February 2016 Moms

Need opinions- announcement photo

So we told the kids last night by getting a giant cookie cake that said "Welcome Baby #8" and we tried to take a photo for a pregnancy announcement.  And I'm not loving it.  I think I am too much of a perfectionist and have a professional photographer perfect photo in my head.  And well...I'm working with my crowd.  Half that were whining and didn't want to be there.  (It was major work to get everyone together all at the same time. DS20 wanted to leave for his girlfirend's house, DD10 was complaining about her shoes hurting, etc...) I would have liked everyone to all have jeans on so it was more uniform, but at this point  I was just trying to get something acceptable done.  So I need some honest opinions.  Am I being too critical and it is fine, or should I try to get everyone together and do a reshoot because it looks crappy and half-assed?  I'm fairly certain that family photos for a large family is one of Dante's layers of Hell.  LOL.

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Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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Re: Need opinions- announcement photo

  • I think it looks great but if you are worried, try photoshop for a black and white filter maybe? I have taken a few announcement photos already and love playing with the filters and tweaking them a bit. I seriously can imagine trying to get it done with several different agendas and having that perfect photo in your head that is doesn't even come close too. I am trying to make a special annoucemnt photo with the oldest SS living 1000 miles away.  X_X

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  • It's cute!
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  • wagvanwagvan member
    Hmm B&W is a good idea.  I'll try it.  Good to hear from someone else it looks okay.  I wish kid #4 was smiling.  He is a SN kid and doesn;t often smile in pictures, but it is a pretty good pic of him.
    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • I think it's great! I actually like the color better. Black and white is more artsy to me whereas this is a nice, casual family shot.




  • wagvanwagvan member
    Hey, everyone is looking in the same direction and no one is crying! That's a win in photos for my family. Seriously though, I think this is really cute.
    Truer words were never spoken.  Though there was crying before this photo.  Good to hear that I am not the only one for whom family photos involve tears, drama and no one looking at the camera with their eyes open all at the same time. 
    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • wagvanwagvan member
    Okay, need more opinions....do you think it would be too cheesy to post this with it?  (I didn't write it, BTW, I just like it.)

    "I'd like to be pregnant just once more.  I'd like to see a plus sign on a
    pregnancy test and do a dance of joy on the bathroom floor.  I'd like to
    tell my husband, "We did it" and see the joy on his face.  I'd like to walk
    with my secret in those early months, a proud grin on my mouth, inexplicable
    to those who do not know.

    Just once more, I'd like to feel my clothes grow tighter and let that make
    me smile.  I'd like to tell my children there's a tiny baby in my tummy, a
    brother or sister for us to love.  I'd like to see their eyes grow wide and
    their hearts fill with happiness that I know might turn to envy.  I'd like
    to worry about how they will adjust to their mommy caring for another child.

    Just once more, I'd like to watch my body grow.  I'd like to look into the
    mirror and rub cocoa butter on my hips and belly.  I'd like to take warm
    naps when the sleepiness comes.

    Just once more, I'd like to make strangers smile at my enormous middle, and
    cause passerbys to open doors and carry groceries for me.  I'd like to feel
    the warmth of other women, who will offer advice, and remember, just for a
    moment, what it means to carry life inside you.

    Just once more, I'd like to feel the movement inside me, and try to guess
    which body part is pressing into my ribs.  I'd like to press my children’s
    hands on my tummy and let them share the wonder too.

    Just once more, I'd like to go to sleep at night, too big to be comfortable.
    I'd like to wonder if I will sleep through the night or if labor will come
    before tomorrow.  Just once more, I'd like to feel the excitement and fear
    intermingled.

    Just once more, I'd like to bring forth a child, slippery and warm from the
    depths of my body.  I'd like to feel God move through me.

    Just once more, I'd like to dress a newborn and count the fingers and toes.
    Just once more, I'd like to see a new soul with a new body and name.

    Just once more, I'd like to hold a child to my breast and feel the milk let
    down, ready to nourish and comfort.

    Just once more, I'd like to fold tiny clothes, change tiny diapers.  I'd
    like to see my husband cuddle the baby in his massive arms and help the
    other children hold it, in their small ones.

    Just once more, I'd like to host the visitors, well wishers.  I'd like to
    hand the baby to my husband and hold my little ones close.  I'd tell them
    about the time that they were small and needy like the new baby and how we
    tended them just as gently.

    Once more, we have been blessed..............
    Our new little one, expected February 2016


    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • I like the B&W pic the best for an announcement and the color pic for a picture frame. The poem is adorable and moving but may I lovingly say that it was just a little long? I think all your ideas are great. Kudos to you for getting all that done with 7 children!



  • wagvanwagvan member
    You can say whatever you want!  I am looking for constructive criticism.  Not for people blowing sunshine if something needs fixed. :)
    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • I love it all! I do think the poem is a bit long but it was very sweet! I love the B&W photo best!

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  • Yeah, I think the poem is too long. Still love the photo though.




  • It is a bit wordy. Also, I don't know you or your family but if I sent out something that mentioned the act of giving birth or breastfeeding my mother would have an aneurism. She's a nurse. My family is way uptight, hopefully yours is cooler. Plus, I don't know how else people think humanity has survived this long...Just a thought.
  • To be totally honest I like your picture and think that it's great for your announcement. I am overly critical of things I do too but it is a good picture. I like the black and white best though.
  • wagvanwagvan member
    Thanks for the honesty. I will skip the poem and just save it for myself.
    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • Love it! I definitely like the black and white

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  • I love the picture but as a perfectionist, with so many bodies to work with, I would personally do everyone sitting down with their backs facing the camera (except you!) And numbers on their backs. That used to be an OLD timer bumpies large family siggy pic and I LOVED it. They were all in jerseys.
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    Previously Clizh, bumping since 2009 and still mourning my platinum medal. ;)


  • I love the picture!! To be totally honest, the poem was a bit long and I just scrolled past it.. But definitely do what you want!
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  • I like the color photo and I think it looks great! I like the poem but I doubt too many people would take the time to read the whole thing. If you pick the B/W I would add color lettering saying coming February 2016 or something. Actually I would add that to the color picture as well.
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  • 4N6s4N6s member
    So cute :)
  • I like the color photo and I think it looks great! I like the poem but I doubt too many people would take the time to read the whole thing. If you pick the B/W I would add color lettering saying coming February 2016 or something. Actually I would add that to the color picture as well.

    I second this. Good idea.



  • I think the poem would be better for a baby book you start for the new baby. Then maybe your older kids could all add a personal note or sentiment to the book saying how they feel about the new baby?
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  • Cute pIc for the announcement. I agree with the color actually best.
  • Just curious but by now won't most people your announcing to be like "okay - I guess there shooting for a baseball team"? Not saying you should announce it but I'm guessing most people wouldn't be surprised or shocked.
  • It looks it's been a little while since they had an announcement to make. I bet people will be surprised!
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  • AmadorRoseAmadorRose member
    edited July 2015
    @Bracecurran my sisters have 5, 5, and 4. I was just as excited about the fifth ones as I was about my very first niece. Some families side eye anyone with more than two, and some families think the 12th and 13th are still a blessing. And honestly...I was pretty shocked every time one of them with five told us she was pregnant because she started out not wanting any!
    Edit: two sisters each have five and another has four. That wasn't clearly stated.
  • ohbaby714 said:

    Just curious but by now won't most people your announcing to be like "okay - I guess there shooting for a baseball team"? Not saying you should announce it but I'm guessing most people wouldn't be surprised or shocked.

    Why should announcing #8 be any different than announcing #1?
    If you honestly think that announcing baby 1 is the same as 8 then more power to you. That's not reality though.
  • @Bracecurran my sisters have 5, 5, and 4. I was just as excited about the fifth ones as I was about my very first niece. Some families side eye anyone with more than two, and some families think the 12th and 13th are still a blessing. And honestly...I was pretty shocked every time one of them with five told us she was pregnant because she started out not wanting any!
    Edit: two sisters each have five and another has four. That wasn't clearly stated.

    From my perspective after baby 1, announcements for others is not as exciting to anyone but the ones adding an addition. Some people may be excited but the vast majority won't be. We're expecting baby #2 and putting pressure on what the announcement photo looks like is silly. It's just a photo.
    Just my opinion.
  • @Bracecurran my sisters have 5, 5, and 4. I was just as excited about the fifth ones as I was about my very first niece. Some families side eye anyone with more than two, and some families think the 12th and 13th are still a blessing. And honestly...I was pretty shocked every time one of them with five told us she was pregnant because she started out not wanting any! Edit: two sisters each have five and another has four. That wasn't clearly stated.
    From my perspective after baby 1, announcements for others is not as exciting to anyone but the ones adding an addition. Some people may be excited but the vast majority won't be. We're expecting baby #2 and putting pressure on what the announcement photo looks like is silly. It's just a photo. Just my opinion.
    Aren't you a ray of sunshine.. My husband and I were 21 and 23 when we had our first, people were more nervous than happy for us then. I think people are going to be way more excited for this one since they've been asking us when we're going to have another for awhile. Announcing's just a fun way to tell everyone. A surprise 8th baby would definitely get a lot of attention in my family, and that announcement is such a great way to surprise everyone!
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  • wagvanwagvan member
    Thank you ladies! <3
    Katie ~wife to my beloved, Scott for 25 years
    mama to SEVEN +1 wonderful Waggoners
    K~ 22yo, C~ 20yo, J~ 18yo, N~ 13yo, G~ 11yo, M~ 7, A~5 and baby due 2/12/2016

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  • @Bracecurran my sisters have 5, 5, and 4. I was just as excited about the fifth ones as I was about my very first niece. Some families side eye anyone with more than two, and some families think the 12th and 13th are still a blessing. And honestly...I was pretty shocked every time one of them with five told us she was pregnant because she started out not wanting any! Edit: two sisters each have five and another has four. That wasn't clearly stated.
    From my perspective after baby 1, announcements for others is not as exciting to anyone but the ones adding an addition. Some people may be excited but the vast majority won't be. We're expecting baby #2 and putting pressure on what the announcement photo looks like is silly. It's just a photo. Just my opinion.
    Yes, from your perspective, which makes it your opinion. My opinion is that any pregnancy is exciting, not matter if it's the first or fifteenth.
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  • Congrats on baby #8! You should be just as thrilled to announce as you would be with #1! Each new life is something exciting and each baby is different :) each should be celebrated! good luck with your announcement!
  • @Bracecurran FWIW: you really shouldn't rain on people's parades! :)
  • BracecurranBracecurran member
    edited July 2015
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