@bhargrave88 hoping it's nothing. The whole saving a girls name under *Glen* is very strange. We're here for you!
Thanks ladies. part of my issue is it's happened to me in two relationships prior to Dh, so when I get that feeling, I'm normally right. I've been with Dh for 7 years, and only had that feeling now. And the last times I had that intense feeling, I was right. He's skirting around it, I've asked him to just be honest. He's not being honest. He tried to say it's the owner of a hotel he worked on, but umm I really lost it when "glen" text him at 10pm.. How is it that "glen" wants to know when you get off work, and wants to text you at 10pm? For what? Nothing good comes out of that, I'm sorry. If it was business related, they have an office number to call, not my husband. It just doesn't add up.
@bhargrave88 I completely agree. There is zero, absolutely zero, need to be texting someone at 10 pm. I hope you get to the bottom of it. And know, you don't deserve to be cheated on.
Thanks for the t&p's. Both LO's have a virus that they have to wait for it to run its course. We got some nausea meds for DS2 & Pedialyte for both of them. Hoping we're coming to an end of this sickness because I am one tired mama! I-)
Curious to know @bhargrave88 ... So who was the mystery glen texting at 10pm???
It was a girl, but umm.. Dumbass here forgot husband is trying to sell his motorcycle ... Guess who rides and owns motorcycles? Agree it's still not appropriate to text at 10pm and my husband was asleep at the time. We had a long talk earlier, he was honest. I've been with him for 7 years, I know when he's being honest . I wouldn't stand for lying, and definitely wouldn't stay if he had been cheating. 2 kids or not, til death do us part or not.. I'd leave. Why the 10pm text? Her break at work.
Yes ma'am!! I really feel like an asshole because he wants to sell the motorcycle so we can go on a vacation, to Tennessee.. I LOVE Tennessee.. Especially at the peak of fall (which is where we originally were going to get married, and changed because DD1 was due to arrive 10/7, our wedding date was 10/11 originally. Ended up marrying in saint Augustine on 06/02) . But DH knows I've been dying to go back to Tennessee.. especially for fall. So I really feel like a jerk.
@bhargrave88 don't be so hard on yourself. If my husband was receiving a text from a woman, under a man's name, at 10pm--->all hell would break loose. I hope someone tells her that's very inappropriate. Still strange that her name was under "Glen" but as long as you feel comfortable with what he told you that's all that matters.
@bhargrave88 I'm a little late to the game.. But don't feel bad. I'm sure at some point or another 95% of us have had suspicions. I mean what do you expect we are still hormonal. But let me tell you if he ever does pull crap like that...go beat a hoe!
Curious to know @bhargrave88 ... So who was the mystery glen texting at 10pm???
It was a girl, but umm.. Dumbass here forgot husband is trying to sell his motorcycle ... Guess who rides and owns motorcycles? Agree it's still not appropriate to text at 10pm and my husband was asleep at the time. We had a long talk earlier, he was honest. I've been with him for 7 years, I know when he's being honest . I wouldn't stand for lying, and definitely wouldn't stay if he had been cheating. 2 kids or not, til death do us part or not.. I'd leave. Why the 10pm text? Her break at work.
Yes ma'am!! I really feel like an asshole because he wants to sell the motorcycle so we can go on a vacation, to Tennessee.. I LOVE Tennessee.. Especially at the peak of fall (which is where we originally were going to get married, and changed because DD1 was due to arrive 10/7, our wedding date was 10/11 originally. Ended up marrying in saint Augustine on 06/02) . But DH knows I've been dying to go back to Tennessee.. especially for fall. So I really feel like a jerk.
My husband is from east TN and we now live in California. We have gone back each year in the fall because it's our favorite time of year there. Our little Autumn was named after it we love it so much. We just booked out tickets to go back next month
But I'm so glad you got closure with the whole husband situation. But don't feel like a jerk, it's important to go with your gut. At least you got it all sorted out.
My inlaws are visiting this weekend and every time I excuse myself to the nursery to feed him I stay in there longer even though he's done. I watch YouTube on my tablet or peruse this August Mommies board. They just bug the shit out of me....hovering around LO like crazy helicopter people....it's my way of saving him from them
My inlaws are visiting this weekend and every time I excuse myself to the nursery to feed him I stay in there longer even though he's done. I watch YouTube on my tablet or peruse this August Mommies board. They just bug the shit out of me....hovering around LO like crazy helicopter people....it's my way of saving him from them
@bhargrave88 don't be so hard on yourself. If my husband was receiving a text from a woman, under a man's name, at 10pm--->all hell would break loose. I hope someone tells her that's very inappropriate. Still strange that her name was under "Glen" but as long as you feel comfortable with what he told you that's all that matters.
He does know a Glen, too lol. But apparently the woman has a SO --Glen? I believe him in this, as hard as that is to say after I felt the way I did. But everything about his body language breathing,and eye contact and how he talked showed he was being truthful. So if he isn't, he's a very good liar and can control those body functions of lying and I would need to be more worried about being married to a sociopath than him cheating lol.
I know this is kinda late, but my cousin gave me her childs old pack n play, booster car seat, and high chair. But they were filthy, covered in stains and spills, and still had food in them even though I was told they'd sat put away in her basement the last few years. Appreciate the gesture, but she's not getting a thank you card. Gross.
I've had one of those nights where I'm up every 30 minutes to an hour feeding or changing the baby. Well the baby started fussing to be changed and I just laid still for a bit and noticed my husband getting up. I thought oh how nice, he's going to actually help... but no, he just went downstairs to sleep uninterrupted. How freaking thoughtful
My confession: I had this gut feeling that I'm being cheated on. It's happened in the past before DH so whenever I get that feeling, paranoia takes over me. I went through DHs phone and wallet. Found out he got a speeding ticket on 8/6, that he didn't tell me about. Then also found him texting a girl who he saved under the name Glen. Nothing inappropriate but why hide it? Yep. Shits about to get real.
Do I feel bad for letting paranoia get the better f me? Yes, but my fear of abandonment and that gut feeling never let me down in the past. We will see.
My inlaws are visiting this weekend and every time I excuse myself to the nursery to feed him I stay in there longer even though he's done. I watch YouTube on my tablet or peruse this August Mommies board. They just bug the shit out of me....hovering around LO like crazy helicopter people....it's my way of saving him from them
I wish so badly I could do this but I've had to switch to EP since we had a lot of issues w/ latching. Now that there is a bottle involve there's no reason for me to retreat to the nursery anymore
Re: **FFFC**
He's skirting around it, I've asked him to just be honest. He's not being honest. He tried to say it's the owner of a hotel he worked on, but umm I really lost it when "glen" text him at 10pm.. How is it that "glen" wants to know when you get off work, and wants to text you at 10pm? For what? Nothing good comes out of that, I'm sorry. If it was business related, they have an office number to call, not my husband. It just doesn't add up.
I guess my paranoia can be blamed on PP hormones, right? :-/
We had a long talk earlier, he was honest. I've been with him for 7 years, I know when he's being honest . I wouldn't stand for lying, and definitely wouldn't stay if he had been cheating. 2 kids or not, til death do us part or not.. I'd leave.
Why the 10pm text? Her break at work.
@SashaDenn25
Yes ma'am!! I really feel like an asshole because he wants to sell the motorcycle so we can go on a vacation, to Tennessee.. I LOVE Tennessee.. Especially at the peak of fall (which is where we originally were going to get married, and changed because DD1 was due to arrive 10/7, our wedding date was 10/11 originally. Ended up marrying in saint Augustine on 06/02) . But DH knows I've been dying to go back to Tennessee.. especially for fall. So I really feel like a jerk.
But I'm so glad you got closure with the whole husband situation. But don't feel like a jerk, it's important to go with your gut. At least you got it all sorted out.
I believe him in this, as hard as that is to say after I felt the way I did. But everything about his body language breathing,and eye contact and how he talked showed he was being truthful. So if he isn't, he's a very good liar and can control those body functions of lying and I would need to be more worried about being married to a sociopath than him cheating lol.