Hello everyone,
I would really appreciate your opinions.... I know no one can make this decision for me, but I am hoping hearing other insights may help me to be able to make a decision...
I went for my NT scan on Friday when I was 12w6d. Towards the end she said that she could not get the measurement behind the baby's neck because of the position he/she was in. She told me I could come back Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday next week but after that, the baby would be too large to measure. So I made an appt for Tuesday. I have a lot of reservations about getting another ultrasound though bc the NT scan was already my 6th ultrasound (due to a previous miscarriage and worrisome symptoms early in the pregnancy). My doctor has assured me that I should not be worried about too many scans and that they will not cause the baby any harm. I certainly trust my doctor, but I am also diagnosed with OCD so when something is concerning to me, I tend to obsess and it's difficult for me to think rationally. I read the post on here about how many ultrasounds everyone has had and that made me feel better that some people are not concerned about it.
So, the dilemma is that I don't think I am going to go through with the scan on Tuesday. I spoke with a genetic counselor on Friday over the phone after my appt and I inquired about getting the cell free DNA test. I do not have any risk factors so I would have to pay out of pocket (she said it would be $995 and they don't even attempt to run in through insurance if you don't have any risk factors). My husband and I decided that we wouldn't mind paying that. My husband is okay with either decision.... I just don't know what to do and would love some insight from others... I guess it's important for me to know if something is wrong with the baby because I would like the time to get used to the idea and to prepare (I would not terminate). But then part of me thinks that knowing now wouldn't change the outcome so maybe I shouldn't find out... I would love to hear how everyone made the decision to find out or not.
Thanks so much!
Re: NT scan dilemma- input appreciated!
Tha name ultrasound speaks for itself, just like when you listen to music and those waves get to your belly... Thats the way and ultarsound works.
Just like a naval sonar that sends a sound wave on each direction and receives a confirmation when it "hits" something.
Each confirmation is translated into a dot, and all those dots combined make the image we see in the screen.
No risk for you or your baby, so I would reccomend you to do it. Who knows, maybe you can even see if its a boy or a girl!!! My little one was moving too much and we couldnt see if its a he or a she.
My doctor did tell me that if you get a bill for $1000 for the fetal dna test to call the company and they will lower it to like $99