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Cried last night for the most pregnant reason ever...

grkgdss00grkgdss00 member
edited September 2015 in December 2015 Moms
Woke up this morning feeling like an a-hole.
I got home from yoga last night at about 730pm after working all day, and DH was lounging around watching TV. I expected there to be food made/ready, given how late it was and knowing i'd be hungry. Nope, nada. I asked him what he ate for dinner - "leftovers." Well what about me? "sorry I didn't think about it." WTF! Pulled out a bag of trader joes chx fried rice and poured tears into as I cooked it. Then of course it spiraled into how I feel like he doesn't care about me and yada yada. Totally broke his heart for no reason and made him feel so bad, and it started all because food wasn't made for me. I think he learned his lesson, poor DH. I apologized.
Have you cried for any ridiculous reasons yet?
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  • ketobabyketobaby member
    Yes I have a weekly cry for nonsense. Mainly about food especially if someone gets my order wrong X(
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  • Gingermom15Gingermom15 member
    I'm not a cryer. I haven't gotten sappy emotional, but let me tell you I get so angry over small things. SO has been in another country with his unit for the past 3 weeks. He has done absolutely nothing wrong, he can't do anything wrong because he's not here, but sometimes I feel the biggest wave of rage towards him. It's all I can do not to flip out on him we talk. I keep reminding myself that he's been doing nothing but work and therefore can't be doing anything to make me mad.
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  • ACarter0914ACarter0914 member
    I've been such a cryer this pregnancy! I switched OB's and then had another appointment after. I BALLED because we didn't have time to go see the new birthing suite before our next appointment. I feel like a complete fool but thankfully my husband is the best and about 20 minutes later told me there is going to be 15 more appointments before Tucker comes and we would try to go next time.

    I feel like an SUCH a baby.
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  • TheliopsTheliops member
    I think I cry every day. Lately I've just been super sensitive about EVERYTHING. We went to Ikea last night to buy the cribs, and took both cars because we figured only one would fit in each. Sure enough, husband's car fits one crib nicely but my car it had to hang out the back and we used bungee cords to secure it. So I'm driving home, doing 10km under the speed limit to limit the bumps and jolts, and bawling because there's a guy driving behind me clearly getting frustrated because he can't get around me yet. There wasn't anything I could do, and I wasn't about to risk damage to the crib, but still...
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  • caitlyn5454caitlyn5454 member
    This morning, I woke up around 3-ish to go to the bathroom and when I crawled back into bed, I was hit with this overwhelming wave of fear that I'm going to lose SO somehow. It didn't matter how, whether it was just us breaking up, or as drastic as him dying. I laid there breathless for almost a minute before I burst into tears and just sobbed in a ball. When I managed to calm myself down, I curled up right beside him with my back to his chest and pulled his arms around me. It woke him up and he knew right off that I had been crying. He laughed when I told him why, so I called him a jerk and felt much better. He annoys the hell out of me so much and we fight/argue over the dumbest things, but God help me, I really don't know what I'd do without him.
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  • ChiccoBeanzChiccoBeanz member
    edited September 2015
    I cried yesterday... because I had to put BBQ sauce on my cheeseburger so it wouldn't taste like school lunch.


    ETA: My cousin used to cry over KFC commercials when she was pregnant a few years back. Then she'd go out, buy the chicken, come home and in her clothes, lay in the empty bathtub, with the chicken and cry. If you asked her why she was crying, she'd just weep: Chicken!

    I think you're doing fine and I'm sure he knows it's the hormones. No worries.
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  • laura6006laura6006 member
    I'm crying all the time too and my patience is really thin with DH. He switched his schedule to 5-2 and I work 8-5. When he gets home he's been exhausted because he isn't used to being up that early. I have been working 11 hours a day to get some work out that clients are waiting for and when I get home nothing is done. I literally cried the entire time I did dishes last week and didn't talk to DH for three days. I now feel a little bad about it, but he needs to help out a little more too.
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  • reneetsureneetsu member
    grkgdss00 said:

    Woke up this morning feeling like an a-hole.

    I got home from yoga last night at about 730pm after working all day, and DH was lounging around watching TV. I expected there to be food made/ready, given how late it was and knowing i'd be hungry. Nope, nada. I asked him what he ate for dinner - "leftovers." Well what about me? "sorry I didn't think about it." WTF! Pulled out a bag of trader joes chx fried rice and poured tears into as I cooked it. Then of course it spiraled into how I feel like he doesn't care about me and yada yada. Totally broke his heart for no reason and made him feel so bad, and it started all because food wasn't made for me. I think he learned his lesson, poor DH. I apologized.
    Have you cried for any ridiculous reasons yet?
    I don't mean to laugh at you, but hopefully with you today! I have so been there over cottage cheese! And with my son, my brother-in-law lived with us and there were several times I lost it at him for not doing dishes! I can't remember what happened one night but someone made me mad and he told me I just needed to go hormonal pregnant on them! Oops!
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  • Annascr1Annascr1 member
    I cried because Jersey Mikes gave me a chicken and cheese instead of a steak and cheese. It was soo hormonally crazy that now I can only laugh thinking about it.
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  • jjmacejjmace member
    edited September 2015
    Flight attendant made me cry b/c she told me I needed to return to my seat. She then ignored the other dozen or so people who left their seats. I couldn't look at her the rest of the flight without the feeling of injustice and tears resurfacing.

    Edited b/c not sure what happened to my other sentences :/
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  • snooker51snooker51 member
    yl1m32015 said:

    I cried myself to sleep last week because my dog, who is only 1.5 years old, is going to die someday. I can't even think about it. I just can't.

    I did the exact same thing! my dogs only 17 months and I have cried several times over the past months when the thought would randomly pop in my head!
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  • Mizuiro007Mizuiro007 member
    It doesn't matter that I've seen it at least a hundred or so times in the last few months, every time I watch 101 Dalmatians I end up sobbing for the scene where the puppies are covered in ash, sneaking toward the moving truck past Cruella and her goons and the snow is melting and dripping sown on them. I keep thinking they'll be caught and separated and their poor mother and so many things and just sob. Every time.

    Last weekend I cut DS's hair. His very first haircut. The first cut I just lost it, feeling horrified like I'd marred my baby. It took me several minutes to pull myself together and finish.
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  • Knottie67744546Knottie67744546 member
    caitlyn5454 said:

    This morning, I woke up around 3-ish to go to the bathroom and when I crawled back into bed, I was hit with this overwhelming wave of fear that I'm going to lose SO somehow. It didn't matter how, whether it was just us breaking up, or as drastic as him dying. I laid there breathless for almost a minute before I burst into tears and just sobbed in a ball. When I managed to calm myself down, I curled up right beside him with my back to his chest and pulled his arms around me. It woke him up and he knew right off that I had been crying. He laughed when I told him why, so I called him a jerk and felt much better. He annoys the hell out of me so much and we fight/argue over the dumbest things, but God help me, I really don't know what I'd do without him.

    I had this same fear, I actually had a dream DH died and I named our son after him...AND I HATE THE JR/SR names. It's too traditional for me. Nice to know I'm not the only one :-(
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  • MEMichelsonMEMichelson member
    Not a big cryer but I get mad real easy now - sometimes it freaks me out a little. Road rage is the worst right now and my husband doesn't want to ride with me anymore. I also blew up because there were dishes in the sink and clean dishes still in the dishwasher and not put away. I tell ya these crazy pregnancy hormones get the best of me sometimes. 
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  • powellgirlpowellgirl member
    yl1m32015 said:

    I cried myself to sleep last week because my dog, who is only 1.5 years old, is going to die someday. I can't even think about it. I just can't.

    I've definitely cried over the same thing! I also cry if I try to watch any tv shows with dogs lol There was one show where this guy trains dogs to live with handicapped people and I bawled when the dog met his new owner.
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  • zewilliazewillia member
    I watched "The Vow" a while back. Afterwards, I started crying because I thought how horrible it would be if I had an accident and couldn't remember my husband. When I got over that, I started up again because I thought how sad my dog would be if I couldn't remember her. My dog. Then I started laughing at myself while I cried.

    To be fair, I would have been legitimately upset if I came home later after working all day and my husband had eaten and not thought of what I might eat/made something....
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  • Daphneh28Daphneh28 member
    Omg have you all seen Ed Sheeran's video for Photograph? So it's him as a baby and toddler etc etc growing up. So I saw it when I was getting ready to go out and I bawled my makeup off. My SO walks into the room and goes baby why are you crying over Ed Sheeran? And I was like OUR BABY IS GOING TO GROW UP AND GO AWAY! Lol! Babesters was like baby lets just have the baby first and then worry about her growing up and going away. But it just makes me so sad. I wanna cry every time I hear this song on the radio now....
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  • navyblueladybugnavyblueladybug member
    A patient was mean to me last night at work and I got so mad I started crying. He was the biggest ass I've ever had!
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  • Gingermom15Gingermom15 member
    navyblueladybug said:

    A patient was mean to me last night at work and I got so mad I started crying. He was the biggest ass I've ever had!

    And you can't even say anything back! It's the worst. Some patients are just mean.
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  • stickybun14stickybun14 member
    I got upset because our hospital doesn't allow overnight stays (DH) if I need to stay longer that I have planned.

    Then he reminded me that he would have to go home to feed our fur babies and to bring a wrap home for them to get used to the smell of baby.

    I cried because I forgot about my dogs. Love them to bits. Had to buy them some treats to make up for it.
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  • ACarter0914ACarter0914 member
    Oh my god @angelicmommy my husband tells me the same thing and I actually do work! I just don't work as much as he does so that means I need to be his servant when he's home. I'm like hello! I'm 6 months pregnant doesn't that equal something? Nope.
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  • redfallonredfallon member
    @kelseyjane2015 said:
    Two nights ago I told DH that I wanted to start our own christmas traditions this year. We have 6 different places we go every year and I just don't want that to interfere with our own family christmas. I was bawling and DH had no idea what to do. Which made me cry harder because in my mind he didn't care about our family Christmas... it's September and we have time to figure it all out. DH just got down and said to my stomach "what are you two doing to your mother?". Hormones - meh
    We did that last year. I told DH that I want DD to wake up in her own house on Christmas morning instead of either of our parents. His are 2 hours away and mine are 6 hours away and usually we go to his parents Christmas Eve and then spend Christmas morning driving to my mom's to get there in time for lunch and celebration with my stepdad's family.

    We stayed home last year and it was great :) We Skyped with my mom. She said she liked it better than she thought she would. I ended up going to her house sometime in January for a visit.

    Jamie


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  • momotheflyinglemurmomotheflyinglemur member
    My SO has had two days off this week. One Monday the only thing I asked him to have done when I got home was to fold the laundry. I didn't even ask him to put away as we each have our own way of putting things away. When I got home he hadn't done it and instead of talking to him like the grown-ups that we are. I huffed and puffed as I started folding things. He heard me, came over and instantly started apologising for having forgotten to do the one thing I asked. I just started sobbing because I knew he was being genuine and I had so many mean thoughts running through my head for no reason.


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  • marochickenmarochicken member
    This was not a pregnant reason but I went a bit over the top. I looked at Facebook when I was at work yesterday. And there it was; the picture of the 3-year old Syrian boy that drowned on its way to Greece. Ended up sobbing in the bathroom with nose bleeding and everything. People thought something really bad happened to me. It was hard to explain as I don't like having convos like that at work..
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