just found out we have to miscarry. In technical terms a miss-miscarry. I am roughly around 7 weeks and not sure if the pill or d & c will be the best choice. Reading reviews it's half and half and I am needing some advice on what I should do? I heard good and bad things on both ends, my husband and I are at a loss. Thank you for your advice and I am sorry for all our losses.
Re: The Pill or d & c?
With regards to your choice, I researched both and opted to go for the pill, I was booked in to take that today. At 6weeks gone my nurse encouraged the tablet over the d & c, she said it was better in the long term recovery wise, however after reading some comments a lot of women recover very quickly both ways. As far as advice on how it went for me I'm pleased to say I never got round to taking it, my body started miscarrying naturally last night so hosp advised to stay put an let body do its thing... I think natural is always best but the waiting time is horrendous when all want is closure! Lots of love to you throughout this horrible time x
In fact, I've decided for my current loss I will be opting for a d&c again. I just need this done and over.
For reasons I can't totally articulate, the pill freaks me out. Maybe bc starting m/c isn't the intended use? I've also heard anumber of people tell me it is super intense and painful if it works for you. Like I was advised to have someone here to care for my children if I took the pill. Also, I know several people who ended up needing a d&c after taking the pill anyway.
I hope your d&c goes smoothly and you recover easily from a physical standpoint. I'm sorry for your loss.
DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.
DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.