FTM here with 6wk twin boys. I adore them both but of course we have one fussy colicky boy and one laid bad boy. Especially when I am handling them by myself, I am starting to feel so guilty because I set the laid back one down so quickly so I can deal with the screaming colicky one. I hold the colicky baby way way more then the laid back one and I worry he is going to end up somehow 'damaged' haha because I didn't cuddle him enough - I know crazy new mom brain. And I worry that my husband is going to like the laid back kid more because the fussy one is so much work and just not enjoyable right now. We are working with our doc to try to figure out what is making him so fussy and I know this stage will pass and I will get better at managing two at once. I guess I just needed to get these thoughts out of my head. I don't have any friends with twins so can't commiserate with anyone IRL.