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How many babies/children do you have ?

How many babies/children do you have including this pregnancy? And how many more do you want to have?

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    This is our first and probably only.  I am 43 so we are surprised and blessed that we have this LO on the way.
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    I have two little girls. This baby will make 3 children. In an ideal world I would choose to have 4 or 5 kids, but I don't know if we will actively pursue anymore after this one.
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    We have a 6 yr old son and a 2 yr old daughter.  This baby is a boy and will be our third and last. This was a surprise baby so we are definitely done after this one. :) 
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    thinkpink101thinkpink101 member
    edited March 2015
    We have three boys, 11 & 10 year old ID twins. This baby was a surprise to say the least. I'm certain it's another boy. In an ideal world I would have had two girls...

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    I have a 3-1/2 yo boy and a 21 mo girl. This 3rd one is a boy and it is most definitely our last. I will not do pregnancy again.
    DS born 10/25/11 **  DD born 6/24/13 **  DS born 4/20/15
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    This is my first, and I'll turn 37 at the halfway point of the pregnancy. The doctor mentioned that I should try to have the second one soon after, because of my age. I'll have to ask him how soon he had in mind. Now that my pregnancy symptoms have really kicked in, I'm trying to imagine adding breastfeeding and taking care of an infant to all of this. Not to mention the idea of getting pregnant before my body has had a chance to fully recover. (I know I'm getting ahead of myself, but I keep wondering about it...)
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    I have a 21-month-old boy and a girl due any day. We said that if we had one of each, we'd discuss the option of a third child after we got used to two. However, this pregnancy has been so difficult for me that I can't forsee any planned pregnancy in the future. DH would disagree........

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    Current Age 35, DH 33

    Married 9/2011

    BFP 8/2012, Miscarried 9/2012

    BFP 9/2012, DS 6/2013

    BFP 6/2014, Miscarried 7/2014

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    I have two girls and a boy ages 15, 14 & 11.  Then this one.  I will be getting my tubes tied when this one arrives.
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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    This is my 1st pregnancy and I'm not really down for another. Most likely a one and done, here
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    This is my second child - we have a 5 yo DS too.  I will be 40 when this baby arrives.  I would love another one but not sure that it's really in the cards for us.  We were not planning on having such a large age difference but life does not always work out as planned.


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    So this is my 8th!  yes 8th.  I will have 5 boys when this one comes and 3 girls.  I have children from age 16 to 1 1/2 years old (and in case you are wondering, yes all are from the same dad) (also, no I didn't get started real young either!) basically about every 2 years.  I would be fine with an infinite number more.  I love pregnancy and childbirth and babies and children and can't imagine what my life would be like with a household full. 
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    This will be our first, and I'm assuming our last.  Partly because of our age (we are both 37) and partly because of finances - yikes, babies are expensive!
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    ewenner said:

    This will be our first, and I'm assuming our last.  Partly because of our age (we are both 37) and partly because of finances - yikes, babies are expensive!

    You so are not kidding, lol!  I am on a high-deductible insurance plan and, since our LO was not really planned, we didn't plan for her financially.  Fortunately, the fiance makes a good wage and, as a special needs teacher, my profession is always in demand so we'll be able to make it work.  
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    This is my fifth and last. She will be my 4th girl. My poor son. Surrounded by girls. Lol.
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    This is our first and we're undecided...DH would like to be OAD and I'm Ok with that - since we're older and more set in our ways, we both like that having only one will be the least disruptive and make it easier to continue to travel and stuff. But I've warned him that I've seen too many stories from women convinced they are OAD... then quickly change their mind after the first :) 
    Me-37, DH-38
    Married in 2006, TTC #1 since Jan 2012

    Baby Boy born June 1, 2015

    He settles her in her home as a happy mother of children, praise the Lord! (Psalms 113:9)
    And the peace of God, which surpasses all understand, will guard your heart and mind in Jesus Christ (Philippians 4:7)

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    I always thought having two would be easier than one, because they can play with each other. My DH has a stepson from a previous marriage so I see how bored and antsy kids get by themselves, whereas my two nephews entertain each other all day.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    This one is my second and I'm definitely not doing it again. 

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    TTC #1, 5 yrs, PCOS, Femera + Ovidrel.

    IUI#3 BFP, DD 5/31/2012

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    TTC #2, 2 yrs, PCOS, Femera+Ovidrel

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    We have three daughters (6,4, and 2) and are expecting our fourth daughter. We are unsure what the future holds.
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    We have 3 daughters ages 10, 6, 2, and I am due with girl #4 anytime. I would love to have more, but I am pretty sure this will be our last.

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    This is my 7th due September 2nd don't know the sex yet. I have 5 girls and a 2 year old boy. My oldest is 17 Then 15,13 from previous marriage and 2 girls 5 and 4 and our boy
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    6kidscount - we are in similar situations!  THis is my 8th but my oldest will be 17.  I will have 5 boys when this one comes...and 3 girls.  we have some other repeat ages or close to it.  COngrats!
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    Congrats to you too :) I love having a big family it was just me and my mom growing up and was always bored. Its never boring in my house lol I also have a dog and 3 cats ;)
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    6kidscount...We have 2 cats and a dog.  We had 2 dogs but our big old boy (160 lb mutt most likely Newfoundland mix) died at 13 years old last year. 

    Yeah having a big family definately keeps things from being boring.  Do your children go to a brick and mortar school or do they stay home for school?  Mine are in a public online school.  So I don't have to come up with curriculums and do things like buy books.  But they don't really have any/much contact with teachers etc.  I lead their education. 

     
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    All my school aged children are in public schools and 4 separate schools as well. My oldest is graduating high school this year and she's in French immersion so goes to a different school then my second who's in grade 10. I have one in middle school grade 7 and one in senior kindergarten. My 4 year old starts in September so at least I'll have 2 in the same school lol. Wow I applaud you taking charge and home schooling I won't lie I enjoy a little break from all the noise during the day lol. Summer should be fun lol
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    This is my 4th and last. 3 girls counting the bump and one precocious boy. I'm having my tubes tied,burned,cut out,ect...whatever it takes! I'm too old for this s**t! LOL  :))
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    I have 5 plus 1 due may 10-8-6 girls 3-1 boys no idea what sex next child is. Maybe 1 or 2 more depends what big fella upstairs has instore time will tell. 38 now so will go with the flow.
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    I have a two year old son and this is out second baby. Still don't know what is it beacuse I'm only 6w. If We can deal with two we are going for a third one. That would be perfect.
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    MangomamaFLMangomamaFL member
    edited March 2015
    I have nine born children. I am waiting for my tenth to be born.  I don't know if I want more. BTW  I am 37 years old.

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    I m 36 having baby 6. I have 4 boys and 1 girl ranging from 16-3. Life is good having a big family. I was raised in a large family. My mom had 6 of us too.
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    I have two daughters, ages 9 & 5 (they will be 10 & 6 in June) Baby girl #3 will be here in June. Yes, we are done after #3. :)
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    I'm 36 and this is my first! My DH and I are overjoyed!
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    I'm 39 and this is our first. My husband has two sons in their twenties. He also has a step- son and daughter in their twenties. His oldest just graduated from college last Saturday and we are 18 weeks with our baby boy!
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    LorMorLorMor member
    We have a 2.5 year old girl, and don't know what this one is. The plan was always 2. I'm 38. Will be 39 by the time baby is born.
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    This will be my third and the fourth together with DH. DS is 16, SD is 15, DD is 18 mos and we don't know the sex of this one yet. We're probably going to be done after this one.
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    Good for you! I have 11 and also same daddy for all ( my sweet hubby) I just turned 44 a few days before I found out I'm pregnant so I am bracing myself for all the negative comments when we let the news out at same time I am loving being pregnant again and super excited
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