Hey everyone! I go on Tuesday, the 28th, for my first appointment! I'm about 6 weeks and 3 days, according to my last period. I'm nervous, excited, happy, scared and everything in between. What should I expect to hear and see at this appointment? What all do they do besides the ultrasound and whatnot?
Re: What to expect at first prenatal visit?
To say I am disappointed with my appointment would be an understatement. I called to schedule my appointment and was told my dr. likes to see people between their first 6-8 weeks. I mentioned I have a history of ectopic pregnancies and the person making my appointment decided they should see me sooner (I'm just over 5 weeks) and I should have an ultrasound to rule out another ectopic. Not for the purpose of seeing a heartbeat, simply to make sure both me and baby are safe. I generally make my appointments on the days my doctor's office is open later so I don't have to miss work, but couldn't this time because of the ultrasound tech's schedule. So my appointment was noon today.
Fast forward to 1:05 when I finally asked someone how much longer it would be (not in my nature to piss the people taking care of me off) and learned that I was merely scheduled to confirm the pregnancy. Oh and the ultrasound tech had just left for the day because whoever made my appointment neglected to put me on the schedule. Upon hearing this news I start BAWLING. Like, full on ugly cry. I am not a very emotional person so I am so embarrassed but I couldn't stop it and don't know if I even want to go back there.
I will say that the nurses (or NAs? lab techs? I never know) were beyond nice and accommodating once I approached one of them (the woman at the front desk that checked me in was at lunch and I suspect she is the one that made my appointment) about my wait. But it still took a full 2 hours just to pee in a cup, meet the NP (oh yeah - my dr is on vacation and no one mentioned that to me when I was making the appointment) and give one vile of blood, so I'm not pleased.
I really like my dr and MOST of the staff, but I have to keep my job and can't do this whole 3 hour lunch thing again, so if my appointment in 2 weeks doesn't go better I am going to switch.
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
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