Please help me

Re: Please help me

• irohspupil member

  July 2015

  I think your ex boyfriend. But really, without being sure of your cycles, it's going to be hard to tell without a paternity test.
  Good luck. It must be hard to be in this position :-(

  
  
   
  Me: 25 | DH: 25  
  DD: Aug. 15
  

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Yes very, according to when I ovulated it was the 8th of November when r you due?

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• Huaylas member

  July 2015

  I know that i ovulated around November 20 and Im due August 14, so my guess is that your ex is your man. Are you in contact with either of the men? I think it might be a good idea to get a paternity test for both just so you can prevent any future issues. Good luck mama!

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• irohspupil member

  July 2015

  I am due August 8th, but I conceived during a fairly stressful time and had no idea when my LMP was. Based on the early ultrasound I had in January, my OB guessed my LMP was early November.

  
  
   
  Me: 25 | DH: 25  
  DD: Aug. 15
  

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  I am in contact with my ex partner he is fully aware of my dates and does believe the child is his however he does want a paternity test which I am happy with and if my scans are in fact correct then I should have nothing to worry about right? If you ovulated around the 20th and I am due August 1st when would that mean I should of ovulated? And did the dates you worked out tie in with your scan dates? X

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Also when I took the clear blue test it said 3weeks+ and t that point I had slept with this other guy only just 2weeka prior to this and there supposed to date back to conception arnt they? But again I don't no how accurate they are its so stressful

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• Saratiff member

  July 2015

  I feel like none of us would be able to tell you. Get the paternity test after baby is born. Good luck

  
  

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• kelseyrayay member

  July 2015

  Girl we need to call Maury.

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  I no nobody would be able to tell me I am just looking for some reassurance from somehow who has a similar due date to mine and if they no when they ovulated and things like that just to put my mind at ease abit x

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• grga member

  July 2015

  I am due Aug 1, I was artificially inseminated on Nov 8.

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• irohspupil member

  July 2015

  Those test can be fairly inaccurate. I took one of those and it placed me at about 4 weeks along. When I had a blood test done at my PCP's office three weeks later, that came back saying I was only 4 or 5 weeks along (whereas if we went with that first test, I should have been about 7 weeks along). My early dating ultrasound again didn't quite line up with either result but rather stuck me in the middle of the two. 

  Based on what you've told us though, I really think your ex is the father. But the ONLY way to be sure is to take that paternity test.

  
  
   
  Me: 25 | DH: 25  
  DD: Aug. 15
  

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  I am almost certain it's my exes baby no matter how anything is worked out nothing ever adds up to it being the other guys baby if I conceived on the 17th the baby would be due on the 10th aswel, I guess I will no as soon as the rest is done it's just so hard but thankyou all for your replies x

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• grga member

  July 2015

  I am 100% sure.

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Thankyou very much x

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• thesportsgal member

  July 2015

  Wow, talk about something I would have looked into prior to 36 weeks....

  
  

  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• kelseyrayay member

  July 2015

  try this

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  It's something I have looked into my entire pregnancy, like I have said I am almost certain it's my exes baby I am just looking for some reassurance that is all

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Thankyou x

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• Joie80 member

  July 2015

  I'm due on the 3rd and very certain I conceived on 11/11.

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Brilliant Thankyou so much xx

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• dkizz82 member

  July 2015

  I'm due August 8 and know i ovulated Nov. 15(I'm a late ovulator)! You know there's only one way to know for sure but it was probably your ex.

  

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• mrsb30 member

  July 2015

  It seems it doesn't help to tell you when we ovulated, because the doctors go by lmp. For instance I ovulated on November 14th, my edd should be aug 7th, but according to my lmp and dating scan my doctor gave me an edd of aug 4.

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Thankyou, ye I do think he is my ex boyfriends and I have spoken to doctors and the people who do the scans and they have lol said the same that if I had ovulated on the 17th it would keen I have a 36dy cycle with I don't it's just nice to get a rough idea of everybody's dates and from what you have all told me it still does point to the baby being my exes x

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• xsunshinelady15 member

  July 2015

  Good luck!

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  Thankyou x

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• nakoppel member

  July 2015 edited July 2015

  Not sure if it helps but I'm pretty sure I ovulated on November 16. However I got my period on November 21 and according to that LMP my estimated due date is 8/28. But based on my ovulation date my Edd would be 8/23. If I were you I would stop trying to math it out and just get a paternity test.

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• sophie&Alfie member

  July 2015

  We are having a paternity test regardless, my ex partner is fully aware of the situation and we are both almost certain it's his but both agreed to get a paternity test as you never no, this is just for my own peace of mind to see why everyone else's dates are to see if mine match the same I appreciate everyone's comments Ms advice x

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• sjra1028 member

  July 2015

  No answers or guesses, but wishing you luck!!

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• neludelu member

  July 2015

  thesportsgal said:

  Wow, talk about something I would have looked into prior to 36 weeks....

  What would she have gained by doing it earlier?

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• breezymeema7 member

  July 2015

  There is no method, guess, or estimation that is going to be able to tell you 100% besides a DNA test.

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• mimigrace12 member

  July 2015

  Quite insensitive.. This is supposed to be a supportive environment. Take your judgement somewhere else...

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• mimigrace12 member

  July 2015

  Directed to kelseyrayray.. Not sure how to do direct reply

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• kelseyrayay member

  July 2015

  mimigrace12 said:

  Quite insensitive.. This is supposed to be a supportive environment. Take your judgement somewhere else...

  Looks like some people can't take a joke.. Obviously op knew I was joking. Don't get your panties in a twist
  

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• mimigrace12 member

  July 2015

  You seem like such a pleasant person...

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• Miz_Liz member

  July 2015

  @kelseyrayay next time:

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• CaliforniaDream87 member

  July 2015

  mimigrace12 said:

  Quite insensitive.. This is supposed to be a supportive environment. Take your judgement somewhere else...

  You need to get to know the board. This is absolutely a place for support when you support others. Also, it doesn't mean people will respond they way YOU think they should.
  
  Seriously. Get off @kelseyrayay!
  
  I can say the same about your comment on the whole "maternity leave" thread where you thought being *supportive*, was bragging about Canada's awesome leave policy when that poor woman had no leave policy and is facing unemployment. Hindsight...

      DS born 8-16-2013

  

  

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• mimigrace12 member

  July 2015

  Posting about a different health care policy and making jokes at someone's personal life expense don't really seem to fall in the same category.. But hey that's just my opinion. Not going to waste my time arguing on a message board lol

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• kelseyrayay member

  July 2015

  Miz_Liz said:

  @kelseyrayay next time:

  Lol I'll make sure to be more "pleasant" next time for everyone's convenience

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• bpwife&mama member

  July 2015

  mimigrace12 said:

  Posting about a different health care policy and making jokes at someone's personal life expense don't really seem to fall in the same category.. But hey that's just my opinion. Not going to waste my time arguing on a message board lol

  LOL ::eyeroll::
  
  You intended to argue with your first comment directed at kelseyrayray.
  
  Seriously though, this post.... So thankful for the life I have.
  

  
  
  

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• mimigrace12 member

  July 2015

  bpwife&mama said:

  mimigrace12 said:

  Posting about a different health care policy and making jokes at someone's personal life expense don't really seem to fall in the same category.. But hey that's just my opinion. Not going to waste my time arguing on a message board lol

  LOL ::eyeroll::
  
  You intended to argue with your first comment directed at kelseyrayray.
  
  Seriously though, this post.... So thankful for the life I have.
  

  No intention what so ever! I just don't see why everyone can't be kind to one another on a pregnancy message board. Guess I'm just a silly, Canadian hippie!

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