No. Everything that goes in your body affects your baby. If you are dealing with nausea ask you OB to prescribe a nausea pill like Diclegis or take vitamin B6. For stress take a hot bath. The baby inside of you should be your #1 priority. End of story.
-1st MC- June 2014 at 6 weeks
-2nd MC- December 2014 at 7 weeks
-Braxton Bradley has arrived! 1/4/2016 (original EDD was 2/2/2016)
Wow. I'm kind of shocked to see how many people are downright cruel and uninformed on this topic. I'm also sorry that all these other expecting moms seem to lack any understanding at all as I know that is not an easy question to publicly pose nor is vicious nausea easy to cope with. I thought the intent of these forums was for support during what is arguably the hardest transition many women ever make? You must make your own choices regarding your body and your pregnancy. Who is anyone to say your Dr. who knows your history certainly better than anyone on here is wrong?
The effects of stress (cortisol) on our babies is well documented and highly damaging. If marijuana was suggested by your doctor as safe way to relieve stress as well as eat better (I know this is one of the reasons it is recommended to pregnant woman with nausea), these are positive actions for your baby. I would do what I feel is best for me and the baby, and for you this sounds like the right decision.
However, what sort of responses would you expect by posting here? My guess is that you might not want to do it, so are seeking support to not use during pregnancy. In general, I like to listen to medical advice over popular opinion.... Maybe you should seek a second opinion from a doctor?
I was also told by a doctor it was safe to use in moderation while breastfeeding. My midwife suggested marijuana as a pain reliever during labor! I didn't use because I didn't think I would helps be on the "mood" to deliver.
Negative effects of pot during pregnancy is NOT documented. It's also not well documented to be safe due to lack of substantial research (as someone explained above)... Get a second opinion to feel more confident and good luck mama! If the decision stresses you out, then using pot would be for not!
As an aside (and assuming this post was not just for drama), it's okay to put a bunch of synthetic pharmaceutical crap in our bodies, eat food with pesticides, schedule c-sections...blah, blah, but this gets people up in arms on the forum!?? Makes people be cruel? I'm not a pot user, but I would if I get it would benefit my situation... I'm mostly posting here for other readers that are probably curious about this topic but don't dare post due to the worry of being attacked!!
Wow. I'm kind of shocked to see how many people are downright cruel and uninformed on this topic. I'm also sorry that all these other expecting moms seem to lack any understanding at all as I know that is not an easy question to publicly pose nor is vicious nausea easy to cope with. I thought the intent of these forums was for support during what is arguably the hardest transition many women ever make? You must make your own choices regarding your body and your pregnancy. Who is anyone to say your Dr. who knows your history certainly better than anyone on here is wrong?
You will get a lot of support if you're going through something. Just a few days ago one of the regulars thought she was losing her baby and the outpouring of support was strong and real. The happiness when everything was alright was also strong and real. However, if you come on here asking for an opinion, you're going to get an opinion. That opinion may or may not be in line with your opinion. You're never going to find all out support for dividing topics like this. I'll go ahead and warn you that if you're coming here expecting sunshine, rainbows, and kittens, you're not going to find it. What you will find is some knowledgeable, good-hearted, fun women who will tell you what you need to hear whether you like it or not.
Wow. I'm kind of shocked to see how many people are downright cruel and uninformed on this topic. I'm also sorry that all these other expecting moms seem to lack any understanding at all as I know that is not an easy question to publicly pose nor is vicious nausea easy to cope with. I thought the intent of these forums was for support during what is arguably the hardest transition many women ever make? You must make your own choices regarding your body and your pregnancy. Who is anyone to say your Dr. who knows your history certainly better than anyone on here is wrong?
You will get a lot of support if you're going through something. Just a few days ago one of the regulars thought she was losing her baby and the outpouring of support was strong and real. The happiness when everything was alright was also strong and real. However, if you come on here asking for an opinion, you're going to get an opinion. That opinion may or may not be in line with your opinion. You're never going to find all out support for dividing topics like this. I'll go ahead and warn you that if you're coming here expecting sunshine, rainbows, and kittens, you're not going to find it. What you will find is some knowledgeable, good-hearted, fun women who will tell you what you need to hear whether you like it or not.
------------------------ This ^ And if you don't want to hear it then why ask at all? Ultimately yes, it's her decision. But she asked and got opinions. Doesn't mean we all have to agree with her and be supportive if we don't agree. That's not how it works. On here, on other boards, or in life for that matter.
Wow. I'm kind of shocked to see how many people are downright cruel and uninformed on this topic. I'm also sorry that all these other expecting moms seem to lack any understanding at all as I know that is not an easy question to publicly pose nor is vicious nausea easy to cope with. I thought the intent of these forums was for support during what is arguably the hardest transition many women ever make? You must make your own choices regarding your body and your pregnancy. Who is anyone to say your Dr. who knows your history certainly better than anyone on here is wrong?
You will get a lot of support if you're going through something. Just a few days ago one of the regulars thought she was losing her baby and the outpouring of support was strong and real. The happiness when everything was alright was also strong and real. However, if you come on here asking for an opinion, you're going to get an opinion. That opinion may or may not be in line with your opinion. You're never going to find all out support for dividing topics like this. I'll go ahead and warn you that if you're coming here expecting sunshine, rainbows, and kittens, you're not going to find it. What you will find is some knowledgeable, good-hearted, fun women who will tell you what you need to hear whether you like it or not.
------------------------ This ^ And if you don't want to hear it then why ask at all? Ultimately yes, it's her decision. But she asked and got opinions. Doesn't mean we all have to agree with her and be supportive if we don't agree. That's not how it works. On here, on other boards, or in life for that matter.
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I'm by no means suggesting that everyone has to agree and clearly understand that she's asking for advice. I do not however think that asking for some respect and compassion from other women is uncalled for. We all have varying levels of awareness on this topic and clearly many of the women here are just misinformed. It's one thing to have an opinion it's another to be cruel and yes, judgmental, about someones situation with very limited information. Additionally, people are far too quick to make assumptions... Assuming she has no medical need, assuming I'm looking for butterflies and rainbows in these forums and proceeding to tell me how the world works as if I'm in need of that lesson. I'm not looking for anything in here. I'm perfectly capable of researching things in the proper way. My only point is women need to lay off hating one another it does no one any good and just further divides us.
I'm by no means suggesting that everyone has to agree and clearly understand that she's asking for advice. I do not however think that asking for some respect and compassion from other women is uncalled for. We all have varying levels of awareness on this topic and clearly many of the women here are just misinformed. It's one thing to have an opinion it's another to be cruel and yes, judgmental, about someones situation with very limited information. Additionally, people are far too quick to make assumptions... Assuming she has no medical need, assuming I'm looking for butterflies and rainbows in these forums and proceeding to tell me how the world works as if I'm in need of that lesson. I'm not looking for anything in here. I'm perfectly capable of researching things in the proper way. My only point is women need to lay off hating one another it does no one any good and just further divides us.
If I remember correctly, no one started assuming anything about OP until they realized she posted another thread around the same time involving a not-so-great relationship/borderline DV situation and very well could be MUD...
I'm by no means suggesting that everyone has to agree and clearly understand that she's asking for advice. I do not however think that asking for some respect and compassion from other women is uncalled for. We all have varying levels of awareness on this topic and clearly many of the women here are just misinformed. It's one thing to have an opinion it's another to be cruel and yes, judgmental, about someones situation with very limited information. Additionally, people are far too quick to make assumptions... Assuming she has no medical need, assuming I'm looking for butterflies and rainbows in these forums and proceeding to tell me how the world works as if I'm in need of that lesson. I'm not looking for anything in here. I'm perfectly capable of researching things in the proper way. My only point is women need to lay off hating one another it does no one any good and just further divides us.
I'm just trying to clear up your misconception that this is a support group. It's not. Several posters said that they don't have enough information on it to make a clear cut judgment for another person but that they themselves would not partake. No one was cruel. No one was hating.
My god. I wish I could report on mobile. No one called anyone names and yet we are the "pregnant bitches"?? Come on. What's with all these white knights?
My god. I wish I could report on mobile. No one called anyone names and yet we are the "pregnant bitches"?? Come on. What's with all these white knights?
Don't worry I reported. I'm not one to rush to report folks, but looking over her other threads and the way she behaves on here I felt totally okay with this one.
Don't worry I reported. I'm not one to rush to report folks, but looking over her other threads and the way she behaves on here I felt totally okay with this one.
She's had 4 replies, one has been removed for TOU violation and now this one has been reported at least twice. Interesting...
I hope my story gets your attention. I had a friend that smoked pot every so often on a Saturday during her pregnancy. (Only Saturdays because she knew how to beat the piss test by Monday and she knew her job wouldn't test hair.) We tried to get her clean but she wouldn't stop. Like clockwork the following Sunday at church she would be complaining of stomach cramps, chest pains and/or back pain and we would have to call an ambulance to take her to the ER. The baby was in distress every time she was rushed to the ER, the mother almost went into premature labor three times, her child is smaller in weight and height than the other children her age, and she has a hard time learning and paying attention in class. Now the latter could be due to something else (not taking her prenatal vitamins, genetics, parents not helping, etc) but I ask you, why take the risk? As mothers our one of our most important jobs while pregnant is giving our baby a fair chance at a healthy life. PLEASE don't rob your child of that gift before he/she is even born.
You pregnant bitches are mean always judging someone ! Clearly she needed advice not to b judged by you all .. I completely understand I just stopped since I don't get sick as much but it really did help a lot . But just think about your babies health & you don't want DCFS involved! So by 13 weeks the sickness should go away and therefore you won't need to smoke anymore . but don't let these women make you feel bad a lot of them prolly doing dumb shit while pregnant just scared to admit it on here !
My god. I wish I could report on mobile. No one called anyone names and yet we are the "pregnant bitches"?? Come on. What's with all these white knights?
You pregnant bitches are mean always judging someone ! Clearly she needed advice not to b judged by you all .. I completely understand I just stopped since I don't get sick as much but it really did help a lot . But just think about your babies health & you don't want DCFS involved! So by 13 weeks the sickness should go away and therefore you won't need to smoke anymore . but don't let these women make you feel bad a lot of them prolly doing dumb shit while pregnant just scared to admit it on here !
My god. I wish I could report on mobile. No one called anyone names and yet we are the "pregnant bitches"?? Come on. What's with all these white knights?
You can.
Every time I hit the report my screen just froze and went grey and didn't do anything. Huh. Maybe it's just my app.
You pregnant bitches are mean always judging someone ! Clearly she needed advice not to b judged by you all .. I completely understand I just stopped since I don't get sick as much but it really did help a lot . But just think about your babies health & you don't want DCFS involved! So by 13 weeks the sickness should go away and therefore you won't need to smoke anymore . but don't let these women make you feel bad a lot of them prolly doing dumb shit while pregnant just scared to admit it on here !
My god. I wish I could report on mobile. No one called anyone names and yet we are the "pregnant bitches"?? Come on. What's with all these white knights?
You can.
Every time I hit the report my screen just froze and went grey and didn't do anything. Huh. Maybe it's just my app.
It does that. You have to scroll up. And it will show. Maybe give it a few seconds.
I hope my story gets your attention. I had a friend that smoked pot every so often on a Saturday during her pregnancy. (Only Saturdays because she knew how to beat the piss test by Monday and she knew her job wouldn't test hair.) We tried to get her clean but she wouldn't stop. Like clockwork the following Sunday at church she would be complaining of stomach cramps, chest pains and/or back pain and we would have to call an ambulance to take her to the ER. The baby was in distress every time she was rushed to the ER, the mother almost went into premature labor three times, her child is smaller in weight and height than the other children her age, and she has a hard time learning and paying attention in class. Now the latter could be due to something else (not taking her prenatal vitamins, genetics, parents not helping, etc) but I ask you, why take the risk? As mothers our one of our most important jobs while pregnant is giving our baby a fair chance at a healthy life. PLEASE don't rob your child of that gift before he/she is even born.
Ugh. Not that I disagree with being cautious during pregnancy and not taking chances when there are scientific uncertainties but I really do hate this kind of anecdotal scare tactic. I once knew a girl who had a miscarriage. She was an accountant. Does that mean you shouldn't be an accountant if you want to carry your baby to full term? There's a difference between causation and correlation ( and this one incident with no indication that there was proof the preterm labor was linked to her mj usage doesn't even rise to the level of correlation).
I Definitely wouldn't do it and I know my Drs office drug test every pregnant patient at every appointment and have a note in the office saying if something shows up during delivery cps and police will be there waiting to take the baby and you into custody. I know every state is different but it can't be that far off ... I'm a little late on this topic but wanted to share my input but hey to each their own your choices and your consequences ( not just saying that to be rude but hoping it makes you think before you do)
I think as a mother and a human being you need to make this decision on your own. Do what you feel is right. For the baby and for your body as well. If you feel uncomfortable smoking then don't. But if you do then you need to make sure its a decision you're not going to allow people to make you feel bad about. If it turns out badly then take it as a lesson learned and dont br proud of it but still know that it was a decision you thought was right for you. Its no one elses business what you do. And especially with this topic cuz no one really knows the affects. So its a risk that you decide if you want to make and if you choose to smoke it doesn't make you a bad mom whatsoever! I hope this helps and that you have an amazing pregnancy!
Technically marijuana is classified as a drug. If you wouldn't do cocaine while pregnant I suggest you stear clear of pot as well. A drug is a drug no matter which one you're doing and it's better to stay away from any illicit substances while pregnant than risk having a) DCF get involved and your child taken away or b) harming the baby inside you who is depending on you to take good care of yourself and them.
Re: marijuana yes or no?
(original EDD was 2/2/2016)
However, what sort of responses would you expect by posting here? My guess is that you might not want to do it, so are seeking support to not use during pregnancy. In general, I like to listen to medical advice over popular opinion.... Maybe you should seek a second opinion from a doctor?
I was also told by a doctor it was safe to use in moderation while breastfeeding. My midwife suggested marijuana as a pain reliever during labor! I didn't use because I didn't think I would helps be on the "mood" to deliver.
Negative effects of pot during pregnancy is NOT documented. It's also not well documented to be safe due to lack of substantial research (as someone explained above)... Get a second opinion to feel more confident and good luck mama! If the decision stresses you out, then using pot would be for not!
As an aside (and assuming this post was not just for drama), it's okay to put a bunch of synthetic pharmaceutical crap in our bodies, eat food with pesticides, schedule c-sections...blah, blah, but this gets people up in arms on the forum!?? Makes people be cruel? I'm not a pot user, but I would if I get it would benefit my situation... I'm mostly posting here for other readers that are probably curious about this topic but don't dare post due to the worry of being attacked!!
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And if you don't want to hear it then why ask at all?
Ultimately yes, it's her decision. But she asked and got opinions.
Doesn't mean we all have to agree with her and be supportive if we don't agree. That's not how it works. On here, on other boards, or in life for that matter.
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And if you don't want to hear it then why ask at all?
Ultimately yes, it's her decision. But she asked and got opinions.
Doesn't mean we all have to agree with her and be supportive if we don't agree. That's not how it works. On here, on other boards, or in life for that matter.
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I'm by no means suggesting that everyone has to agree and clearly understand that she's asking for advice. I do not however think that asking for some respect and compassion from other women is uncalled for. We all have varying levels of awareness on this topic and clearly many of the women here are just misinformed. It's one thing to have an opinion it's another to be cruel and yes, judgmental, about someones situation with very limited information. Additionally, people are far too quick to make assumptions... Assuming she has no medical need, assuming I'm looking for butterflies and rainbows in these forums and proceeding to tell me how the world works as if I'm in need of that lesson. I'm not looking for anything in here. I'm perfectly capable of researching things in the proper way. My only point is women need to lay off hating one another it does no one any good and just further divides us.
Baby F.......02/02/2016
Baby F.......02/02/2016
Baby F.......02/02/2016
I still sometimes text while driving...
Baby F.......02/02/2016
There's a difference between causation and correlation ( and this one incident with no indication that there was proof the preterm labor was linked to her mj usage doesn't even rise to the level of correlation).
Crossing my fingers that this is MUD.