January 2016 Moms

Wednesday Confessions....

so ever since I had my son I have a problem with peeing a little bit when I cough or sneeze.. This morning after I dropped him off at day care I had to pull over, gotta love morning sickness, as I throw up I full out piss on myself. I'm 5 minutes from work & 30 minutes from home.. I open up the office and I'm supposed to be doing that as I sit in my car typing this ... I've only been working here for a month so I feel like it will look bad if I have to run home.. Idk what to do!!!!!
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Re: Wednesday Confessions....

  • Is there a store nearby? Like a target or something you could go buy new pants and underwear?
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  • I have 5 days left of summer school and I no longer give a crap. I'll keep the kids busy and happy but the admin can shove it.
  • No I'm by a ton of office buildings :((
  • I'm thinking I just need to make a bad impression .. I see no other choice :(
  • & I just told them I was pregnant last Friday so I feel like it will really just look like an excuse which makes it worse
  • That's too bad.... Have you got someone who could bring you something?

    My confession is I sleep better one no one touches me. SO likes to wake up in the middle of the night and give me a cuddle. Which wakes me up. I'll probably finally tell him today because sleep is important, and I know he'll understand. I wish I liked it.
  • I'm sorry hun! I'd offer to bring them your pee soaked clothes as proof. Lol. I know it doesn't help now, but I'd pack an extra set of clothes and always keep them with you. And practice kegel exercises. They'll help strengthen your muscles and help with bladder control and also with labor and pushing. Good luck!
  • I'm sorry hun! I'd offer to bring them your pee soaked clothes as proof. Lol. I know it doesn't help now, but I'd pack an extra set of clothes and always keep them with you. And practice kegel exercises. They'll help strengthen your muscles and help with bladder control and also with labor and pushing. Good luck!

    All of this. I'm sorry that happened
  • @jgregory0215 yikes! Tell them, "I'm so sorry I had morning sickness on the way here and needed to go home to change" then they don't even have to know about the pee and when people throw up, others don't ask questions. Good luck!!
  • That sucks and I've been there. I would just say you got sick and need to go change very matter-a-factly and don't give details.
    You can't sit all day like that :(
  • That sucks and I've been there. I would just say you got sick and need to go change very matter-a-factly and don't give details. You can't sit all day like that :(
    Agreed! This is exactly what I would do. Having them maybe think that you're using an excuse is better than sitting in pee soaked clothes all day. :(  That is ROUGH though, so sorry you have to start your day this way!
  • I'm really curious about the thread don't read if your a FTM. I haven't opened it since I am but so so curious what it is!
  • I attempted to do a plank today. 30 seconds. I used to do 3 minutes without a quiver.
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    pregnancy #1 :: daughter lost to chromosomal abnormality at 18 weeks
    pregnancy #2 :: son, born Aug 2011
    pregnancy #3 :: due Jan 2016
  • I agree with just saying you got sick on your way to work and have to change your clothes. No mention of the pee. Most people will understand that getting sick happens in pregnancy and that it can get messy.

     

    My confession - I did the exact same thing last week. I gagged so bad while trying to take my prenatal that I puked like crazy, which made me pee myself. Luckily I was home when it happened, but it embarrassing enough just telling my husband why I had to change my pants! I have since switched to gummy vitamins :)

  • sbeara25 said:

    That's too bad.... Have you got someone who could bring you something?

    My confession is I sleep better one no one touches me. SO likes to wake up in the middle of the night and give me a cuddle. Which wakes me up. I'll probably finally tell him today because sleep is important, and I know he'll understand. I wish I liked it.


    I sleep so much better alone lately .. I use to love cuddles.. I want to sprawl out everywhere .. I randomly wake up in the middle of the night and go sleep on my sons top bunk so I can sleep alone lol!
  • Thank you all for your sympathy and some laughs!!! I just went home & told them I'd be back that I was having morning sickness.. I called my boss no answer, so I sent her a text .. Still no answer, but I'm back at work and haven't been questioned yet!
  • I totally exaggerated my nausea and dizziness the other day to get out of cleaning the house...

    And I've got a list of things to get done today on my day off but I just ate my breakfast in bed and I'm still laying down reading The Bump!

    I heart the lazy life.
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    sbeara25 said:

    That's too bad.... Have you got someone who could bring you something?

    My confession is I sleep better one no one touches me. SO likes to wake up in the middle of the night and give me a cuddle. Which wakes me up. I'll probably finally tell him today because sleep is important, and I know he'll understand. I wish I liked it.


    I sleep so much better alone lately .. I use to love cuddles.. I want to sprawl out everywhere .. I randomly wake up in the middle of the night and go sleep on my sons top bunk so I can sleep alone lol!
    Yes! This. My SO falls asleep on the couch every night. I usually wake up around 1 am to turn off the TV and then remind him to come to bed. These days I just turn off the TV and slink away...
  • So strange, these days I sleep much better when I'm touching, or cuddling my hubby. Idk why, but it like calms me down or relaxes me or something...
  • jgregory0215jgregory0215 member
    edited August 2015
    Theliops said:

    I totally exaggerated my nausea and dizziness the other day to get out of cleaning the house...

    And I've got a list of things to get done today on my day off but I just ate my breakfast in bed and I'm still laying down reading The Bump!

    I heart the lazy life.

    IM SO JEALOUS!!!!! My husband has been training with his dad doing paintless dent repair, he owns his own company and does it all alone.. Makes as much money in a month as I do in 6 months.. His dad will be bringing him on to take on his new stops and some of his older ones.. Needless to say I will get to be a stay at home mommy & I can't wait!!! I will get to spend more one on one time with my babies & work more on my photography biz! I'm so excited .. I will take full advantage of being lazy for a while when he starts that.. Assuming this new baby will be just as cool and laid back as my son is .. He will Netflix binge with me all day long Hahahaa fingers crossed!
  • Thank you all for your sympathy and some laughs!!! I just went home & told them I'd be back that I was having morning sickness.. I called my boss no answer, so I sent her a text .. Still no answer, but I'm back at work and haven't been questioned yet!

    Good! You poor thing. That really sucks. Hopefully nobody even says anything. :-) Definitely keep spare clothes in the car. I keep meaning to at least stick some clean underwear in my purse.

  • @TinyDancer51510 I enjoyed your comments on the WTF! Honesty!
  • MaryR0715 said:

    @TinyDancer51510 I enjoyed your comments on the WTF! Honesty!

    I am normally very nice and it takes a lot to push me to the point of snapping at people. But the way this board is being handled is ridiculous. We are asking people to abide by the rules that The Bump set up. Not us.

  • I am really mad at my good friends because they are going out town this weekend and they asked my DH to babysit there dog. I am still so sick that I have a hard time doing anything at home and now he has to take care of me and there dog. So stupid. He said how could I say no when I told him it was stupid. They should of never asked. They know how sick I am. 
  • jgregory0215jgregory0215 member
    edited August 2015
    kylelee23 said:

    I requested Taco Bell for a post dinner snack. I didn't tell my fiancé that I had taco bell for lunch too.

    Hahahhaha what he don't know won't hurt him
  • @ChristinaAnneW it's a funny link about the myths of newborn sleeping. I am FTM and of course I had to click on that one right away.

    @sbeara25 I'm with you. Hubby loves to cuddle. I just can't sleep right now when he's all on me

    My confession is that with all this nonsense happening here (boards being closed, banning, "bullying", people asking silly thins, etc.etc) this site is becoming annoying and not as fun/funny/enjoyable to read. 

    Another confession. I have been having the most bizarre dreams that I wake up weird out by my them and questioning my sanity. 
    I have learned to avoid the boards that people will have too many opinions on because I am not an emotional person, but lately I have been & I hate seeing people being bullied for asking a question or stating their opinion that may seem stupid to another person. Now, I will say with certain threads I get a lot of laughs.. Like this one, no negativity .. & a lot of good stories! I've been having weird dreams too! I must have dreamt that a coworker told me she was going back to Florida because her dad was in the hospital (she just got back from Florida).. So today I tell her I hope her dad gets better soon & asked when she'd be going back to Florida .. Her dad past away over 10 years ago.. I felt like an idiot! She got a good laugh though.. Luckily. Geez!
  • MaryR0715 said:

    @TinyDancer51510 I enjoyed your comments on the WTF! Honesty!

    I am normally very nice and it takes a lot to push me to the point of snapping at people. But the way this board is being handled is ridiculous. We are asking people to abide by the rules that The Bump set up. Not us.


    Okay so I went to the WTF post and just realized it closed! I really need someone to tell me what RTT stands for .. I saw that thread but never even read it because I had no idea what that meant and that it would be so funny!
  • MaryR0715 said:

    @TinyDancer51510 I enjoyed your comments on the WTF! Honesty!

    I am normally very nice and it takes a lot to push me to the point of snapping at people. But the way this board is being handled is ridiculous. We are asking people to abide by the rules that The Bump set up. Not us.


    Okay so I went to the WTF post and just realized it closed! I really need someone to tell me what RTT stands for .. I saw that thread but never even read it because I had no idea what that meant and that it would be so funny!
    Random Thoughts Thread

    Basically, post whatever pops into your head.

  • @jgregory0215 I too enjoy the boards with good stories and lots of laughs. That's why I come on here and I don't want to see these disappear. I agree that things can (and do) get out of hand. I get that some people have a lot of questions/concerns/worries and perhaps it is wrong of me to judge some questions as 'silly' but sometimes after reading the same thing over and over and over again it just is not as enjoyable. ANYWAY! I am glad that you were able to laugh about your dream with your co-worker...that so could have been akward! My dream last night was that I was an astronaut and travelling to the moon. But there was a problem with the space ship and we had to land an alternate universe with weird creatures who were trying to get in the ship. I woke up freaked out and told my husband "get the creatures out of here!". The look on his face was priceless! :)  
  • So I think I'm loosing my best friend. Ever since I got engaged she has been so busy with work, part time work, and part time school that she disappears for weeks. Then she got a BF and it got worse. Now normally I make excuses for her because she is legit super busy, but it's weird now. I get a message from her once in a blue moon and she's always apologetic and "I'm trying to find a balance" but then another 3 weeks go by.

    A few weeks ago it was "I promise I'm still here" and I said not to worry, I'm not going anywhere. Now I suspect she is having trouble with BF because she said this week she has personal life BS and last week she didn't even want me to come watch her baseball game, because she was in bad spirits and wouldn't be good company. I am being totally supportive, but I feel so blocked out. She's not talking to me about what's going on and I can't help.

    I guess it's not really a confession, but I miss her.
    STM - EDD June 24 '18
    DD - January 2016
  • @nickicb7 I went through something similar with one of my best friends. He was just dealing with his own BS and caring for a sick family member. I cried for days because I thought he was avoiding me because I was pregnant or some other crazy stuff.

    He kept reassuring me that he was just super busy. Sometimes, the people we count on have to focus on other stuff. I felt abandoned and hurt. I would suggest just keep sending it out there to her that she's important and when she has the time you'd love to see her. That's all you really can do. She'll eventually get back to you with a time the works for her and it will be like nothing even happened.
  • @jgregory0215 I'm so sorry, that's a tough morning!
    I'm at a Starbucks and after a few sips of a very sugary and caffeinated drink had the "uh oh there's a twosie coming" feeling. I quickly grab my bag and head to the bathroom, which was being held closed. So I start knocking and doing the "excuse me!" routine to be annoying because I had some serious business to attend to. After like 2 solid minutes, a homeless guy with a shopping cart of his things comes out (HOW DID HE GET A SHOPPING CART IN THERE?!) and the bathroom just reeks of mildew and straight-up poo. I had to run into an office building next door and use their lobby bathroom. I hate public restrooms.
  • Confession: Daniel Tiger made me cry, effing hormones.
    Was it the episode where his baby sister Margaret was born? (I may be a FTM, but I'm up to date on the Daniel Tiger scene LOL.)

  • I think the whole Lion killing thing is totally blown out of proportion, who cares?! There are real issues the news should be talking about.
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