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March 8th Ladies?

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Who's all due March 8th?! I'd like to have some belly buddies! :)
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    I made a private group on the Bump if anyone's interested.
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  • ACleanLife24ACleanLife24 member
    You could take the time to scroll through this if you are really insistent: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12591611/gtky-march-2016#latest

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  • saradevossaradevos member
    I'm due March 3rd
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  • Lisa6083Lisa6083 member
    edited July 2015
    According to the doctor, I am due on March 8th. With my older son, I went into labor the night of my due date and had my son the day after.
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    Sorry I wanted to get to know my belly buddies. Way to welcome someone to the board. I don't feel like searching this board with all the ridiculous OT posts just to talk to someone who has something in common with me. Thanks, but no thanks.
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  • CalebsHabibiCalebsHabibi member
    @chlsb92 - I'm curious to know exactly which post you found rude? I told you due dates are an estimation and you would find lots of support here and that I myself was due March 7. Then CleanLife linked you to where you could find a list of March 8 due dates and a link where due dates are usually wrong. What was unwelcoming?
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    Have you not read the replies, or have seen your own?
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    edited July 2015
    ACleanLife24 said:


    chlsb92 said:

    Sorry I wanted to get to know my belly buddies. Way to welcome someone to the board. I don't feel like searching this board with all the ridiculous OT posts just to talk to someone who has something in common with me. Thanks, but no thanks.

    US: Being supportive of a group of women who are due all around the same time... experiencing similar symptom... gripes... frustrations... and amusements because we are more intelligent then just "baby makers" and may have other "OT" interests in life

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    Yes this is being immature now but I ran out of tea this morning and that make people in England very cranky
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    Lol. Yes. I'm so butthurt.
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  • Kristin712Kristin712 member
    chlsb92 said:
    Have you not read the replies, or have seen your own?
    @CalebsHabibi gave you a very friendly and helpful response. I don't see any rudeness there whatsoever. Please try to read responses lightheartedly as you cannot read tone through the internet. If I came onto these boards with a sour attitude, I would surely find most posts to be "rude," though almost none are. Our March 2016 ladies are incredibly supportive and friendly over here! Keep lurking around and participate if you feel up to it.... Maybe you'll feel like sticking around.

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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    edited July 2015
    @Kristin712 I highly doubt that I really want to stick it out on this board. Especially not after the unwelcoming responses from some members who are extremely rude and immature. All I wanted was to get to know the ladies who are due the same time as I. That's what the point of it was. It's not rude or silly.
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  • fwtx5815fwtx5815 member
    We are due the same time. March 2016.

    Point is, having a group with just one due date doesn't guarantee you're all going to experience the same symptoms down to the same DAY. Hence the BMBs.
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  • noodles15noodles15 member
    As everyone else pointed out- due dates are pretty much crap. 2 kids-neither born on their due date.  
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  • CalebsHabibiCalebsHabibi member
    CalebsHabibi said:

    That's what the whole March group is for. You're due date is an estimation. Try not to dwell on it. You'll find lots of ladies in this group due on March 8. I'm due March 7.

    yodapup said:

    ^wss

    ACleanLife24 said:

    You could take the time to scroll through this if you are really insistent: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12591611/gtky-march-2016#latest


    saradevos said:

    I'm due March 3rd

    Lisa6083 said:

    According to the doctor, I am due on March 8th. With my older son, I went into labor the night of my due date and had my son the day after.

    chlsb92 said:

    Sorry I wanted to get to know my belly buddies. Way to welcome someone to the board. I don't feel like searching this board with all the ridiculous OT posts just to talk to someone who has something in common with me. Thanks, but no thanks.




    Again, what was so rude about these replies?
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    You obviously cannot read and decided to pick out the non rude comments. Lol. Some of you ladies are something else.
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    No one saw CleanLife's and Caleb's responses? Lol. I can read. I've seen everyone's reply.
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    I'm over this... Obviously you ladies do not know how to be welcoming or supportive. ✌
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  • yodapupyodapup member
    That was after you posted
    chlsb92 said:

    Sorry I wanted to get to know my belly buddies. Way to welcome someone to the board. I don't feel like searching this board with all the ridiculous OT posts just to talk to someone who has something in common with me. Thanks, but no thanks.

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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    Nope. They replied before that post. But thanks!
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  • yodapupyodapup member
    Listen, this is a good group of gals and we are all in this together. This is the March 2016 BMB. We are all due around the same time. There is no need for a March 8 group because 99% of the time you will not deliver on that date. You may deliver in February or 2 weeks late. Who knows!?
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    edited July 2015
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    Nope. They were before that post. That's how it appears on this thread for me. But thanks!
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    edited July 2015
    @yodapup Yes. I get that. No Ned for anyone to explain that to me.
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  • chlsb92chlsb92 member
    Like I've stated, I wanted to have some ladies who were due this day or around that day to talk to. It's more personal than a huge board. That's all I've been trying to say. But I had to have ladies state I'm silly, butthurt, a "drama llama". Was all that really necessary? Does it make any of you ladies feel better at the end of the day? Good job! You chased a woman away like a bunch of high school mean girls.
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  • kellihoweskellihowes member
    They seem to enjoy doing that all over this board....not just in our month.
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  • Knottie22963996Knottie22963996 member
    Oh my I thought they were rude as hell too!!! I'm due March 8th so if you want a private group with me I'll join! These girls
    Are way too petty wow!!!!!
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  • CalebsHabibiCalebsHabibi member
    WTAF. I can't even right now. I answered her question and even commented that I was due a day before. Other people posted due dates and @ACleanLife24 even posted the link to where all of our due dates are posted. Then she says that I'm the unwelcoming one? That's when I (and others) posted snarky gifs because it was ridiculous. Nobody was "unwelcoming."

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  • audriannfreyaudriannfrey member
    I'm a March 8 mama too! And I agree those comments were unnecessary. I've noticed it happening quite a bit...I'd join a group with you!
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  • Knottie22963996Knottie22963996 member
    Your first comment wasn't rude but it was unwelcoming. For newbies to this sight I'm sure she was just excited to see other moms due on the exact same day. OBVIOUSLY she knows that doesn't necessarily mean we are all going to give birth the same day! But as soon as I got on the site I immediate looked for A March 8 group. And for someone new who has never been on here and probably nervous who posts something, the first response shouldn't be "don't dwell on it". Sounds very unwelcoming. No one is starting drama, just thought you should know that it did come off as a "hey who cares, everyone is in the same boat". If you'll notice, every March 8th mom feels the same way. Seems to me like there's a couple of you that are more worried about upstaging each other's memes and GIFs than you are worried about supporting and welcoming new people. Now also understand that everyone's hormones are crazy right now and we can all be a little sensitive! Point is, everyone is entitled to make their own group whether you like it or not. If you don't, no need to comment. We all need love and support in these times, not some snarky women trying to impress their "bump" friends. Now WHO'S HUNGRY?!
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