Lost one twin

Re: Lost one twin

• R0824H member

  August 2015 edited August 2015

  I'm so sorry to hear about your loss! I wish I could offer advice but I have not been in that specific situation. Keeping my FX and prayers for Baby A to stay healthy. 

  TT#1 July 2015
  BFP#1 & MC:August 2015  BFP: #2 10/01/2015 MC: 10/09/2015   BFP #3: 12/22/2015 @ 5 weeks  MC/CP: 12-23-2015
  Fertility Appointment: Feb 23/16, Hysteroscopy 03/02/2016,
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• rachrobertson member

  August 2015

  So sorry for your loss. That happened to a friend of mine and twin a is now a healthy 16 month old!

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• valleric member

  August 2015

  So sorry!!!! Hope twin a is strong!

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• beths1202 member

  August 2015

  Yes it just recently happened to me. I went on August 6 for my 12 week appt. Baby a was no longer there. Baby b measured right on track and we got to hear the heartbeat. I was so sad. At first it was very hard being upset for one and trying to be happy about the other. My doc. said this is really common and he has no worries about baby b. All I can do is worry now! My doc. said this is called "vanishing twin syndrome". I googled it and read a lot of info on it and it has made me feel somewhat better about my healthy baby. I also told my coworkers and friends we were expecting and that has helped me to not constantly think about what happened. I hope your healthy baby continues to grow and develop right on track!
  Beth

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• kdtello64 member

  August 2015

  Thanks for all the support. It's comforting knowing that others have been here too and understand.

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• Kissarie member

  August 2015

  When my mom was pregnant with me she miscarried. A couple days later she knew she was still pregnant and I was born. Praying that your other baby survives like I did

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• nram25 member

  August 2015

  Omg that's so saddening. I don't know what I would do if one of my babies died that has to be tough. I'm sorry and pray that everything works out for baby a keep your head up mommy.

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• DanyTargaryen member

  August 2015 edited August 2015

  My ex's sister was pregnant with twins and lost one. The other baby is now a beautiful healthy perfect 10 year old. I'm sorry for your loss and good luck with your pregnancy.

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• adrimolina member

  August 2015

  I haven't experienced something like this but I wanted to say that I am very sorry for your loss, and I hope that baby a is perfect and you have a healthy rest of your pregnancy. Much love to you.

  
  Me: 38 DH: 42.
  Married: 9/2008.

  4/2010 - BFP (Natural)

  12/2010 - DS born.

  8/2014-TTC#2 
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  10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
  5/2015 BFP
  8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks 
  11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
  3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
  4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
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  9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
  11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
  2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
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