So I think we've pretty much decided on a name for DS but thought it would be fun to get some input from the internet! We chose a pretty unique name for DD, naming her after my grandfather. Her name is Waverly Grace. I get a lot of comments on how unique it is and I've also heard a few say "Oh, does that mean your next child will have a unique name!?" We like using family names so we are pretty certain we will use my husband's grandfather's name this go around. We really like the name Charlie Neal. I also like how it sounds with Waverly even though Charlie isn't as unique. Just curious what other's thoughts are! Thank you!
I think Charlie is pretty nicknamey as a given and I can't imagine he would want to be introducing himself as Charlie as an adult. I would do CHarles Neal so he has options when he wants to be more formal like applications etc. Charles Neal is nice and I don't think it matters if the siblings name match perfectly.
Charlie is a nickname. I think you owe your son a full name like his sister. Charles Neal is an awesome name!
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Really appreciate the input. We were thinking along those lines too. Before we knew it was a boy we were thinking Charlotte or Charles. My husband wasn't crazy about Charles which is why we were talking about Charlie. Another fun tidbit is my grandmother named her children nicknames. My dad was Don (not Donald), uncle Johnny (not John or Johnathan), etc. So I thought it'd be kind of neat to follow her tradition as well.
On the other hand, I have seen with my dad where it caused some trouble so to speak. Even with Don he had people tell him he wasn't filling paper work out properly because he wasn't using his full name. They had a hard time understanding his name is legally Don.
So I totally see where all of you are coming from with sticking with Charles. Thanks!!!
I get wanting to follow in your grandmother's footsteps, but I agree with PP that having a formal first name is the way to go. You could introduce him to the world as Charlie but when he fills out important documents in the future and sends in resumes he'll have Charles to fall back on even if he still goes by the nn.
My FIL has the same issue he is Billy and his brothers are Bobby and Benny, they've all said they wish they were given full names for professional purposes, just a little food for thought
I had a friend named Kananaugh growing up and it was a family name. She went by Kav. Her siblings were Emily and Daniel. So I don't think it's necessary to give them all super unique names. Charles Neal is good though!
Charlie is a good nn for Charles, but I would side-eye it with Waverly. I don't think you need to go with something overly unique, but Charles is so classic that I feel the names are really at odds. Maybe pick a more underused first name and use Charles as the middle?
Definitely Charles with Charlie as the nn. Neal as a first name isn't seen very often, so switching it around would work if you're dead set on Charlie.
Re: Sibling Name
Give your child a name they can grow with, not one that stunts their growth.
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