Really needing to vent, so glad this is here. So yesterday DH and I woke up, got ready, took trash out, and then he took me to the park to walk. I would say I walked about a mile. We then grabbed lunch and cleaned the car because well I'm due anyway now. By time we got back his mom, sister and our son was at our house with donuts for us. We all went to the pool, then I took a nap and then woke up to dinner. So it was a pretty good day until about 7:30pm MIL asked DH when we were going to the hospital. DH replied idk babe when do you want to go tonight? Idk why but he is so pushy right now about me going to the hospital just to get checked. (I was 5cm last time) I don't know if it's because he's afraid I'm dilated too far to be walking about cause he already won't let me swim. He's already also taken 2 days off from work just to walk me like crazy and be on "labor watch". Which is honestly something we can't really afford right now since he's the only one working. But since I declined going to the hospital he got so mad at me. I can't just drop this baby out and the nurses aren't allowed to induce me on their own. He's basically throwing me into an unnecessary induction and he doesn't even know it. ~X( I wish he would just chill the f out.
Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?
Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?
Wednesday we went to the doctor and in a week she said I went from 3cm 60% to 5cm 90% and she said she could feel my bag really well. So my husband and I asked if she could strip my membrane because that's what usually works for me. She declined at the time because it's like sending in unnecessary amounts of people, I don't know how else to explain how she said it. But she suggested I walk a lot have sex eat dinner and go to the hospital she said if Im a 6 or if I dilate they'll keep me. So my husband and I walked ate and had sex and sex always gives me the worse BH. This time they started really hurting so we went in and I didn't progress except a hair. The hospital let me go home. They said the same thing they tell everyone about water breaking and contractions. I think he just wants to see where I'm at. He doesn't want to leave me alone what so ever and he was never ever like this with our first.
My complaint this morning is that I've tried everything to change my avatar back to what it was before and it keeps showing up wrong! It randomly decided to change itself last night at some point. On my profile settings it shows the right one and I've clicked update on my profile multiple times and logged in/out multiple times thinking it needed to reset. I'm not on the app because I'm not a fan of the app but it's not working and it's really frustrating me! Sorry for the NBR first world problem rant. I'll go back to eating my donuts to calm me down
ETA: aaaand it just randomly changed back-maybe the donuts have magical powers?
Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?
Wednesday we went to the doctor and in a week she said I went from 3cm 60% to 5cm 90% and she said she could feel my bag really well. So my husband and I asked if she could strip my membrane because that's what usually works for me. She declined at the time because it's like sending in unnecessary amounts of people, I don't know how else to explain how she said it. But she suggested I walk a lot have sex eat dinner and go to the hospital she said if Im a 6 or if I dilate they'll keep me. So my husband and I walked ate and had sex and sex always gives me the worse BH. This time they started really hurting so we went in and I didn't progress except a hair. The hospital let me go home. They said the same thing they tell everyone about water breaking and contractions. I think he just wants to see where I'm at. He doesn't want to leave me alone what so ever and he was never ever like this with our first.
He must be so freaked out. That's sweet but also annoying. Maybe he's worried baby will come really fast since it's your second?
I'm pretty irritated, and due in a little over a week.
I am not sleeping through the night because of normal pregnancy symptoms like peeing, anxiety, RLS, RLP, cramping, and BH. I am exhausted and feel like a shell of a person I once was. Also, I feel so unprepared for baby. Emotionally and physically. We have baby gear that's in pieces. We have a space for a nursery but it's not put together. We have two car seats but DH hasn't installed.
He seems ready and does not mind that other people might need to wash clothes for us or put our baby gear together while in the hospital. The more I think about this, the more rage I get. I MIND!
DH and I have plans to spend time with family today during the day. Now we're spending the night there, and I have to deal with my weird pregnancy quirks and lack of sleep at our in-laws' house. Ok, fine. I wake up to him asking me (for his FIL) if we can bring SIL back with us Sunday, have her spend the night at our house, and then take her to the airport on Monday. I thought I was going to have an out tonight in case we didn't want to spend the night. Now I don't.
He works during the day, so I am going to be the one entertaining her, and taking her to the airport during the day on Monday. I have to. I wouldn't mind if I could actually get done the things on my to-do list. AND we could have a showing so the house has to be immaculate.
This could be our last weekend to spend alone time together and now we're spending it with family, which should be nice, but ISN'T what I wanted. Especially since I had a bit of a water breaking scare last night. It could literally happen at any time. I want to scream that I'm not ready.
Everyone tells me to rest easy but I fucking can't with all of the little bs added to our calendar. It takes me forever to do one thing around the house or run one errand! I just need more TIME before baby comes.
I wish he could read my mind and know that when he asks things like this, it's going to make me upset. I feel like a jerk having to EXPLAIN that I want ALONE time with him and that I'm so overwhelmed. I am going to snap any minute. And everyone asks how I'm doing and feeling...
@Westypet maybe you could blast DH with a low level Avada Kedavra and make *him* into a horcrux, Voldemort style. Or at the least, we need to put in some study time on the Imperius Curse and forcibly make him do your projects and tell his sister he will wake up early and take her to the airport before he goes to work. She can wait all day there drinking expensive airport drinks.
@Westypet have your SIL put together all the stuff that hasn't been assembled, do your laundry, and make you freezer meals while you and your husband go out on a LONG date night. Dinner, ice cream, and a movie. Call an uber ride or cab the day she is to depart and send her on her merry way while you fake contractions.
It sounds like a decent plan to me, but that may just a mischievous pregnant woman talking....hope it all turns out ok.
I lost out on this one. He just insisted that she'll be helpful while he puts stuff together.
Anyone else feeling territorial of their time before baby comes? Or territorial over spouse? I don't want to share. I feel like a two year old.
I know we need the money but I just don't want FI to go to work this weekend. I just want more time together and tomorrow night is our last night before heading up to my parents for the duration. Last night in our apartment as just a twosome..... So strange. Yeah if anyone tried to hone in on that I'd be upset.
Seriously having second thoughts about having my mom in delivery room with me. I felt great yesterday and finally got some things done around the house. My mom makes a Facebook post and tags me in it. "My daughter has energy! Anytime now, we'll have a baby!" Later, my phone died and it took me a little to get around to charging it. DH was home with me, so I didn't think it was a big deal. When I finally get my phone charged, I see I'm tagged in a Facebook status. "My daughter (insert tagged name here) needs stop letting her phone die. It's too close to baby's arrival for her to do this."
Maybe I'm just cranky, but it's annoying. I asked her today not to post anything about me or the baby without my permission. Hopefully, she'll respect that. I can just see her posting: "My daughter is dilated to 9!" Or "She's pushing!"
@bbnmama2012 my dad this whole pregnancy has been fb post crazy and it drives me batshit. He even put up an ultrasound picture and a picture of an ewok (since that's what I call the baby to be) talking about how exciting it was - BEFORE WE HAD MADE OUR OWN EXPECTING A BABY ANNOUNCEMENT. He didn't tag me with these photos, but I had specifically told him we were waiting to tell people and NOT to say anything on fb about it. I wigged out and told him to take it down. Now he is constantly posting the link to my registry on my wall and urging my friends that 'there isn't much time left!' And 'anytime now!' I just want to scream at him to chill the eff out, anybody who was gonna buy me something has bought it by now, leave the damned registry alone!
Anyways, I feel you. Luckily, he lives outside the US so he will NOT be here for the birth (and hopefully will not come to visit after)
I'm so done with people. Just all of them, all the time. I can't even drive anymore after my road rage last week had me making stupid mistakes. I just want to lose it on everyone! Except, luckily, my husband - he has this amazing calming effect on me and puts me into a happy place. Too bad he's working all freaking day! UGH.
Seriously having second thoughts about having my mom in delivery room with me. I felt great yesterday and finally got some things done around the house. My mom makes a Facebook post and tags me in it. "My daughter has energy! Anytime now, we'll have a baby!" Later, my phone died and it took me a little to get around to charging it. DH was home with me, so I didn't think it was a big deal. When I finally get my phone charged, I see I'm tagged in a Facebook status. "My daughter (insert tagged name here) needs stop letting her phone die. It's too close to baby's arrival for her to do this."
Maybe I'm just cranky, but it's annoying. I asked her today not to post anything about me or the baby without my permission. Hopefully, she'll respect that. I can just see her posting: "My daughter is dilated to 9!" Or "She's pushing!"
It's TMI and I don't know her Facebook friends.
Rant over.
I whole-heartedly agree!! LEAVE ME ALONE.
Any FB posts always turn into 38593 text messages. Sweet, but overwhelming.
^^^^^^^ this is one of the reasons why I deactivated my fb until after this lovely baby is born. I can't handle the stupidity. My dads an idiot on fb and so is my mom. and I don't want ppl posting before I even announce. Case in point my coworkers or even friends would think it was harmless when the rest of my family wouldn't know yet about the birth and id never hear the end of it
I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.
I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.
A thief or mugger who targets a lady with an infant and a diaper bag are in line for some seriously bad karma. I don't see what the deal is if you always wear designer purses, what's the difference?
@jesshrou I wouldn't even think about returning it, especially since it was a gift. If he was complaining that you went out and spent a ton of money on a designer bag, then maybe I could see the argument, but to say he doesn't want you wearing it because it draws attention for robbers is silly to me (especially since you normally wear designer bags). Honestly that's one of those things that I would tell my husband to get over, and he'll probably realize how dumb of an argument that is later.
I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.
A thief or mugger who targets a lady with an infant and a diaper bag are in line for some seriously bad karma. I don't see what the deal is if you always wear designer purses, what's the difference?
I have no idea what the difference is. He just doesn't understand my love of designer bags That started almost 20 years ago. I don't have a big collection but I am very protective over the bags that I've been gifted. Quality over quantity for me. He once asked me to sell them and we didn't speak for a while after that.
@jesshrou tell him to give up one of his collector hobbies (all men have something they 'collect'. Guns, gaming systems and games, hunting or fishing stuff, sporting stuff like a kayak or surfboard or skateboards, etc) first. Maybe he'll stop and think about if its worth it to press this issue of the designer bags. Honestly, its a gift. I'd use it. Unless you live in the hood are you really likely to be mugged anyway? Its not like you're going to be creeping around at 2am for a mugger to corner you when you have an infant. And, so what if someone steals your diaper bag (not being mugged, the simple kind of thievery where they grab it off your shoulder at a run or swipe it from behind you at a restaurant or something)? I mean, it would suck cause it was a gift and it was designer, but what does the thief get out of it? Dirty diapers, wipes, a binky or two, maybe some Kleenexes, butt cream... Nothing really exciting there.
@mellymar thanks. We live in a very nice area and I'm a nut about my surroundings so I'm not worried at all. He's been in a mood all day so who knows. My work bag is a huge nice tote bag and he's never said anything about that and I don't work in the greatest area. Men...
@Westypet I haven't been super clingy or jealous about time with DH YET, but this week I am. He has a little group of guy friends who are all super close (4-5 of them) & were the first to have baby, but another is getting married & another is settling in with a serious girlfriend, so they have had an "early life crisis" & have been hanging out nonstop for like 3 months. Pretty sure there hasn't been a week gone by where we haven't done SOMETHING with them. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE them & can't wait to bring baby girl into the mix, but told him yesterday this week is our last as a family of 2 (3 with fur baby) & he's MINE. He stayed over at one of their houses until 330 last night & came home worried I'd be upset... Haha. I was eating granola in bed & could care less - last time for a while!!!
@mellymar thanks. We live in a very nice area and I'm a nut about my surroundings so I'm not worried at all. He's been in a mood all day so who knows. My work bag is a huge nice tote bag and he's never said anything about that and I don't work in the greatest area. Men...
Do you think this might be protective daddy instinct coming out? This is a silly argument on his part. Maybe if you said something like, "I promise to be safe, we've picked this safe area to live in, and I know you will keep us safe, too." Stroke his male ego a bit. "But if you take my designer bag away from me and make me feel like a frumpy mom, I will mug you. Hee. Hee."
I'm an angry pregnant lady because our good friends who were overnight guests for a wedding last night are just getting up and leaving in the am instead of hanging out like we planned........ One of my best friends.... I'm super annoyed. Yes please just use me for my house and act like your SO excited to hang out and then just one night stand me. I have been so bored and really looked forward to this. F' em. Ugh My DH " they probably have their own stuff going on. " Me- " I don't give a shit. I'm about to pop out a kid in 15 days and kind of wanted to hang w my friend one last time before."
DH went out again tonight tothe pub to hang with the roommate who works there as the DJ, told him to let me know whats up.. that was at 9, its not 1:30 and ive heard nothing. told me he wasnt going to drink but honestly not sure i believe that one.. this makes 5 nights in 9 days.
the D in DH is starting to stand for "Damn"
ETA: couple minutes after posting this he texted me saying he would be back soon, only had 2 beers so he wasnt drinking and driving, we talked about some stuff and so i guess im not as angry. still got the general irritability though.
I'm an angry pregnant lady because our good friends who were overnight guests for a wedding last night are just getting up and leaving in the am instead of hanging out like we planned........ One of my best friends.... I'm super annoyed. Yes please just use me for my house and act like your SO excited to hang out and then just one night stand me. I have been so bored and really looked forward to this. F' em. Ugh My DH " they probably have their own stuff going on. " Me- " I don't give a shit. I'm about to pop out a kid in 15 days and kind of wanted to hang w my friend one last time before."
Are you the lovely lady who posted about eating the wedding cake your house guests left on the kitchen counter? If so, good for you! You may not get tour hang-out, but on the bright side, you had their cake and ate it too!
@Sparklydelite Haha yes. That was me. It's not as awesome now though because I found out my friend did bring it for me. Lol But it felt like revenge at 3 am!!!
Yesterday at the license center, after waiting an hour to be called and then an additional hour of STANDING in line, a nice man from a different line got out of his line and asked the guy working if they could get me a chair. I'm not one to draw attention but I took the chair. And the fan they put in front of me. Even so by the time I got to the front of the line I was so grumpy sweaty and ugly for my picture, my face in it is priceless. Like I want to murder the camera lady. She was like, "okay just look at the blue dot..... You can smile a little if you want to." I said, "no thanks I'm good."
Side by side with a photo taken earlier that day for comparison.
Angry with DH last night which has carried over to this morning. This guy he works with is suddenly asking him to go out and hang out with him a lot. At least once every time he is off duty (which means once out of the two days DH is off at a time). So yesterday we went for a walk and decided we would go back to the house and hang around the firepit just chilling. That's what were doing and I see DH take a pic of the fire and I'm like 'what are you doing?' to which he replies 'Marshall asked me to come out but I told him to come here instead'. :-O Dude, you don't even ask me if I mind having company over? And, its already almost 9pm! You're going to *start* a boys bullshit session at 9pm? For real? Anyway so homie comes over and DH is drinking, drinking, and I'm trying to give him cues to chill the eff out cause he's doing the drunken man stumble on nothing. But I don't want to call him out in front of his friend. And DH keeps going to get more firewood and I'm like we don't need an effing raging bonfire here, cause you're going to be wasted and I'm the one that's going to have to be on fire watch until this thing dies down! Long story short, homie leaves at 1130, DH tries to come to bed totally soused (I had left around 1045 and was upstairs fuming, er...reading). Then he has to get up again because he drank so much he can't lay down right now and goes back downstairs to stay up until he can lay down and crash on the couch. He finally came upstairs around 7am this morning and is now sleeping off his hangover.
Dude, you're seriously going to get shitfaced with your lady wife 10 days away from her due date?! Again? And now today is a total lost cause. I'll be surprised if I see him before 2pm. And when I do see him, he's gonna be totally worthless, all day with his headache and sad faces that he doesn't feel good. Like I give a sh!t, asshole. I'm over here crying over the pain in my crotch daily and you're going to play woe is me for a situation YOU created? ~X( X( :-w
Angry with DH last night which has carried over to this morning. This guy he works with is suddenly asking him to go out and hang out with him a lot. At least once every time he is off duty (which means once out of the two days DH is off at a time). So yesterday we went for a walk and decided we would go back to the house and hang around the firepit just chilling. That's what were doing and I see DH take a pic of the fire and I'm like 'what are you doing?' to which he replies 'Marshall asked me to come out but I told him to come here instead'. :-O Dude, you don't even ask me if I mind having company over? And, its already almost 9pm! You're going to *start* a boys bullshit session at 9pm? For real? Anyway so homie comes over and DH is drinking, drinking, and I'm trying to give him cues to chill the eff out cause he's doing the drunken man stumble on nothing. But I don't want to call him out in front of his friend. And DH keeps going to get more firewood and I'm like we don't need an effing raging bonfire here, cause you're going to be wasted and I'm the one that's going to have to be on fire watch until this thing dies down! Long story short, homie leaves at 1130, DH tries to come to bed totally soused (I had left around 1045 and was upstairs fuming, er...reading). Then he has to get up again because he drank so much he can't lay down right now and goes back downstairs to stay up until he can lay down and crash on the couch. He finally came upstairs around 7am this morning and is now sleeping off his hangover.
Dude, you're seriously going to get shitfaced with your lady wife 10 days away from her due date?! Again? And now today is a total lost cause. I'll be surprised if I see him before 2pm. And when I do see him, he's gonna be totally worthless, all day with his headache and sad faces that he doesn't feel good. Like I give a sh!t, asshole. I'm over here crying over the pain in my crotch daily and you're going to play woe is me for a situation YOU created? ~X( X( :-w
@mellymar I would be furiousssssss! If this becomes an on going thing I would mention the fact of what's going to happen if you go into labor or your water breaks while he's getting shit faced with his buddy. You're sure as hell not going to drive yourself to the hospital and even worse for him to do so in a condition like that. Eeek I'm sorry you had to deal with that !
@mellymar I would be furiousssssss! If this becomes an on going thing I would mention the fact of what's going to happen if you go into labor or your water breaks while he's getting shit faced with his buddy. You're sure as hell not going to drive yourself to the hospital and even worse for him to do so in a condition like that. Eeek I'm sorry you had to deal with that !
@Westypet@Zeuskay01 yes, I'd say I'm feeling an urge to clean the kitchen via banging pots and pans around, then vacuuming. (I'm not really feeling that urge, but I'll buck up and do it for revenge).
And yeah, I don't get it. He can tend to over drink when with others, but he hasn't wanted to hang with other people from his work until this guy asked him to hang out about two weeks ago. Now he's all about hanging with this guy whenever he texts. I think he's having a pre-baby crisis.
Re: Angry Pregnant Ladies...
@mellymar - I HATE that. I'm getting that, too.
So yesterday DH and I woke up, got ready, took trash out, and then he took me to the park to walk. I would say I walked about a mile. We then grabbed lunch and cleaned the car because well I'm due anyway now. By time we got back his mom, sister and our son was at our house with donuts for us. We all went to the pool, then I took a nap and then woke up to dinner. So it was a pretty good day until about 7:30pm MIL asked DH when we were going to the hospital. DH replied idk babe when do you want to go tonight? Idk why but he is so pushy right now about me going to the hospital just to get checked. (I was 5cm last time) I don't know if it's because he's afraid I'm dilated too far to be walking about cause he already won't let me swim. He's already also taken 2 days off from work just to walk me like crazy and be on "labor watch". Which is honestly something we can't really afford right now since he's the only one working. But since I declined going to the hospital he got so mad at me. I can't just drop this baby out and the nurses aren't allowed to induce me on their own. He's basically throwing me into an unnecessary induction and he doesn't even know it. ~X( I wish he would just chill the f out.
I'm pretty irritated, and due in a little over a week.
I am not sleeping through the night because of normal pregnancy symptoms like peeing, anxiety, RLS, RLP, cramping, and BH. I am exhausted and feel like a shell of a person I once was. Also, I feel so unprepared for baby. Emotionally and physically. We have baby gear that's in pieces. We have a space for a nursery but it's not put together. We have two car seats but DH hasn't installed.
He seems ready and does not mind that other people might need to wash clothes for us or put our baby gear together while in the hospital. The more I think about this, the more rage I get. I MIND!
DH and I have plans to spend time with family today during the day. Now we're spending the night there, and I have to deal with my weird pregnancy quirks and lack of sleep at our in-laws' house. Ok, fine. I wake up to him asking me (for his FIL) if we can bring SIL back with us Sunday, have her spend the night at our house, and then take her to the airport on Monday. I thought I was going to have an out tonight in case we didn't want to spend the night. Now I don't.
He works during the day, so I am going to be the one entertaining her, and taking her to the airport during the day on Monday. I have to. I wouldn't mind if I could actually get done the things on my to-do list. AND we could have a showing so the house has to be immaculate.
This could be our last weekend to spend alone time together and now we're spending it with family, which should be nice, but ISN'T what I wanted. Especially since I had a bit of a water breaking scare last night. It could literally happen at any time. I want to scream that I'm not ready.
Everyone tells me to rest easy but I fucking can't with all of the little bs added to our calendar. It takes me forever to do one thing around the house or run one errand! I just need more TIME before baby comes.
I wish he could read my mind and know that when he asks things like this, it's going to make me upset. I feel like a jerk having to EXPLAIN that I want ALONE time with him and that I'm so overwhelmed. I am going to snap any minute. And everyone asks how I'm doing and feeling...
Love and horcruxes,
Katie AKA Westypet
ETA: words
Anyone close enough to me that I would feel bad about it, would never ask that.
It sounds like a decent plan to me, but that may just a mischievous pregnant woman talking....hope it all turns out ok.
I lost out on this one. He just insisted that she'll be helpful while he puts stuff together.
Anyone else feeling territorial of their time before baby comes? Or territorial over spouse? I don't want to share. I feel like a two year old.
Maybe I'm just cranky, but it's annoying. I asked her today not to post anything about me or the baby without my permission. Hopefully, she'll respect that. I can just see her posting: "My daughter is dilated to 9!" Or "She's pushing!"
It's TMI and I don't know her Facebook friends.
Rant over.
Anyways, I feel you. Luckily, he lives outside the US so he will NOT be here for the birth (and hopefully will not come to visit after)
Any FB posts always turn into 38593 text messages. Sweet, but overwhelming.
That started almost 20 years ago. I don't have a big collection but I am very protective over the bags that I've been gifted. Quality over quantity for me. He once asked me to sell them and we didn't speak for a while after that.
Honestly, its a gift. I'd use it. Unless you live in the hood are you really likely to be mugged anyway? Its not like you're going to be creeping around at 2am for a mugger to corner you when you have an infant. And, so what if someone steals your diaper bag (not being mugged, the simple kind of thievery where they grab it off your shoulder at a run or swipe it from behind you at a restaurant or something)? I mean, it would suck cause it was a gift and it was designer, but what does the thief get out of it? Dirty diapers, wipes, a binky or two, maybe some Kleenexes, butt cream... Nothing really exciting there.
"But if you take my designer bag away from me and make me feel like a frumpy mom, I will mug you. Hee. Hee."
My DH " they probably have their own stuff going on. "
Me- " I don't give a shit. I'm about to pop out a kid in 15 days and kind of wanted to hang w my friend one last time before."
the D in DH is starting to stand for "Damn"
ETA: couple minutes after posting this he texted me saying he would be back soon, only had 2 beers so he wasnt drinking and driving, we talked about some stuff and so i guess im not as angry. still got the general irritability though.
But it felt like revenge at 3 am!!!
Side by side with a photo taken earlier that day for comparison.
Anyway so homie comes over and DH is drinking, drinking, and I'm trying to give him cues to chill the eff out cause he's doing the drunken man stumble on nothing. But I don't want to call him out in front of his friend. And DH keeps going to get more firewood and I'm like we don't need an effing raging bonfire here, cause you're going to be wasted and I'm the one that's going to have to be on fire watch until this thing dies down!
Long story short, homie leaves at 1130, DH tries to come to bed totally soused (I had left around 1045 and was upstairs fuming, er...reading). Then he has to get up again because he drank so much he can't lay down right now and goes back downstairs to stay up until he can lay down and crash on the couch. He finally came upstairs around 7am this morning and is now sleeping off his hangover.
Dude, you're seriously going to get shitfaced with your lady wife 10 days away from her due date?! Again?
And now today is a total lost cause. I'll be surprised if I see him before 2pm. And when I do see him, he's gonna be totally worthless, all day with his headache and sad faces that he doesn't feel good. Like I give a sh!t, asshole. I'm over here crying over the pain in my crotch daily and you're going to play woe is me for a situation YOU created? ~X( X( :-w
Stabby. So stabby.
Butthead.
Eeek I'm sorry you had to deal with that !
Where's the hissy cat gif???
And yeah, I don't get it. He can tend to over drink when with others, but he hasn't wanted to hang with other people from his work until this guy asked him to hang out about two weeks ago. Now he's all about hanging with this guy whenever he texts. I think he's having a pre-baby crisis.
He's going to get a talking to, that's for sure.
Edited for proper word usage, wth, phone?