Trying to Get Pregnant

Newbie introduction. ~( ^..^)

AlyeenaAlyeena member
edited May 2015 in Trying to Get Pregnant
Hello (^v^)

I'm happy to be able to post now, I have been lurking for a little while and I really like the feel of this community.
I used to be on other TTC and such boards before. But never really found my place, even after years. For example I'm not a huge fan of trying to share a story or concern and all I get is baby dust thrown at me.
I know people mean well but I see baby dust as the same thing as getting told "just relax and it will happen".
So yes I really like the attitude of this forum so far ^.^

Since right now is a very important part of my life for me and also a time where I could use people to talk to, people who understand. I figured I would try and join, hopefully I will fit in well.

Here is our story so far:

I am 28 and my husband is 32. We have been TTC our first child for over three years. Since December 28, 2011. In December 2013 we went to our first fertility specialist appointment. After getting poked by needles more times than I can count and many other tests the diagnosis was:
Me = Mild PCOS and husband = Very low count and motility. After more tests he was diagnosed with a varicocele vein, and after the procedure to fix it and a few months his sperm count and motility went up a little bit, but not enough unfortunately.
So the most viable option for us is IVF. After a few months of waiting (yay 50 day cycle) I am finally on the pre-IVF cycle, I started the birth control pill yesterday. And will be starting metformin soon. And Next cycle I will undergo a modified IVF cycle, with ICSI. That should be around end of June or start of July.

Sorry if that was long, I wanted to give details but I tried not to be too much. Hopefully I get to meet some of you who are going through the same thing or similar.

Small about me section: I am a huge geek, love video games and board games. Love reading especially fantasy books. Love movies, like Star Wars and Lord of the Rings and Marvel movies. I enjoy cooking and baking, and eat too many sweets. We have six cats, yes we are crazy cat people lol.

Nice to meet all of you. (*^▽^*)
35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
Miscarriage at 8 weeks
FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
First saw  at 6w4d
It's a boy!

Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

   



Re: Newbie introduction. ~( ^..^)

  • Oh we also have six cats! Welcome! And I am a fellow newbie :)!
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  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    Hey thank you! Glad to know I am not the only cat crazy person here lol.
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • Welcome! DH and I both are dedicated nerds haha video games, movies and everything in between!!
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    Thank you (*^^*) It's nice that there is other nerds here! Me and my husband are both huge nerds lol.
    We actually met on World of Warcraft. We were in the same guild together and hit it off. And here we are now. I still play this game all the time... I have an addiction.

    What is your favorite game??
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • Welcome! I'm Ella, a fellow newbie and nerd. I read a TON of fantasy and science fiction. I even write a little scifi. ;) I just saw Tomorrowland and I have to say, I'm a little disappointed, but I did enjoy Avengers 2. Still haven't seen Ex Machina...

    I played WoW for a hot second. Hearthstone is more my style. That's way cool that you met your husband in your guild! We've made many friends through various online games and forums over the years. 
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    I'm Ella, furmommy to two Maltese!
    Me: 30 DH: 29
    TTC #1 since Jan 2015 \\ current ff chart
  • I was really really into Guild Wars 2, I got like 8 characters to max level and kinda burnt myself out on it. I moved on to Arma III and spent several months helping administrate the number 2 altis life server in the UK. I'm in a phase now where I spend most of my time just lurking on Twitch watching streamers instead of actually playing anything.

    But favorite game of all time...? Bioshock for sure. The best game I've ever played - the story blew my mind.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    edited May 2015
    @lostkyte

    Oh hey! Glad to meet yet another nerd lol. I did not see tomorrowland but I saw Avengers 2 and really liked it!!

    I also play Heartstone a lot! I am a huge fan! I just wish it would work better on my phone, how amazing would that be lol.
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • @Alyeena so true! My mobile version also crashes a lot. Do you have a favorite class to play?

    Also you can quote people or @username on this forum. People appreciate the head's up since the forum structure is hard to dig through. ^^
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    I'm Ella, furmommy to two Maltese!
    Me: 30 DH: 29
    TTC #1 since Jan 2015 \\ current ff chart
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @MrsPittman13

    I played Guild Wars 2 when it first came out for a few months, it was a really really nice game. I stopped playing after all my friends left tho.

    Bioshock is amazing!!!

    And I lurk on twitch a lot too lol! I like to watch Heartstone on there actually it's really entertaining. And Heroes of the storm, helps me get better! My husband is amazing at this game but I am not so good lol.
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • I'm mainly a lurker (we'll start TTC in August), but I wanted to say hello to my fellow nerds! I loved each of the games you're mentioning, but right now I'm focused on Dragon Age Inquisition.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @lostkyte

    Lol I actually just did that and then saw your message! Yes it is easier like that!

    It's so nice, it even autocompletes it for me!!
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



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    I've been sexing up Cullen on DAI. Still haven't finished the game. #priorities
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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04


























  • @purrbucket

    Ooh I haven't been able to touch a Dragon Age game since the second one where they were too lazy to make unique dungeons. I actually loved the style of game but was never able to get past the dungeons being reused over and over.
  • @purrbucket

    Ooh I haven't been able to touch a Dragon Age game since the second one where they were too lazy to make unique dungeons. I actually loved the style of game but was never able to get past the dungeons being reused over and over.

    DAI redeems it self by a billion.
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    LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"


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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04


























  • FemShepFemShep member
    Welcome! It's always great to meet another gamer geek. :)

    I never got too much into MMOs, but I'm a huge Bioware fangirl (in case the screen name didn't give it away). :)
    And FWIW, I agree with @Everycol0r , DAI makes up for the many failings of DA2.

    I've also played a fair bit of Hearthstone, and I have a special place in my heart for strategy games.

    If you ladies don't mind me asking.....

    Favorite video game character (NPCs)?

    Favorite video game romance?


    Garrus is my favorite overall character....I'm sorry, let me rephrase that...., I'm FemShep and Garrus Vakarian is my favorite character in the Citadel.

    But I adored the Alistair romance in DA:O. He's just so swoony and sweet. I got so excited for his cameos in the other games!
  • ME2 was by far my favorite & I loved Garrus too!!
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    LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"


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    Me: 28 | DH: 29
    DD: 10/17/13
    TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
    Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04


























  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @purrbucket thank you for the welcome!

    @FemShep thank you as well!

    I never played any Dragon Age games! There is too many games in the world to try!! Maybe one day...

    My favorite video character will always be Link. i played the original Legend of Zelda on my brother's SNES when I was like eight. And then Ocarina of time was one of the first games I ever played seriously and my favorite of all time. That is when I truly fell in love (♥ω♥*)

    My favorite romance? I am not sure to be honest... I would have to think on that. It will probably be from WoW or Final Fantasy knowing myself...

    Seriously I am so happy at all the geeky girls here!! It's realy nice to meet all of you!!
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • Hey and welcome! I can't wait to hear about your experiences during IVF! I also have PCOS, so I understand your struggle.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @KaaaaaatieRN

    Thank you. (^v^)I will share as everything happens. I just took the second BC pill so 19 more days to go... The nurse said I should have my period only a few days later amd then I will start cycle monitoring, so blood tests everyday at 7am (and I was never someone that wakes up early lol)

    It is nice to meet people who understand! If you don't mind me asking... What kind of treatment are you doing?
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • @purrbucket

    Ooh I haven't been able to touch a Dragon Age game since the second one where they were too lazy to make unique dungeons. I actually loved the style of game but was never able to get past the dungeons being reused over and over.

    DAI redeems it self by a billion.
    So much this. It's as far from DA2 as you can get in terms of dungeon design.
    FemShep said:

    If you ladies don't mind me asking.....

    Favorite video game character (NPCs)?

    Favorite video game romance?


    Garrus is my favorite overall character....I'm sorry, let me rephrase that...., I'm FemShep and Garrus Vakarian is my favorite character in the Citadel.

    But I adored the Alistair romance in DA:O. He's just so swoony and sweet. I got so excited for his cameos in the other games!

    My absolute favorite character is a tie between Ramza from Final Fantasy Tactics and Zelda. 
    Favorite video game romance was in Knights of the Old Republic 2 with Atton Rand. It went in a direction I did not expect and I love being surprised.
  • Alyeena said:

    @KaaaaaatieRN

    Thank you. (^v^)I will share as everything happens. I just took the second BC pill so 19 more days to go... The nurse said I should have my period only a few days later amd then I will start cycle monitoring, so blood tests everyday at 7am (and I was never someone that wakes up early lol)

    It is nice to meet people who understand! If you don't mind me asking... What kind of treatment are you doing?

    I am on metformin and I take (monitored) Clomid. I got my BFP with a strong HB at 7 weeks in February, but had a MMC and D&C in April. So right now, I'm just waiting for AF.. Which I actually think might be happening!
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    @KaaaaaatieRN

    Sorry for your loss xxo
    Did you try IVF or IUI? Are you going to try again? If you don't mind me asking of course.
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • @Alyeena , definitely trying again. I'll call my doctor Monday and go in to have a scan before I start another round of Clomid. I'll start taking dexamethasone tomorrow, since it's cycle day 1. We haven't gotten to IVF or IUI yet. I have 4 more cycles of Clomid, then we will probably move to injections and possibly IUI. Our biggest challenge is my husband travels for work. That makes it really difficult.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    Oh wow yes that can't be easy. If he leaves in your fertile window. How do you make it work?

    So you are just on the meds and try at home then? We skiped that step I guess because of my husband low sperm count / motility. Even with IUI we had only around 5% chance.

    How are your chances per cycle?
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • If I ovulate and my husband is home, I have a 20% chance like anyone else. After I start my period, I look ahead on the calendar to see if my husband will be home or not around the time I should ovulate. If he's not, I skip that cycle so I don't waste it.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    Oh that is pretty good odds then! Hope it works out for you! You said you had four more cycles. How many have you done so far?

    When me and my husband started NTNP. He and I did not live together yet (we started NTNP a few months before we moved in together) and sometimes we could not see each other during the fertile window and I always felt sad. (Of course then I did not know there was no chance anyway)
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • I have done 2. My cycles are typically every 60 days. So I only get to try a cycle of Clomid every 2 months. Since I've had a D&C, I'm hoping my hormones may regulate some. I've been waiting what seems like forever for AF since the procedure, and since I'm starting right now I've done several happy dances. We were NTNP for a year, I went to the OBGYN after I started having symptoms suggesting PCOS, and he confirmed the diagnosis. We then started treatments. That was August of 2014.
  • AlyeenaAlyeena member
    Oh wow those are very long cycles. Mine are more 35-40, but it does happen once or twice a year I will have one that is 50-60 days.

    I'm glad you finally got tour period tho!! It's funny that something we ised to never want we are so happy to get. I got mine Monday after 50 days and I was really happy too.

    Is it hard to track your O in a cycle like yours? Does you doctor monitor you at all? Or do you use O sticks at home?
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



  • He monitors it.
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