep a little extra) DS asked for a "cacka" and then crumbled it al over the sheets. I did a feeble job wiping it and now I am laying in tiny ritz crumbs. So annoying.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • PeggyOlsonFTWPeggyOlsonFTW member
    edited September 2015
    I'm gonna kill someone if no one shoes up to appraise my house today. My realtor texted me late last night asking if it would be ok for the appraiser to swing by super quickly (like 15 min) around 1:15/1:30ish. DS naps at that time and is a super light super, but she assured me the appraiser would be quick and quiet. It's 1:30 and no one is here. I just spent an hour tidying my house and mentally preparing myself to try to keep the dog quiet so he doesn't wake DS. WTF?!?! 

    Update: he showed up a few minutes late and DS woke up the second he walked up the stairs. Cut his nap short by 45 min. Awesome. I knew I should have said no to our realtor. And I won't even get a break at bedtime when DH is home. DS has been freaking out and only wants mommy at bedtime now. I need a break!!

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    BFP #1 12/2012, DS born 8/2013
    BFP #2 7/2015, MMC and D&C 9/2015
    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




  • Our house is currently undergoing a huge renovation and we are going to be displaced for about a month, livining in extended stay lodging, which is ok with me, but I am stressed out because the contractors have already pushed back the job so much, was supposed to start July 7th, then pushed back to August 7th, then pushed back again and finally starting this week. I have this fear we are going to be dealing with alot of weather delays and it will still be a mess when our little one arrives. On top of that, my DH is very grumpy about it all but we are too far into everything to turn back now. I am hoping that I'm just over thinking this, these pregnancy hormones are all over the place right now. All of these new changes are a little overwhelming at times.

    I'm sorry you're dealing with this. We bought a house in Dec and started demoing our master bath right away...and it's just getting tiled this week. SO currently we have no master bath or kitchen and it's been like this since January. At least lo is a good reason to speed things up!
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  • Thank heavens for Costco samples. They are the only thing getting through our biweekly trip.
  • I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.
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    jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    I could sort of get it up to a certain point, after having experienced no belly for so long with ds. I didn't show until really late (like 3rd tri), and didn't feel distinct movement until 20 something weeks. Plus I'm relatively thin (ish lol), so if I was a fluffy girl maybe I wouldn't have shown til even later or felt movement yet. Yes I felt like hell first tri but if I was young and dumb who knows? Maybe I would have just thought I had a stomach bug? But after a certain point, how do you not know? I feel like I need to find a pic to properly explain but I don't have my belly pics on my phone any more. So the real question is how lazy am I lol.


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    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    I could sort of get it up to a certain point, after having experienced no belly for so long with ds. I didn't show until really late (like 3rd tri), and didn't feel distinct movement until 20 something weeks. Plus I'm relatively thin (ish lol), so if I was a fluffy girl maybe I wouldn't have shown til even later or felt movement yet. Yes I felt like hell first tri but if I was young and dumb who knows? Maybe I would have just thought I had a stomach bug? But after a certain point, how do you not know? I feel like I need to find a pic to properly explain but I don't have my belly pics on my phone any more. So the real question is how lazy am I lol.


    Eta: skipped a sentence
    But wouldn't you think you'd notice missing a period for nine months?!? I guess some people have spotting (which I have no experience with), but still, I would guess that's different than a period

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  • jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    I could sort of get it up to a certain point, after having experienced no belly for so long with ds. I didn't show until really late (like 3rd tri), and didn't feel distinct movement until 20 something weeks. Plus I'm relatively thin (ish lol), so if I was a fluffy girl maybe I wouldn't have shown til even later or felt movement yet. Yes I felt like hell first tri but if I was young and dumb who knows? Maybe I would have just thought I had a stomach bug? But after a certain point, how do you not know? I feel like I need to find a pic to properly explain but I don't have my belly pics on my phone any more. So the real question is how lazy am I lol.


    Eta: skipped a sentence
    But wouldn't you think you'd notice missing a period for nine months?!? I guess some people have spotting (which I have no experience with), but still, I would guess that's different than a period

    Honestly no, my period has been so irregular for so much of my life. My cycle changes constantly even when I was on BC. At one point it was every 21 days, then it was just normal ish with variation. Then I would go months without a period, and at two points I had 6-8 weeks of constant bleeding (it was probably polyps or fibroids or something benign that cleared up on its own). So at first I wouldn't notice but after a few months I would.

    Also disclaimer: I would never actually be one of these ladies, since I'm not an idiot lol! I just believe them a little more after having experienced no belly for so long. I remember not believing my mom when she told me that at 20 weeks she was in a bikini on the beach and people didn't believe she was pregnant, but now I get it.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • @ashleymarie1027 did you get my message the other day? You posted something about making a onesie and I wanted to discuss embroidery! I have a little home business and love sharing tips and talking trade etc.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    My MIL works at an OB office and they had one last week she was 23 weeks when she found out. There was no baby belly and the most she had gained was 5lb in those 6 months. The lady said she didn't notice her period being missing because she only has about 2-4 a year and they are so irregular. If I remember correctly my MIL said she was in her late 20s

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  • St0v3s said:

    jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    My MIL works at an OB office and they had one last week she was 23 weeks when she found out. There was no baby belly and the most she had gained was 5lb in those 6 months. The lady said she didn't notice her period being missing because she only has about 2-4 a year and they are so irregular. If I remember correctly my MIL said she was in her late 20s
    I feel like if I was only having a few periods a year and was sexually active, I would hope a doctor would recommend I just stock up on the dollar store tests and POAS every few months.

    I didn't show with DD until 21 weeks and am pretty thin, so I can understand how in that situation you wouldn't know until mid-2nd Tri, especially with how much baby feels similar to gas until then. Once you hit third tri though, how can you miss it??
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  • @ashleymarie1027 did you get my message the other day? You posted something about making a onesie and I wanted to discuss embroidery! I have a little home business and love sharing tips and talking trade etc.

    Was it a PM or a message in a thread? I only bump from mobile so it's not obvious when I've been tagged (or maybe I don't know how to use the app!) I love embroidery! Or I do now that I have a kid :) though I have less time for it now. What do you for your business?
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  • Okay I was unlazy. This is when I finally started showing, 28 weeks. Of course I had to have a special snowflake cover my face LOL!
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • edited September 2015
    @ashleymarie1027 I have a Facebook page that I sell from. I do mostly baby/children's stuff but do some adult stuff too (hats/comfort colors, bags, I even did a yoga mat once!). I also just a found a supplier that has cute market tote and casserole covers etc. I prefer the baby/children's stuff though Bc it's more creative. DS is in preschool twice a week now so I can actually devote time to growing. Of course being pregnant as soon as he started has hindered too much growth lol. Damn first tri.


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    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • @NachosAndPeaches pre-baby I was mostly into quilting, but since baby I've gotten into using my embroidery machine (I'm lucky to have a mom who is VERY talented and into sewing who gifted me a machine when she bought herself a new one). Pre baby I thought embroidery was lame, and now I want to embellish everything!! I just wish I had more time. I'm currently trying to talk myself into making DS a Halloween costume... We'll see
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  • @mrstrax My cousin announced the day I found out. We're dated two days apart.
  • St0v3s said:

    jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    My MIL works at an OB office and they had one last week she was 23 weeks when she found out. There was no baby belly and the most she had gained was 5lb in those 6 months. The lady said she didn't notice her period being missing because she only has about 2-4 a year and they are so irregular. If I remember correctly my MIL said she was in her late 20s
    I work in an ob office and we have never had that happen. Tampons left in for weeks tho.... Yeah that happens a few times a year. I have some crazy stories to say the least
  • @jonesl12 eeeewwwww!

    @mrstrax both my sisters in law were due within a month of me, which meant 3 new grand bakes for MIL in a row in 2014!

    @ashleymarie1027 I hate sewing beyond straight lines, and have never quilted. But I can embroider the hell out of something! lol.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
  • jonesl12 said:

    I'll never understand how it's possible to end up on the show " I didn't know I was pregnant ". Even with only a few symptoms how can you not know you are KU.

    My cousin didn't know. She gave birth to a special needs child and was very depressed afterward because her daughter's needs were a surprise. She went to her doctor for more help with the depression when her daughter was around 8 months old and found out she was pregnant. She thought her pregnancy symptoms were postpartum and depression related and she was nursing so no period was not a concern. She gave birth to her son about 3 weeks after finding out she was even expecting, he was born at 28 weeks. Both kids are healthy & thriving now. I usually think those stories are pretty crazy, but in her situation I can absolutely understand not knowing.


  • @mrstrax both my sisters in law were due within a month of me, which meant 3 new grand bakes for MIL in a row in 2014!

    That's how SIL and I were with DD - we told my ILs they were going to be grandparents again (nephew was 1.5) and my SFIL said "oh they told you?" Umm... No... :)) DD and our niece are 6 weeks apart
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  • That's awesome! My sister in law that was due last is MIL's daughter (me and other sil are DIL), so she's obviously closest. Well to announce she made a little image of first SIL with a number 8 (8th grad child) on her belly, a 9 on me, and then a 10 on her belly.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
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  • @littlesocks I was just telling my mom how I should really start Christmas shopping early instead of waiting until the last minute.
  • Since we're all talking about it:

    I didn't find out until I was 26 weeks with my first. I am one of those people. :)

    And while I have a few more symptoms this time around, I wonder how much of it is because I know...?
  • Our house is currently undergoing a huge renovation and we are going to be displaced for about a month, livining in extended stay lodging, which is ok with me, but I am stressed out because the contractors have already pushed back the job so much, was supposed to start July 7th, then pushed back to August 7th, then pushed back again and finally starting this week. I have this fear we are going to be dealing with alot of weather delays and it will still be a mess when our little one arrives. On top of that, my DH is very grumpy about it all but we are too far into everything to turn back now. I am hoping that I'm just over thinking this, these pregnancy hormones are all over the place right now. All of these new changes are a little overwhelming at times.
    UGH I totally feel your pain!  We started looking for a contractor in February and found one and signed a contract THIS WEEK!  FML!  It's also a big reno (relocating the kitchen a floor below and adding on 10 feet off the back on two floors) but we are going to try and live there mostly sans kitchen for a while.  I'm glad we finally have a contractor but now i'm getting nervous it won't be closed up before the shitty cold weather gets here!!!
  • @Lilpenguin3 @dayzchic9 very stressful! We are doing a complete renovation of an old farmhouse that was built in 1910. One of the contractors is digging a new basement and the the house is being picked up and moved onto it. During the house moving process is when we will be displaced due to all new plumbing and electrical being installed. We are worried about weather delays pushing this job back and the first freeze right around the corner is going to get us stuck in a bad spot. I wish we had a crew that could magically finish the house in one week like that Extreme Makeover show that used to be on TV.
  • mrstraxmrstrax member
    edited September 2015
    I'm participating in a research study through the local university on diet and exercise in pregnancy and as much as I know it would be healthier for me... I really hope I get put in the control group and don't have to stop being lazy. I guess I'll find out on Monday.
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  • @mrstrax I worked at a camp that had a goose problem. The flock picked up a domestic goose. She seemed to stick with them year after year so I think it will be ok.
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  • mrstrax said:

    I'm participating in a research study through the local university on diet and exercise in pregnancy and as much as I know it would be healthier for me... I really hope I get put in the control group and don't have to stop being lazy. I guess I'll find out on Monday.

    That's awesome! Do you get paid for it?
  • I love research studies! You probably won't j is if you're in the control though.

    @minorfall27 need details lol! How did you find out and how did you process it all?

    So sick of being sick. Ramen and fruit are my pregnancy BFFs right now.
    First BFP 12/2012, MMC at 9 weeks
    Second BFP 6/2013, resulted in DS, born 2/23/14 :-)
    Third BFP 5/2015, natural MC at 6 weeks
    Fourth BFP 8/2015, hoping for sticky little brother or sister to H!
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    Proud SAHM to our little monkey H. 
    Pro Vax, extended breasftfeeder, ring sling and stroller loving mama. I don't judge you unless you don't vaccinate!
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