I don't really know how to begin with crafts or what to craft I draw but it hasn't been sumthing I've wanted to do lately deep cleaned the house as much as possible Don't have a bike And reading I think I should look into getting sum books
I work all day and it's rough being on your feet 6-8 hours. I'd rather be at home bored right now. Consider yourself lucky. But if I were home, I'd relax and watch TV or I'd get more into some of my hobbies. Reading, painting, drawing, computer games, etc. Whatever you like to do. Maybe try out some new hobbies.
No but I'm so far along in my pregnancy I don't want to go and find a new job just to end up quitting in two months or less because I'll be home with the baby because I won't trust anyone else with him
You are 19 and don't know how to drive. Do you live in NYC, or somewhere that might not require a drivers license? You also don't have a job and don't trust anyone else to take care for your LO? What about your SO? Do you trust him with your LO? And can you afford to not have a job?
Don't ask for advice if you don't want responses. If you have so much time on your hands, make a list of things to do. Your response was awfully rude. It's extremely insensitive and quite frankly stupid to tell a working woman that you "feel bad for their kid" because they work during the day and they are being watched by someone (um, not like it's your business, but my mother will be watching my kid. Is that ok with you?). If I really wanted to, I'd add some nasty other things in here but I'll choose not to. Have a great, boring day.
Man, I hate that the BGs have started removing the quoted comments.
Just so you know, I'm a SAHM & bored out of my mind sometimes. I so miss the mental simulation of my colleagues. But I made the right choice for MY family.
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Man, I hate that the BGs have started removing the quoted comments.
Just so you know, I'm a SAHM & bored out of my mind sometimes. I so miss the mental simulation of my colleagues. But I made the right choice for MY family.
Not all of my colleagues are mentally stimulating, lol.
Man, I hate that the BGs have started removing the quoted comments.
Me too. I'd like to have seen what kind of crap she said about working moms, since I will be one. Not everybody has the option to stay at home. But she sounds immature anyway. It doesn't matter what she thinks.
The worst thing you if you have anxiety issues is to do nothing. Seriously, something, ANYTHING to distract yourself will help. Reading is a great activity, a local library, or even the free stuff on Nook is great (Some of it's good! Some of it's really bad, but it's free!) Take a class or two at a community college. PIck up a hobby of some sort. Learn to knit, learn to cook better, learn to sew, scrapbook, get a tumblr and just tumbl the shit out of anything (Pug tumblrs! Nursery tumblrs! Slash Fic tumblrs!). Exercise. Regular physical activity works just as well as medication for many people for managing anxiety.
Also, get your license, unless you can walk (or take public transportation) to the store, pharmacy and doctors office, you need the ability to get around, especially with a baby. What are you going to do if there's an emergency and you have to get to the Doctor's Office ASAP? What you have posted has raised a lot of red flags about your relationship, having some independence would do you good.
And finally, drop the attitude. Staying at home with your child is a LUXURY in this country. I'm not pregnant yet, but when I do have children, I can think of at least 5 people I can trust to watch my child if I need them too, I think it's super sad that you either can't, or don't have anyone you can trust that much.
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Re: Staying home all day pretty boring
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I draw but it hasn't been sumthing I've wanted to do lately deep cleaned the house as much as possible
Don't have a bike
And reading I think I should look into getting sum books
Why don't you drive?
This is throwing up a ton of red flags for me.
You are 19 and don't know how to drive. Do you live in NYC, or somewhere that might not require a drivers license? You also don't have a job and don't trust anyone else to take care for your LO? What about your SO? Do you trust him with your LO? And can you afford to not have a job?
Low progesterone
Baby boy born 01/2016
Currently: NTNP
DD1 born 11/2014
DD2 born 6/2016
Just so you know, I'm a SAHM & bored out of my mind sometimes. I so miss the mental simulation of my colleagues. But I made the right choice for MY family.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Also she used horrible grammar.
You weren't missing much, actually.
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