An incident that occurred earlier this week with my son has left me ANGRY! I am struggling with the racism and bullying issue big time. It is our responsibility as parents to teach our children the difference in right and wrong and how to handle situations. It is NOT our job to be their best friend. Teach your children that we are ALL human regardless of our differences. Teach your children that there are consequences to EVERY decision you make. Making excuses for your decisions and actions is unacceptable. I could rant about this all day right now, but I won't. ---Sorry for the heavy subject I think I just needed a safe place to vent a little.
I am immature and tried to not like one of the younger faculty who just moved to campus. She is replacing a really great friend of mine who moved to another school. I haven't made any effort to spend time with the new girl and she is making fast friends with the majority of my other friends. Last night she went to dinner and I was being cold and distant with her. Two drinks later and I am pretty sure I love her. I am a mean girl and I know it was wrong but...
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
BFP: April 10, 2016 EDD: December 19, 2016 Team Blue! Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
I can't stand my brother's girlfriend. She constantly talks about their wedding and that they are looking at dates in November 2016. Did I mention that they aren't even engaged yet?
It really gets my goat when people ("noobs") come in and ask questions/look for support, get what they want and never come back nor do they say thank you. Just because it's the interwebz doesn't mean you can't practice manners.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
I had a meeting a few weeks back about how I'm pretty much the office manager at work but they don't pay me like one. The results were a title change and a bump in pay. They asked me to give the other administrative assistant more stuff to do so that I can focus on other things. I've been sending everything her way so that I can surf the internet for half of my day.
I'm having a total pout-fest because H will be gone during my birthday next week, and he hasn't even asked if either a. want a present or b. want to celebrate with him.
So yeah, that makes me pissy. On my 11th birthday my family forgot until after work time (for my mom) so yeah, people forgetting my birthday is a big deal. Oh, and I anticipate people forgetting too. Yeah...chip on the shoulder.
I can't stand my brother's girlfriend. She constantly talks about their wedding and that they are looking at dates in November 2016. Did I mention that they aren't even engaged yet?
Also,
That's not a good sign. An acquaintance of mine's girlfriend kept planning their wedding before he proposed. He had no intention of proposing, and they recently broke up. She pushed him to get married, and he wasn't picking up what she was putting down. So maybe you won't have to deal with her much longer haha :P.
@crzyforbabies - dear Lord, I hope not. Sounds like your acquaintance figured it out! She is BSC and speshul snowflayke all rolled into one. She caught the bouquet at my other brother's wedding and I just wanted to be like:
I'll end my rant there otherwise I could go on for hours!
Every Monday I say I am going to start working out and eating better so I can lose weight before I get pregnant. I just ate blueberry pie at lunch and a huge muffin for a snack.
@crzyforbabies - dear Lord, I hope not. Sounds like your acquaintance figured it out! She is BSC and speshul snowflayke all rolled into one. She caught the bouquet at my other brother's wedding and I just wanted to be like:
I'll end my rant there otherwise I could go on for hours!
ETA: I love spelling out speshul snowflayke!
Do you tell him you don't like her? I have two brothers, and I always let them know if I didn't like their gfs, especially the younger one. Even if they don't admit it, I probably have some influence on them. That's why I am glad my DH doesn't have sisters, because it's hard to get sister approval. Now my older brother has a lovely, kind, successful wife, and I couldn't be happier. They both have a tendency to go for witchy women.
I'm not the biggest fan of my MIL and never really have been, she recently got 2 kittens and I refer to them as Max & Oreo because "Little BUgger & Crybaby" are NOT pet names....seriously
In the "recent" past, I'd had a couple of glasses of wine and was listening to music with my dogs around after MH had gone to sleep. I was singing along as they were staring at me (note that I cannot carry a tune) when I had a BRILLIANT IDEA: I could lip sync to the song and the dogs would think I was singing and I was super talented.
Yep. I fooled them.
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Married Sept '13 TTC Dec '13 BFP 10/8/2014 MMC 11/20/2014 D&C 11/26/14 BFP 9/20/2015 MMC 10/7/2015 D&C 10/15/15
@crzyforbabies - oh he knows that no one likes her (and when I mean no one I'm talking about both parents, his twin brother and his wife, DH and I, and our extended families - yes, she's made even my sweet aunts not like her). We've all told him and he seems to not care. And doesn't care that she is constantly rude and throws tantrums. Seriously, one time she told us about how she keyed her own brothers' car because he had made her mad. And was proud of it.
I just hope that he wises up otherwise it's going to be a hot mess for him.
I DESPISE my sisters boyfriend. He is 32 (sis is 21), he is long term unemployed, he has a DS who he has zero custody of, he is socially inept. If it weren't for my sister he would not have a roof over his head or food to eat. DH and I spend a lot of time plotting ways to get rid of him.
I am a teacher home for the summer... and I am SO grateful to have this time with my son, I do think that in that way being a teacher is the absolute best of both worlds... but I confess that I have JUST hit the threshold where I am ready to go back. Sometimes (read - springtime when I'm really in the thick of it at work), I wish I could stay at home... but then I do it for a few months and remember that staying at home with a kid (or kids!) is really fun, but also can be really hard.
Amanda
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
Also, I confess that I have already bought pretty much an entire fall/winter wardrobe for my son, and I still have items in my cart at Zara, Boden, and H&M. I have a problem! It's July in NC!
Amanda
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
If it wasn't for DH & I being on my insurance (his company is small and doesn't have those kinds of benefits) I would have walked out on my 7 year job this week with my finger in the air.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
I've known DH's brother the majority of my life (and DH indirectly). About 5 years ago DH's brother wanted to go out with me and I told him I don't do long distance relationships; he was only an hour away. Fast forward 3 years, I met DH and we began our relationship with 600 miles between us...
Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
Hmm should I even admit this on this board, well I stopped temping.....
I did it for two months at the end of school year but stopped during summer vacation. I had tons of traveling, with weird sleep schedules. And I had a teacher conference where I was rooming with one of my teachers and did not want to explain to her why I was temping. (They do not know I am TCC) Once school starts I will be back to my normal sleep/schedule so I will start back up gaian but it was just too much of a pain during June and July. I only just started trying in July and school starts back up soon so it should not be a big issue.
Also, I confess that I have already bought pretty much an entire fall/winter wardrobe for my son, and I still have items in my cart at Zara, Boden, and H&M. I have a problem! It's July in NC!
This made me chuckle. I know what you mean, but it's July everywhere!
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
Hmm should I even admit this on this board, well I stopped temping.....
I did it for two months at the end of school year but stopped during summer vacation. I had tons of traveling, with weird sleep schedules. And I had a teacher conference where I was rooming with one of my teachers and did not want to explain to her why I was temping. (They do not know I am TCC) Once school starts I will be back to my normal sleep/schedule so I will start back up gaian but it was just too much of a pain during June and July. I only just started trying in July and school starts back up soon so it should not be a big issue.
I really don't think anyone cares so much that people don't temp, cuz that's fine honestly, it's just the when did I O questions that drive ppl bonkers. There are lots of regs that dont temp.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
I'm telling a "friend" that I'm going out of town this weekend because I don't want to babysit. I feel bad, but she literally only talks to me when she needs a babysitter, never pays, never wants to hang out with or without our kids... I feel used, and with my mom and sister that live with me going out of town I just want a stress free weekend at home alone with my DH and my boys.
Also, I confess that I have already bought pretty much an entire fall/winter wardrobe for my son, and I still have items in my cart at Zara, Boden, and H&M. I have a problem! It's July in NC!
This made me chuckle. I know what you mean, but it's July everywhere!
Haha as soon as I hit post I realized what it sounded like!! And thought about trying to re-word it, but then didn't.
Amanda
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
A girl forgot to pin ttc stuff to a secret board so it ended up all over fb. I'm hoping she gets ktfu here in Oct or Nov so I can take her job... I'm a terrible person o well
Re: FFFC- Flame Free Friday Confessions!
An incident that occurred earlier this week with my son has left me ANGRY! I am struggling with the racism and bullying issue big time. It is our responsibility as parents to teach our children the difference in right and wrong and how to handle situations. It is NOT our job to be their best friend. Teach your children that we are ALL human regardless of our differences. Teach your children that there are consequences to EVERY decision you make. Making excuses for your decisions and actions is unacceptable. I could rant about this all day right now, but I won't. ---Sorry for the heavy subject I think I just needed a safe place to vent a little.
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I am a mean girl and I know it was wrong but...
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
I had a meeting a few weeks back about how I'm pretty much the office manager at work but they don't pay me like one. The results were a title change and a bump in pay. They asked me to give the other administrative assistant more stuff to do so that I can focus on other things. I've been sending everything her way so that I can surf the internet for half of my day.
So yeah, that makes me pissy. On my 11th birthday my family forgot until after work time (for my mom) so yeah, people forgetting my birthday is a big deal. Oh, and I anticipate people forgetting too. Yeah...chip on the shoulder.
Formerly: FtrMrsO
Me: 34 DH: 35
Married: Oct. 2007
TTC #1: June 2015
BFP#1 3/19/16 MC 3/28/16
BFP #2 5/26/16 EDD 1/31/17
Formerly: FtrMrsO
Me: 34 DH: 35
Married: Oct. 2007
TTC #1: June 2015
BFP#1 3/19/16 MC 3/28/16
BFP #2 5/26/16 EDD 1/31/17
BFP#1 & MC:August 2015 BFP: #2 10/01/2015 MC: 10/09/2015 BFP #3: 12/22/2015 @ 5 weeks MC/CP: 12-23-2015
Fertility Appointment: Feb 23/16, Hysteroscopy 03/02/2016,
BFP #4: 03/31/16 EDD 12/01/2016
Married Sept '13
TTC Dec '13
BFP 10/8/2014 MMC 11/20/2014 D&C 11/26/14
BFP 9/20/2015 MMC 10/7/2015 D&C 10/15/15
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
Rhys - born 04.17.2013
Harry - born 04.18.2016
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
Rhys - born 04.17.2013
Harry - born 04.18.2016
If it wasn't for DH & I being on my insurance (his company is small and doesn't have those kinds of benefits) I would have walked out on my 7 year job this week with my finger in the air.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021
Edit: my concept of time sucks
3/2015: Start TTC
8/2015: PCOS Dx
4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
2/2017: BFP
Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
I did it for two months at the end of school year but stopped during summer vacation. I had tons of traveling, with weird sleep schedules. And I had a teacher conference where I was rooming with one of my teachers and did not want to explain to her why I was temping. (They do not know I am TCC) Once school starts I will be back to my normal sleep/schedule so I will start back up gaian but it was just too much of a pain during June and July. I only just started trying in July and school starts back up soon so it should not be a big issue.
Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Edit for typos
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Nov siggy challenge: animals eating Thanksgiving food
Rhys - born 04.17.2013
Harry - born 04.18.2016