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Third times the charm? BFP

rspalding001rspalding001 member
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Soooooooo here we go again? I'm super cautious, and so very nervous seeing as how I've had 2 losses in the last 5 months BUT I got a BFP at 14 DPO this morning so I guess this means we have another shot at this baby #2 thing. I almost didn't post about it because part of me is just afraid it will be another CP or an early loss like before. I'm trying to remain positive however so wanted to share the good news. Fingers crossed for a sticky baby!!!!!! Id be due February 9 if it works out :-)
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  • jilligan14jilligan14 member
    OMG!! So happy for you!!! I know how scary it can be and how hard it is to relax when you've had a couple of losses. Just take one day at a time. My fingers are crossed for you. And you totally made my day :-)
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    Wonderful news!! I've been looking forward to seeing BFP posts from people from the miscarriage board and you are officially my first. I hope everything goes really well for you. :)
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • suziq1978suziq1978 member
    Yay!!  Fingers crossed for a sticky baby!
    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5677e2">My Ovulation Chart</a>
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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    Yahooooooooooo.
    I hear ya on being afraid. I will send this baby all my sticky vibes.
    Stay positive but I know you will be a nervous wreck until you see a heartbeat.
    This is going to be it for you!!!!!
    Congrats lady

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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    All welcome

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  • Knottie16743552Knottie16743552 member
    Whoot Whoot! February 9th is my birthday!!! Fingers crossed. :)
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  • lady+beelady+bee member
    Yay! Fingers crossed for you! :)

    Me: 41
    DH: 44
    TTC#1 since April 2015
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  • TomerineTomerine member
    Congratulations! It's tough early on, especially getting through those loss anniversaries, but I hope all goes well and you sail right on through them.
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  • Goldsgirl9Goldsgirl9 member
    Fingers crossed!
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  • Carazona5Carazona5 member
    Yay!!! Congrats!! This is the first time seeing a BFP posted since I started posting here :) a relative of mine just had her "third time's a charm" baby which might give you some hope. :)
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  • Krisd6Krisd6 member
    Congratulations!! Great news!!
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  • emsmama15emsmama15 member
    YAY!  Congratulations.  Sticky baby vibes sent! :)
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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  • FemShepFemShep member
    Congratulations!  Sending you ALL the good thoughts for a happy and healthy 9 months.
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  • StairbearStairbear member
    Great news!
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  • shannonm97shannonm97 member
    Congrats. Happy and healthy nine months. 
    Me 38 DH 40
    TTC since Dec 2010.
    Diagnosed anovulatory, HSG clear. Slight MFI- borderline count, but excellent motility and morphology 
    Nov. 12- Feb.13 Gonal F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFN
    Lap April 13. Found blocked tube and bridged fimbria. Opened tube and cut fimbria. All clear 
    June 13  Gonal F+ Pregnyl +IUI = BFN Stopped treatment with RE due to side effects from drugs and told we needed IVF.
    Oct. 13 started Accupuncture and Chinese herbs- being monitored by RE. Getting better response- e2 and follie size. 
    Now RE says TI till March, then IUI. Fingers crossed, 

    All welcome
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  • dolphin012dolphin012 member
    That is great news! Sending lots of good thoughts that the little bean sticks! 
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

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  • rspalding001rspalding001 member
    Thanks Ladies! Its been nerve racking but all your kind words help a lot. Im just takign it day by day at this point but today is a good day so yay!
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  • GuennieGuennie member
    LUUUUURKING Oh my gosh, yay!!! Sending you so many sticky vibes and cheering you on!!!
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
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  • Teenie16Teenie16 member
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    Congratulations! Sending sticky vibes your way!
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Congrats, FX and h&h9
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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    Congratulations! I hope that all goes smoothly. So happy for you.

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  • sonpetitlapinsonpetitlapin member
    Congrats sweetheart!! I am so happy to see this post!!!  Remember, today, at this moment, you are pregnant.  FX for you!! I will be stalking you!!!
    ****Siggy Warning***
    ~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • kindershlitzkindershlitz member
    Congratulations @rspalding001 ! Fx this is the one for you!
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  • KirstenAleciaKirstenAlecia member
    gahhhhh!!!! OH MY GAWD........soooooo happy for you too!!!! EEEEEEEEK!
    SIGGY WARNING
    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
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  • 2pups2pups member
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    YAY! LOVE seeing this BFP posts! Take a breath. I completely get the caution, but I'm still excited for you!

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  • bublesmiledbublesmiled member
    Congrats and good luck

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  • thistle8677thistle8677 member
    Congratulations!!!
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  • 2cute042cute04 member
    Congrats! Happy and healthy 9 months!
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  • pumpkinhead4pumpkinhead4 member
    Congratulations! I know it's cliche but my mantra after my losses and subsequent pregnancy was "each one is diff" (and that one was!) hang in there!
    6 & 2 year old, 2 losses
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  • BulgariHeartBulgariHeart member
    Fingers crossed that it sticks!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!
    Anniversary
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