June 2015 Moms

Angry Pregnant Ladies...

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Re: Angry Pregnant Ladies...

  • @Zeuskay01 I'm so sorry! That is rough news.
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  • @Zeuskay01 I'm so sorry, honey!
    @mellymar - I HATE that. I'm getting that, too.
  • Really needing to vent, so glad this is here.
    So yesterday DH and I woke up, got ready, took trash out, and then he took me to the park to walk. I would say I walked about a mile. We then grabbed lunch and cleaned the car because well I'm due anyway now. By time we got back his mom, sister and our son was at our house with donuts for us. We all went to the pool, then I took a nap and then woke up to dinner. So it was a pretty good day until about 7:30pm MIL asked DH when we were going to the hospital. DH replied idk babe when do you want to go tonight? Idk why but he is so pushy right now about me going to the hospital just to get checked. (I was 5cm last time) I don't know if it's because he's afraid I'm dilated too far to be walking about cause he already won't let me swim. He's already also taken 2 days off from work just to walk me like crazy and be on "labor watch". Which is honestly something we can't really afford right now since he's the only one working. But since I declined going to the hospital he got so mad at me. I can't just drop this baby out and the nurses aren't allowed to induce me on their own. He's basically throwing me into an unnecessary induction and he doesn't even know it. ~X( I wish he would just chill the f out.
  • Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?
  • Westypet said:

    Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?

    Wednesday we went to the doctor and in a week she said I went from 3cm 60% to 5cm 90% and she said she could feel my bag really well. So my husband and I asked if she could strip my membrane because that's what usually works for me. She declined at the time because it's like sending in unnecessary amounts of people, I don't know how else to explain how she said it. But she suggested I walk a lot have sex eat dinner and go to the hospital she said if Im a 6 or if I dilate they'll keep me. So my husband and I walked ate and had sex and sex always gives me the worse BH. This time they started really hurting so we went in and I didn't progress except a hair. The hospital let me go home. They said the same thing they tell everyone about water breaking and contractions. I think he just wants to see where I'm at. He doesn't want to leave me alone what so ever and he was never ever like this with our first.

  • LaurenAnn0405LaurenAnn0405 member
    edited June 2015
    My complaint this morning is that I've tried everything to change my avatar back to what it was before and it keeps showing up wrong! It randomly decided to change itself last night at some point. On my profile settings it shows the right one and I've clicked update on my profile multiple times and logged in/out multiple times thinking it needed to reset. I'm not on the app because I'm not a fan of the app but it's not working and it's really frustrating me! Sorry for the NBR first world problem rant. I'll go back to eating my donuts to calm me down ETA: aaaand it just randomly changed back-maybe the donuts have magical powers?
  • Westypet said:

    Has he read up on when to go to the hospital? (Contractions, etc.) Has your doctor given you clear instructions that he's just not following, @britneythebridexo ?

    Wednesday we went to the doctor and in a week she said I went from 3cm 60% to 5cm 90% and she said she could feel my bag really well. So my husband and I asked if she could strip my membrane because that's what usually works for me. She declined at the time because it's like sending in unnecessary amounts of people, I don't know how else to explain how she said it. But she suggested I walk a lot have sex eat dinner and go to the hospital she said if Im a 6 or if I dilate they'll keep me. So my husband and I walked ate and had sex and sex always gives me the worse BH. This time they started really hurting so we went in and I didn't progress except a hair. The hospital let me go home. They said the same thing they tell everyone about water breaking and contractions. I think he just wants to see where I'm at. He doesn't want to leave me alone what so ever and he was never ever like this with our first.

    He must be so freaked out. That's sweet but also annoying. Maybe he's worried baby will come really fast since it's your second?
  • @Westypet if someone asked me to drive them to the airport right now I would laugh in their face.

    Anyone close enough to me that I would feel bad about it, would never ask that.
  • Westypet said:

    @Serenamarr @mellymar @lovethatcolosun

    I lost out on this one. He just insisted that she'll be helpful while he puts stuff together.

    Anyone else feeling territorial of their time before baby comes? Or territorial over spouse? I don't want to share. I feel like a two year old.

    I know we need the money but I just don't want FI to go to work this weekend. I just want more time together and tomorrow night is our last night before heading up to my parents for the duration. Last night in our apartment as just a twosome..... So strange. Yeah if anyone tried to hone in on that I'd be upset.
  • Seriously having second thoughts about having my mom in delivery room with me. I felt great yesterday and finally got some things done around the house. My mom makes a Facebook post and tags me in it. "My daughter has energy! Anytime now, we'll have a baby!" Later, my phone died and it took me a little to get around to charging it. DH was home with me, so I didn't think it was a big deal. When I finally get my phone charged, I see I'm tagged in a Facebook status. "My daughter (insert tagged name here) needs stop letting her phone die. It's too close to baby's arrival for her to do this."

    Maybe I'm just cranky, but it's annoying. I asked her today not to post anything about me or the baby without my permission. Hopefully, she'll respect that. I can just see her posting: "My daughter is dilated to 9!" Or "She's pushing!"

    It's TMI and I don't know her Facebook friends.

    Rant over.

    I whole-heartedly agree!! LEAVE ME ALONE.

    Any FB posts always turn into 38593 text messages. Sweet, but overwhelming.
  • ^^^^^^^ this is one of the reasons why I deactivated my fb until after this lovely baby is born. I can't handle the stupidity. My dads an idiot on fb and so is my mom. :) and I don't want ppl posting before I even announce. Case in point my coworkers or even friends would think it was harmless when the rest of my family wouldn't know yet about the birth and id never hear the end of it
  • I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.
  • jesshrou said:

    I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.

    A thief or mugger who targets a lady with an infant and a diaper bag are in line for some seriously bad karma. I don't see what the deal is if you always wear designer purses, what's the difference?
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  • @jesshrou I wouldn't even think about returning it, especially since it was a gift. If he was complaining that you went out and spent a ton of money on a designer bag, then maybe I could see the argument, but to say he doesn't want you wearing it because it draws attention for robbers is silly to me (especially since you normally wear designer bags). Honestly that's one of those things that I would tell my husband to get over, and he'll probably realize how dumb of an argument that is later.
  • mellymar said:

    jesshrou said:

    I'm so angry right now with my husband. He made a big stink over my diaper bag tonight. It's a designer bag and was a gift from my mom. He tells me he refuses to wear it so I ordered him a black backpack. He then tells me he doesn't want me wearing the diaper bag bc it's too flashy and it's a magnet to get robbed.....I only wear designer purses and wore the same designer to dinner!! How is this any different?? I know this is totally a spoiled FTM problem but it would hurt my mom if I returned it but I don't know what to do.

    A thief or mugger who targets a lady with an infant and a diaper bag are in line for some seriously bad karma. I don't see what the deal is if you always wear designer purses, what's the difference?
    I have no idea what the difference is. He just doesn't understand my love of designer bags
    That started almost 20 years ago. I don't have a big collection but I am very protective over the bags that I've been gifted. Quality over quantity for me. He once asked me to sell them and we didn't speak for a while after that.
  • Lol. I was too angry to even argue with that. I think he was grasping at straws with that statement.
  • @jesshrou tell him to give up one of his collector hobbies (all men have something they 'collect'. Guns, gaming systems and games, hunting or fishing stuff, sporting stuff like a kayak or surfboard or skateboards, etc) first. Maybe he'll stop and think about if its worth it to press this issue of the designer bags.
    Honestly, its a gift. I'd use it. Unless you live in the hood are you really likely to be mugged anyway? Its not like you're going to be creeping around at 2am for a mugger to corner you when you have an infant. And, so what if someone steals your diaper bag (not being mugged, the simple kind of thievery where they grab it off your shoulder at a run or swipe it from behind you at a restaurant or something)? I mean, it would suck cause it was a gift and it was designer, but what does the thief get out of it? Dirty diapers, wipes, a binky or two, maybe some Kleenexes, butt cream... Nothing really exciting there.
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  • @mellymar thanks. We live in a very nice area and I'm a nut about my surroundings so I'm not worried at all. He's been in a mood all day so who knows. My work bag is a huge nice tote bag and he's never said anything about that and I don't work in the greatest area. Men...
  • Guys come on diaper theives are everywhere.... Just waiting to snatch your bag filled with wipes and ointment!

    I hear some do it hoping for dirty diapers and blown out Indies! Baby poo is like they're gold...lol
  • @Westypet I haven't been super clingy or jealous about time with DH YET, but this week I am. He has a little group of guy friends who are all super close (4-5 of them) & were the first to have baby, but another is getting married & another is settling in with a serious girlfriend, so they have had an "early life crisis" & have been hanging out nonstop for like 3 months. Pretty sure there hasn't been a week gone by where we haven't done SOMETHING with them. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE them & can't wait to bring baby girl into the mix, but told him yesterday this week is our last as a family of 2 (3 with fur baby) & he's MINE. He stayed over at one of their houses until 330 last night & came home worried I'd be upset... Haha. I was eating granola in bed & could care less - last time for a while!!!
  • klkonwiklkonwi member
    edited June 2015
    I'm an angry pregnant lady because our good friends who were overnight guests for a wedding last night are just getting up and leaving in the am instead of hanging out like we planned........ One of my best friends.... I'm super annoyed. Yes please just use me for my house and act like your SO excited to hang out and then just one night stand me. I have been so bored and really looked forward to this. F' em. Ugh
    My DH " they probably have their own stuff going on. "
    Me- " I don't give a shit. I'm about to pop out a kid in 15 days and kind of wanted to hang w my friend one last time before."
  • DH is a die hard Golden Sate Warrior fan. I'm really getting tired of him saying "ok it's game day please don't have the baby today." Really dude?
  • klkonwi said:

    I'm an angry pregnant lady because our good friends who were overnight guests for a wedding last night are just getting up and leaving in the am instead of hanging out like we planned........ One of my best friends.... I'm super annoyed. Yes please just use me for my house and act like your SO excited to hang out and then just one night stand me. I have been so bored and really looked forward to this. F' em. Ugh
    My DH " they probably have their own stuff going on. "
    Me- " I don't give a shit. I'm about to pop out a kid in 15 days and kind of wanted to hang w my friend one last time before."

    Are you the lovely lady who posted about eating the wedding cake your house guests left on the kitchen counter? If so, good for you! You may not get tour hang-out, but on the bright side, you had their cake and ate it too!
  • Yesterday at the license center, after waiting an hour to be called and then an additional hour of STANDING in line, a nice man from a different line got out of his line and asked the guy working if they could get me a chair. I'm not one to draw attention but I took the chair. And the fan they put in front of me. Even so by the time I got to the front of the line I was so grumpy sweaty and ugly for my picture, my face in it is priceless. Like I want to murder the camera lady. She was like, "okay just look at the blue dot..... You can smile a little if you want to." I said, "no thanks I'm good."

    Side by side with a photo taken earlier that day for comparison.
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