I'm heartbroken for you. I was hoping you would get a different answer today.
I did some digging and found a couple of resources in the UK for moms who have experienced loss. I don't know if these will be useful to you at all, but I've looked around their sites and they seem like they could be a helpful starting point. The last one is an online support group for post natal depression, but it looks like there are search options specifically for loss.
@ErinLily44 I kept checking back all day hoping for a positive outcome for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss, I hope you can find peace and have lots of support to get through this difficult time. I'll be thinking of you and your toddler.
The bump also has some great boards for loses, in time you could check those out.
Oh I'm so sorry. This is just a heart shattering loss. Please find support where you are comfortable and allow people to help you during this incredibly sad time.
@ErinLily44, I am so sorry for your loss. I echo everyone else in saying feel free to reach out for whatever help or support you need. Praying for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss, mama. I really wanted this to be a mistake. Take care of yourself and maybe check out the late loss boards. Those lady's are going through what you are going through and are amazing at providing support.
I am so, so sorry- I can't imagine the pain you are going through. I will keep praying that God will give you strength and comfort. It is so hard for me to understand why terrible things like this happen to people.
Make sure you reach out to people for support- no one should have to go through this alone.
I am so, so sorry. Though it may feel insurmountable right now, you have the strength to move through this. My husband and I had a loss at 24 weeks -I went into labor that couldn't be stopped and our little one didn't make it. I thought I wouldn't survive it. The key is to grieve in whatever way feels right to you - and do it in your own time.
Sending prayers your way.
I've had a stillbirth, too. You're not alone! I'm so sorry you're going through this. You don't need to do anything right now but cry and breathe in and out. My prayers are with you. I also pray that sleep comes your way but if not, maybe your doctor can recommend something.
10/2014-benched due to RE out of town, tying naturally!
11/2014-benched due to cyst
12/2014-Femara 5mg + stair step with additional 5 days Femara 5mg + trigger + IUI=BFN
01/2015-Femara 5mg + Gonal F 25 units + trigger (plus additional Gonal F 100 units on trigger night) + IUI= BFP!!! Twins due 10/2015 09/28/2015- Surprise! Conrad and Hudson born at 35w6d!
I'm so sorry for your loss and can't begin to imagine what you must be going through. I'll be thinking of you during your difficult time.
My mother in law makes angel gowns for still born babies that are distributed to hospitals nation wide as part of the American sewing guild. Just a thought if someone could look into this for you.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. This will take a lot of time to heal from. Grieve however it feels right to you. Love and support being sent your way.
I am so, so sorry. I hope you take care of yourself, and that there is someone else who can take care of you for a while, too. You are in my thoughts, and I wish you the best.
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I did some digging and found a couple of resources in the UK for moms who have experienced loss. I don't know if these will be useful to you at all, but I've looked around their sites and they seem like they could be a helpful starting point. The last one is an online support group for post natal depression, but it looks like there are search options specifically for loss.
Please take care and reach out to us for support.
https://uk-sands.org/support/supporting-parents/bereavement-support-pack
https://www.countthekicks.org.uk/support/stillbirth-support/
https://patient.info/support/post-natal-support-depression-support
The bump also has some great boards for loses, in time you could check those out.
Make sure you reach out to people for support- no one should have to go through this alone.
Preg #1 - PTL @ 23.5 weeks - angel in heaven (Addison Margaret)
09/28/2015- Surprise! Conrad and Hudson born at 35w6d!
My mother in law makes angel gowns for still born babies that are distributed to hospitals nation wide as part of the American sewing guild. Just a thought if someone could look into this for you.