FFFC anyone?

babybean82 · May 2015

Flame free Friday confessions

I'll start, I just peed my pants.... not a little dribble either, like full on peed all over myself while running for the bathroom. It's way too early for complete loss of bladder control I'm totally doomed if this continues.

jennyboom39 · May 2015

Being my 7th pregnancy I fully expect this. I have 4 kids and 2 miscarriages and my last full pregnancy with my 7 year old was hell...constantly leaking pee. Doc said with every pregnancy the bladder gets pushed lower and lower...I figure after this pregnancy it'll be as low as it can get,lol.

wlux · May 2015

Just a disclaimer for the newbies:

FFFC = Flame Free Friday Confessions

But there is NO guarantee you will NOT get flamed. It's supposed to start conversation in the group and things can get pretty heated.

It can be fun too with lots of Gifs and we really get to know each other in this thread.

You've been warned! O:-)

robertin · May 2015

I'm a high school English teacher. And I'm over my students. We have 11 days of school left and they're all being jerks.

kak5097 · May 2015

robertin said:
I'm a high school English teacher. And I'm over my students. We have 11 days of school left and they're all being jerks.

I am a second grade teacher. We have 6.5 days left of school with our field trip just around the corner! My kiddos are about as done as can be. Getting them to do anything is a chore! Throw in being 6 weeks, nauseous, and exhausted. I've never been more ready for this year to end! I feel your pain

My confession: I am afraid to tell my BFF I am pregnant because she cannot get pregnant again. She already has one little girl, but with some genetic issues, her doctor recommends not trying again so as to not have another child with the same problems! She has been trying to talk me out of continuing to "try" to get pregnant I think because she doesn't want to see me happy and pregnant!!!! It has taken my husband and I over two years to get here and I feel like she should be happy for me. Is this wrong of me?!?!?!?

kmcc14 · May 2015

I had donuts and pizza yesterday.

Paige6410 · May 2015

There is s McD's burger in my fridge that will be my breakfast once I can stomach some food.
I really, really wish I could take off work one day this weekend. Its going to be slow, which means less money, and just not worth it. It would be great to have a day to just relax and sleep. My boss never had the nausea with her pregnancies, so she doesn't believe it's that bad.

ChipMonster · May 2015

kak5097 said:
My confession: I am afraid to tell my BFF I am pregnant because she cannot get pregnant again. She already has one little girl, but with some genetic issues, her doctor recommends not trying again so as to not have another child with the same problems! She has been trying to talk me out of continuing to "try" to get pregnant I think because she doesn't want to see me happy and pregnant!!!! It has taken my husband and I over two years to get here and I feel like she should be happy for me. Is this wrong of me?!?!?!?

No, it is not wrong of you. You are in a tough situation. I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

I am afraid to tell my bff for a stupid reason. She keeps saying that I have to put off getting pregnant again because she wants to get married soon. Yaaaaa... About that....

m6tonner · May 2015

My sister is pregnant, I'm afraid to tell her that I am. I miscarried before, and she knew that DH and I have been trying for a couple years. She was afraid to tell me because she didn't want to hurt me. God forbid something goes wrong for us, I don't want her to feel guilty about having a healthy pregnancy.

DaphneMoon1 · May 2015

kmcconnell22 said:
I had donuts and pizza yesterday.

We went to Red Robin specifically for the bottomless fries. I ate lots and lots of fries. I regret nothing. They were delicious.

Paige6410 · May 2015

m6tonner said:
My sister is pregnant, I'm afraid to tell her that I am. I miscarried before, and she knew that DH and I have been trying for a couple years. She was afraid to tell me because she didn't want to hurt me. God forbid something goes wrong for us, I don't want her to feel guilty about having a healthy pregnancy.

I was nervous to tell my sister. She had a miscarriage a few months ago. She's usually goes off like a firecracker at every little thing, so I was pleasantly surprised when she got giddy about it right away. I kind of thought it would be a big strain on our already rocky relationship.

Snoopylovesbelle · May 2015

I'm having Chickfila for breakfast

Yum!
I'm also in the car in my pajamas and slippers with no bra on!
It's Friday I don't care.

Brianna0915 · May 2015

FH and I are getting married in two months, were telling both my parents (divorced) tonight that were expecting. I'm getting so worked up over this because I don't think it's going to end well. My dad and step mom I think will be excited, they definitely want grandbabies! But my mom will be another story... She has made it very clear that she isn't ready to be a grandparent yet.... She was young when she had me so she'll in turn be a young grandma. I just wish they would all react like FH parents did! They are overly excited! They showed up yesterday with 5 gift bags full of baby stuff they went out and bought! Gosh I love my Inlaws!

andimegie325 · May 2015

kak5097 said:
My confession: I am afraid to tell my BFF I am pregnant because she cannot get pregnant again. She already has one little girl, but with some genetic issues, her doctor recommends not trying again so as to not have another child with the same problems! She has been trying to talk me out of continuing to "try" to get pregnant I think because she doesn't want to see me happy and pregnant!!!! It has taken my husband and I over two years to get here and I feel like she should be happy for me. Is this wrong of me?!?!?!?

I'm in the same TTC boat, and last year My BFF ended up pregnant and she completely shut me out to "spare my feelings". We ended up being in this huge tiff and I wasn't even welcome at her shower... I say you tell her and let her decide how involved she wants to be. You can't help that she may feel hurt, but she shouldn't be angry at you (I was happy to hear mine was preggers, just sad for me at the same time)

nicoleann21 · May 2015

DaphneMoon1 said:

kmcconnell22 said:
I had donuts and pizza yesterday.
We went to Red Robin specifically for the bottomless fries. I ate lots and lots of fries. I regret nothing. They were delicious.

That commercial has been on none stop here and all it does is make me want fries.. The thought of everything else at red robin makes me gag -- I asked DH if he thought it would be weird to just order fries, he said yes

sherks11 · May 2015

I'm eating ice cream almost every night now. Not because I actually crave it. I just WANT it. I won't tell my husband that...

Mamabeagle · May 2015

Sometimes at work, I put a note that I called someone who I totally didn't. It's a rare thing and only with people who I know haven't returned my calls in months and are likely to yell at me.

saraawlbr · May 2015

sherks11 said:
I'm eating ice cream almost every night now. Not because I actually crave it. I just WANT it. I won't tell my husband that...

This. DH and I actually got into an argument about it because "it's not healthy." I told him he didn't understand cravings. But, I didn't have a craving I just usually can't digest dairy but since by BFP I can so I just want to enjoy ice cream while I still can.

Anna.acb · May 2015

Today I didn't just go for the stretchy leggings, I went for the maternity leggings and I'm sooooo comfy!

Also, I could give f*ck about my career anymore. I don't care that I spent almost the last two decades getting through school and building my career to where I am now. I just want to stay home and take care of my kids.

aporcelainface · May 2015

I have a bagel like, every day. Not because of any pregnancy cravings - because I love carbs and I love bagels.

Second confession? I'm doing the whole life challenge and bagels are entirely not allowed and I do not care. I also don't care that I gave into a small fry yesterday.

MY LIFE, MY RULES.

sherks11 · May 2015

saraawlbr said:

sherks11 said:
I'm eating ice cream almost every night now. Not because I actually crave it. I just WANT it. I won't tell my husband that...
This. DH and I actually got into an argument about it because "it's not healthy." I told him he didn't understand cravings. But, I didn't have a craving I just usually can't digest dairy but since by BFP I can so I just want to enjoy ice cream while I still can.

My husband knows better than to tell me its not healthy!!!! No baby in his belly, no room to judge!

Anna.acb · May 2015

aporcelainface said:
I have a bagel like, every day. Not because of any pregnancy cravings - because I love carbs and I love bagels.
Second confession? I'm doing the whole life challenge and bagels are entirely not allowed and I do not care. I also don't care that I gave into a small fry yesterday.

MY LIFE, MY RULES.

Mmmm... A bagel sounds amazing right now!

m6tonner · May 2015

I cried today when my coworker forgot the doughnut that I asked him to get me on his office trip to Dunks.

cyanope · May 2015

I've been so good about staying away from all of the unhealthy foods that are speaking my love language right now. But last night, I caved. We went to In-N-Out and I ordered animal fries. No burger or a shake. Just animal fries. And they were freaking delicious!

abbi1995 · May 2015

I went to my first appointment yesterday and asked for phenergan suppositories(basically antinausea butt pills so I couldn't throw them up) I got the biggest coke and mtn dew icee I could find and drank it all with my butt pill in . NO RAGRATS it was so good and I didn't throw it up

bananers · May 2015

I am debating holding off on telling work for a really long time - like longer than the usual 12 weeks. We're re-orging, which means a lot of jobs are potentially in jeopardy. I know they can't legally use pregnancy as a reason to let me go, but I also know the prospect of taking 3 months off while we're in transition isn't exactly appealing. There's also a chance I could be up for a promotion so I'm going to keep it locked down until I know what's what. Baggy clothes, here I come. Everyone will just think I'm getting fat.

carlyhammond · May 2015

I want to cry, sleep, scream, eat, and not do anything.
I'm hating basically everything and everyone.
I feel like NO one understands me or what I'm feeling or going through
My family is Getting on my nerves.
I really just want to run away and come back... Well I don't even want to come back.
I'm tired of my family judging me for not being married, having a good job, living in an apartment.
I'm just over it.

I'm hungry.

nicoleann21 · May 2015

I'm working from home today but I just had to put the puppy in her crate for a few hours... I feel horrible because she has be in there for hours sometimes when I have a full day of work so I like to give her freedom all day when we're home, but I'm just feeling so crappy I can't deal with work and her craziness right now. I feel like to worst puppy mama

@bananer I'm considering not telling work till September. 300 lay offs this week across the region. Although I'm very secure with my position and I know they can't technically fire you for being pregnant I'm scared I'll get put on that expendable list next time layoffs come around.

Lljbean · May 2015

Mom problems.

mollyj931 · May 2015

Today is my first day as a stay at home mom again and I've spent way too much time on here. My kids are learning independence skills.

And we had donuts to celebrate first day of summer. They were delicious

kmcox112110 · May 2015

Well, I'm currently bored as hell staying with my dad for a few days bc he had surgery and I'm helping take care of him/his house/the dog. Mind you, he has two daughters that live here already (ages 18, 19) but they are too effing ignorant and self absorbed to help my dad. I left my own hubs and kids for this, and am so happy to be able to help my dad because he's great, but pissed at my sisters for being just so stupid!

vidatorr · May 2015

I'm afraid to get out of bed because I'm afraid I will get morning sickness and my mom doesn't know I'm pregnant and obviously if she hears me gagging she'll figure it out

claireloSC · May 2015

m6tonner that cracked me up so much. I have been craving donuts so badly too! The only reason I haven't eaten them is the store is all the way across town and not on the way to home or work. I've yet to feel I wanted them badly enough that it was worth driving an hour round trip.

EC2016 · May 2015

I get extremely annoyed when my husband tries to tell me not to eat something. I'm hungry I'm going to eat it. If it's not on the banned list what's the problem?

Snoopylovesbelle · May 2015

I stalk home sale websites to see what the inside of people's houses look like

danasphillips · May 2015

I'm sorry, is this a confession thread? And did someone really "confess" that they eat a bagel every day? Because I had 4 donuts yesterday morning alone and I don't even think that's FFFC-worth.

I have been stealing sips of DH's beer and wine like its no one's bidness. I miss the taste so much and I'm counting down to second tri when I can have a glass of wine of my own.

nicoleann21 · May 2015

@winebaby122 wouldn't have guessed you liked wine.... get what I did there

)

m6tonner · May 2015

I cried about food TWICE today. Bachelorette party I am going to tomorrow is at my favorite sushi place. Husband laughed at me both times.

nicoleann21 · May 2015

m6tonner said:
I cried about food TWICE today. Bachelorette party I am going to tomorrow is at my favorite sushi place. Husband laughed at me both times.

I'm going out for sushi and a bottle of pinor noir like the night I deliver.

Most the the sushi places I go to have really good Thai food...? Yea, not the same... sorry

Myelhsa · May 2015

I faked morning sickness to get out of cleaning the dog poop in the backyard.

I felt no shame, until morning sickness actually hit 2 hours later...Karma is such a big, fat betch.

babybluu · May 2015

My ffc: I still get jealous when other people announce they're pregnant. My brain is still stuck in "TTC" mode since it took us a little while. But I've realized the reason I get jealous now is because I'm super nervous something is gonna happen to my baby, and then I'll have to just be sad with all the reminders that my friends are pregnant and I'm not anymore. Don't get me wrong, I'm really excited for all of them. That hasn't changed. I just get worried for myself.

My best friend just told me she was pregnant last weekend. We are only 2.5 weeks apart. I should be THRILLED right? We get to do this together! This was my dream ever since we because best friends. But my stupid brain is like, omg if something happens to my baby it will be all over. Then she will have a baby and I won't. I know I sound ridiculous but my brain is working overtime to overanalyze every single situation lately. I think I will cool my jets after I see the heartbeat for the first time in 13 days. But until then... Total freak out mode.

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