I hate my job! I hate my new manager! I'm planning on screwing them over by not coming back after maternity leave! FU guys! This place is not the place for me
I feel like me griping about how much I dislike pregnancy is pointless... My real beef right now is with time. Hurry up. I want to keep my baby in and will not be wishing her out sooner than she's ready (crazy bitchfest eye roll at the recent drive by posters), so I will pick my battle with time... Again, hurry up!
I'm with you on this! I do not want baby to come early, but I really wish time would hurry up. Especially because I have NOTHING to do at work for the next 5 weeks because I've already turned everything over to my coworker. So. Freaking. Bored.
Also, I'm so irritated with DH regarding naptime for DS. He used to go down at 2:00ish, and while DH is off over the summer, he hasn't been putting him down until almost 3:30. Then DS rolls around for an hour (while DH gets frustrated that he's not sleeping and texts me bitching about it). DS ends up sleeping until 6:00pm, cutting into my time with him in the evening. I'm lucky if I get 3 hours/day with DS, and he might actually go to sleep better if DH would just stick to his routine.
Stupid new Landlord ! Who told me my apt would be ready in 2 1/2 wks .. Well 3 wks later still NO PROGRESS. I told him im due in 2wks and now he said ok I think I can get done by the end of 2 wks :-t great so you want me to go from the hospital bed to moving boxes with a newborn and a toddler.. Sounds wonderful :!!
Any and everything is annoying me today. I'm so tired of having a baby in the NICU. Especially since the hospital is an hour and a half away. Every time a doctor or nurse talks to me I get annoyed even though I know they're only there to help and it's not their fault my baby is in the NICU. Going on 15 days now and I just think it's really starting to get to me. I just want my baby home.
A woman I know thru a friend today stopped me in the store I was shopping at and screamed "What the fuck do you have in your belly?" Shocked at her language on the milk isle of the store I replied "what the fuck do you think" she then went on to ask me "So where's your baby daddy?" I said "He's not my baby daddy he's my partner! But whilst we are on the subject where is your BABY DADDY!!!" Knowing full well she isnt with her ex anymore.This woman is a pain we share a mutual friend but hopefully from now on she won't talk to me lol
Any and everything is annoying me today. I'm so tired of having a baby in the NICU. Especially since the hospital is an hour and a half away. Every time a doctor or nurse talks to me I get annoyed even though I know they're only there to help and it's not their fault my baby is in the NICU. Going on 15 days now and I just think it's really starting to get to me. I just want my baby home.
I completely understand how you feel. 32 days in and I'm exhausted. Good luck mama! We can get through this
Bitchy because my husband thinks organizing is moving a mess from one room into another room....wtf?! Yes....please don't move the cleaning supplies that you use MAYBE once a week while I use them on the DAILY. Rant over.
@lrichhx05 when my LOs were in, their pediatricians were always super vague and annoying. They would smile really big while not answering our questions. By the end, DH couldn't talk to them without wanting to throttle them. Hope your LO comes home healthy ASAP!
I had a lady school me on which cereals don't have sugar and I should really buy one of those ones. Like I'm 9 months pregnant and if I want effing corn pops that's what I'm having!!! Never mind he fact I have healthy cereal at home but this is for late night snacking. Ugh!!!
I waited until the last minute to schedule maternity pictures because I wasn't showing at all until week 26. Now I'm almost 37 weeks pregnant, feel like a cow and have to go take pictures in the 100 degree heat. I hate myself for this.
Bitchy because my husband thinks organizing is moving a mess from one room into another room....wtf?! Yes....please don't move the cleaning supplies that you use MAYBE once a week while I use them on the DAILY. Rant over.
I'm SO guilty of this. DH gets so mad when I clean because I can't seem to just pick up a mess. I have to tear an entire closet apart to reorganize and make a place for everything. I get about halfway through and then can't do anymore, leaving myself with a bigger mess than I started with. Oops.
Bought a sofa/loveseat through Ashley's furniture... took 2 days and 20 phone calls to get the order right. By then all the sales personnel knew who I was lol. Next time I'm going to do this in person and NOT over the phone.
My husband and Mum have really p***ed me off! We are currently living with them until our new house is ready! And they are arguing over how to feed our dog (DH and mine) last night and who is the one in tears?! ME! So over it!
Ive had to listen for two loooong weeks to one of my coworkers complain about how tired he is while our manager was on his honeymoon and he was covering. Oh and his body hurt. Then my manager comes in today and tells us he's not feeling very well but he's sucking it up for our sake. Oh gee! Big effin thank you! sorry Tahiti was so hard on you lol. Really people?!? I am 38+ weeks pregnant and I have had awful carpal tunnel for over two weeks. I can't feel my fingers and I hurt from the elbows down, and I think the skin on my feet is going to split open every step I take. Please excuse me while I don't give a flying fuck about your issues. Men...
My nose is stuffed up and runny, I have a headache, I'm so freakin hot and my kids are annoying me. Watch the cable on tv instead of any of the 50 movies they've scratched up and won't work and quit arguing over one tv when there are other TVs to watch in this house. I feel so miserable.... And they destructing the house.
DH has a kidney stone. Of course I feel sorry for him and I hate to see him in pain. But also, I'm 37 weeks and I want to bitch about how miserable I am, not listen to you complain! He better pass this thing before I go into labor...
I had to go to the mall for back to school shopping for 3 of the kids.. And I had to take my threenager and my I'm-grown-because-I'm-starting-PreK-er (insert every cuss word known to man here)
I think my MIL is overbearing and has been successfully hiding it for the 10 years I've been with my husband. In the last month she has managed to make me feel inadequate and like I have to defend my parenting decisions before baby's even here and she doesn't even speak English! That's pretty darn skilled if you ask me!
She acts shocked at my decision to use a changing pad instead of a changing table, to have a backup supply of formula just in case, to have a breast pump, to not do cloth diapering because apparently DH had sensitive skin when he was a baby, to not have my hospital bag packed yet, to not get an enema before delivery, the list goes on.
My BIL's girlfriend (baby mama) has a terrible relationship with my MIL and has purposefully made it difficult for her to enjoy her granddaughter. I always thought it was bc his girlfriend was a bitch (which she absolutely is) but now I'm seriously worried that part of it was self preservation!! I just don't want a bad relationship with my in-laws but I can't be held responsible if this continues once baby girl is here.
My house is a horrible, disgusting mess. I'm 37 weeks, isn't that when the magical nesting energy is supposed to come? Hurry up already, darn it!
And what the heck is up with some of the posts today?! Whoa...
But on the bright side, I had a good dr checkup this morning, got my hair done, the car seat installed at the fire department, and attended my next to last birthing class with my husband. So I guess not too much bitching going on.
My work people are making me crazy. I swear they can't tie their shoes without asking me how to do it. I keep wanting to ask what they're going to do when I'm not around in 2-3 weeks. I don't have the energy to do 3 people's jobs right now.
Thanks for the t&p guys! Babe is ok, she's just being super lazy. I woke up Monday morning in such a raging bitch mood that I went crazy cleaning and bitching to myself about basically everything. I was so annoyed and going crazy cleaning that I guess I didn't pay much attention to her movements. After I was done, I realized like "wait a minute , did she move today? " she's usually extremely active morning time and absolutely night time. In the afternoon not as much. But when I got around to listening to her, it was late afternoon, and I did everything to make her move (cold water, cold oj, changing positions, walking etc ) with no response. I have a doppler and her hr was good at 135 but, sometimes hr doesn't fluctuate till it's too late. I went to the doctors, had a US done. The tech had a hard time getting her to move but she was practicing breathing and gulping away. Then she moved a bit, but I didn't feel it. Just saw it on screen. Doctor said she is doing well and is absolutely well and not in distress. We came home I was exhausted and slept and later on was woken up by her movements. Anyways, sorry for the long post and thank you guys once again for your support and thoughts and prayers. It's getting difficult now towards the end and every little thing is putting some of us over the edge.
Re: Monday Bitchfest - 7/20
now I'm at the doctors cause I can't feel my babe move =(
Dear mom, stop offering to help when you're not going to and you keep trying to blow me off instead. Ugh.
(insert every cuss word known to man here)
She acts shocked at my decision to use a changing pad instead of a changing table, to have a backup supply of formula just in case, to have a breast pump, to not do cloth diapering because apparently DH had sensitive skin when he was a baby, to not have my hospital bag packed yet, to not get an enema before delivery, the list goes on.
My BIL's girlfriend (baby mama) has a terrible relationship with my MIL and has purposefully made it difficult for her to enjoy her granddaughter. I always thought it was bc his girlfriend was a bitch (which she absolutely is) but now I'm seriously worried that part of it was self preservation!! I just don't want a bad relationship with my in-laws but I can't be held responsible if this continues once baby girl is here.
And what the heck is up with some of the posts today?! Whoa...
But on the bright side, I had a good dr checkup this morning, got my hair done, the car seat installed at the fire department, and attended my next to last birthing class with my husband. So I guess not too much bitching going on.
I woke up Monday morning in such a raging bitch mood that I went crazy cleaning and bitching to myself about basically everything. I was so annoyed and going crazy cleaning that I guess I didn't pay much attention to her movements. After I was done, I realized like "wait a minute , did she move today? " she's usually extremely active morning time and absolutely night time. In the afternoon not as much. But when I got around to listening to her, it was late afternoon, and I did everything to make her move (cold water, cold oj, changing positions, walking etc ) with no response. I have a doppler and her hr was good at 135 but, sometimes hr doesn't fluctuate till it's too late. I went to the doctors, had a US done. The tech had a hard time getting her to move but she was practicing breathing and gulping away. Then she moved a bit, but I didn't feel it. Just saw it on screen. Doctor said she is doing well and is absolutely well and not in distress. We came home I was exhausted and slept and later on was woken up by her movements.
Anyways, sorry for the long post and thank you guys once again for your support and thoughts and prayers. It's getting difficult now towards the end and every little thing is putting some of us over the edge.