@amberrmariee20 well to me any negative thing you got say to a person doesnt matter, only because a person doesnt do something doesnt mean they should go ahead and judge.
Oh I'm not saying it's okay to judge people. But it happens. People think differently on different subjects. It doesn't bother me seeing bikini pics online, they don't bother me, I'm not offended easily, but it bothers other people. Just because I think differently then someone doesn't mean I'm right or wrong. Just difference of opinions, and everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
@kathyxoxo I know.. Iv been apart of arguments on what is opinions and what is considered rude. I learned I just sit back and try not to let my mouth run because it really can. And then I get mouthy. Then it's like your fighting with a stranger you don't even know. it's like u go back and forth well this is an opinion and your version of rude is wrong but idk the Internet confuses me and I really do like this group. I have gotten good info from it. I'm just more careful now. But threads like this are good. We should be sharing bump pics. This is called the bump after all.
@KSabyan anyways lol , it doesnt matter if is a girl or a boy , May God protect your baby always , and that the anatomy scan show that everything is going good with your baby.
She mentioned she goes to the beach I assumed she didn't go alone im sure hubby goes with her. If she has tattoos it's more than likely he does too. I know what u meant @mollypuss1. I wish sometimes on here people can judge less. Showing skin pushes buttons. And I understand if your not exposed to it. You won't be comfortable. The way your brought up etc. which is totally fine. But this pic is very harmless. Probably not the first pic of herself on the Internet.
Just to be clear, I don't really care one way or another about the picture, it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable or comfortable for that matter.
The point I was trying to make is you are criticising people for judging her when you are doing the exact same. For example, My ex fb had many tattoos and piercings so by your logic I should be the same. I'm not. I have no tattoos and don't even have my ears pierced anymore. All I am saying is if you are gonna have a go at people for making judgements, maybe you shouldn't do the same yourself.
Just to be clear, I don't really care one way or another about the picture, it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable or comfortable for that matter.
The point I was trying to make is you are criticising people for judging her when you are doing the exact same. For example, My ex fb had many tattoos and piercings so by your logic I should be the same. I'm not. I have no tattoos and don't even have my ears pierced anymore. All I am saying is if you are gonna have a go at people for making judgements, maybe you shouldn't do the same yourself.
No no noooo I wasn't judging I was just gathering information. And used the word maybe. I'm sorry if it came across that way. In most cases if one person has tattoos than the other have the same interests ... That's all. The reason I said that was she looked very happy in the pic and excited and expressed she went to beach. So in turn I figured hey she's pretty comfortable. Not saying all couples have tattoos. No no. Sorry for the confusion. I wasn't excluding you as saying your not the one who is uncomfortable. I mean people in general I should be more specific.
Just remember that these are the creeps we share the board with. Some may not be straightforward about it and may pretend to be women.
Wow that's something else... I would hope this app would be a nice community but there are some people that are not okay but does show once you put somthing out there you really have to be careful what you put because you never know who has a bad mind and would do bad things even with something that are not meant to be bad.
I can only go from my own experience and when I was pregnant with both my boys I carried so low I almost had a hole in my stomach when I stood up So I say boy
@KSabyan Please edit your title "NSFW" because of the content might be inappropriate for those who are bumping from work computers.
I'll never understand why people think it's a good idea to post these kinds of photos on a public website.
I'm in a swimsuit
I really don't care how it is you validate yourself. I'm just pointing out that you might have a little consideration for others letting them know when they open the post there will be a half naked girl on their screen, in the event they are bumping on a work computer. Common courtesy. Of course that really isn't your strong suit.
Just to be clear, I don't really care one way or another about the picture, it doesn't make me feel uncomfortable or comfortable for that matter.
The point I was trying to make is you are criticising people for judging her when you are doing the exact same. For example, My ex fb had many tattoos and piercings so by your logic I should be the same. I'm not. I have no tattoos and don't even have my ears pierced anymore. All I am saying is if you are gonna have a go at people for making judgements, maybe you shouldn't do the same yourself.
No no noooo I wasn't judging I was just gathering information. And used the word maybe. I'm sorry if it came across that way. In most cases if one person has tattoos than the other have the same interests ... That's all. The reason I said that was she looked very happy in the pic and excited and expressed she went to beach. So in turn I figured hey she's pretty comfortable. Not saying all couples have tattoos. No no. Sorry for the confusion. I wasn't excluding you as saying your not the one who is uncomfortable. I mean people in general I should be more specific.
Ok, Its just I was always taught not to judge a book by its cover, just as I wouldn't judge a person by their tattoos
Are we seriously nagging like old ladies over somebody who just wants to wear bikini? Believe me when I say I am season girls that should not be caught dead in a bikini and this is not one of them. I'm guessing the ladies that are complaining could never pull off bikini pregnant or not... Just sayin
Are we seriously nagging like old ladies over somebody who just wants to wear bikini? Believe me when I say I am season girls that should not be caught dead in a bikini and this is not one of them. I'm guessing the ladies that are complaining could never pull off bikini pregnant or not... Just sayin
Ew. You're going to fat shame now? So rude and gross.
Sweets, I live in Miami, I see more flesh on a daily basis than most and I own more bikinis than I do clothes. Please don't make assumptions when you clearly don't know WTF you are talking about.
Are we seriously nagging like old ladies over somebody who just wants to wear bikini? Believe me when I say I am season girls that should not be caught dead in a bikini and this is not one of them. I'm guessing the ladies that are complaining could never pull off bikini pregnant or not... Just sayin
Maybe it's just me, but I didn't see anyone here who had an issue with her WEARING a bikini. The issue is posting a picture to a public message board of herself in a bikini that looks an awful lot like underwear (sorry but it does), in a case where a picture with clothing would have accomplished the same purpose. And also asking everyone to guess something that we can't possibly know. I didn't see anyone telling her she looked bad in a bikini or should not wear one to the pool/beach.
There's an awful lot of judgement wrapped up in that post. Internet safety advice does not equal body shaming.
I know that half this thread is gone but I just want to make a quick point... Going through other posts on here everyone is okay with posting the town, city and state they live in but putting a picture up of yourself in a bikini is putting yourself at risk for online predators? The real risk is giving out any personal information (info on ultrasound pictures, baby's full name, where exactly in the country your located) which is obviously not done by all but has been done many many times on here! Just sayinnnnnnnn' .... Keep those GIF's coming!!!!
This proves it. TheBump hates cute bunnies. They get deleted or closed every time (
As for the topic, live and let live, people! If OP would be happily making nudes and posting them itd be a different story, but eh, shes dressed. Not modestly dressed, but look at billboards and just as much skin is shown. Its not my thing, but it doesnt hurt anyone either so why should i care?
Re: Gender guesses (by how I'm carrying) just for fun
And thank you
Some may not be straightforward about it and may pretend to be women.
The point I was trying to make is you are criticising people for judging her when you are doing the exact same. For example, My ex fb had many tattoos and piercings so by your logic I should be the same. I'm not. I have no tattoos and don't even have my ears pierced anymore. All I am saying is if you are gonna have a go at people for making judgements, maybe you shouldn't do the same yourself.
The point I was trying to make is you are criticising people for judging her when you are doing the exact same. For example, My ex fb had many tattoos and piercings so by your logic I should be the same. I'm not. I have no tattoos and don't even have my ears pierced anymore. All I am saying is if you are gonna have a go at people for making judgements, maybe you shouldn't do the same yourself.
No no noooo I wasn't judging I was just gathering information. And used the word maybe. I'm sorry if it came across that way. In most cases if one person has tattoos than the other have the same interests ... That's all. The reason I said that was she looked very happy in the pic and excited and expressed she went to beach. So in turn I figured hey she's pretty comfortable. Not saying all couples have tattoos. No no. Sorry for the confusion. I wasn't excluding you as saying your not the one who is uncomfortable. I mean people in general I should be more specific.
Ok, Its just I was always taught not to judge a book by its cover, just as I wouldn't judge a person by their tattoos
Sweets, I live in Miami, I see more flesh on a daily basis than most and I own more bikinis than I do clothes. Please don't make assumptions when you clearly don't know WTF you are talking about.
There's an awful lot of judgement wrapped up in that post. Internet safety advice does not equal body shaming.
As for the topic, live and let live, people! If OP would be happily making nudes and posting them itd be a different story, but eh, shes dressed. Not modestly dressed, but look at billboards and just as much skin is shown. Its not my thing, but it doesnt hurt anyone either so why should i care?