Duggars Scandal

kpalt · May 2015

Have you guys seen this?? Josh Duggar molested 5 girls when he was a teenager. 4 of them were his sisters (obvious from police report)!!

There goes my guilty pleasure TV show. I feel so bad for those girls.

firebaby688 · May 2015

What?!?! Link???

wassuphoes · May 2015

I feel worse for his daughters. How long till he molests them?

CharmBombExplosion · May 2015

I just saw something about this! It's absolutely crazy

kpalt · May 2015

https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/bombshell-duggar-police-report-jim-bob-duggar-didn-t-report-son-josh-s-alleged-sex-offenses-for-more-than-a-year-58906

This one has the police report. He has confirmed this and stepped down from his job.

KaaaaaatieRN · May 2015

No. Effing. Way.

Everycol0r · May 2015

Can't say I'm surprised. But that's downright disgusting.

CharmBombExplosion · May 2015

Everycol0r said:
Can't say I'm surprised. But that's downright disgusting.

My husband texted me earlier and was like "Did you hear about the Duggar scandal?" and I immediately knew it was Josh.

chuchugak · May 2015

Argh! These m-fers! The stupid state trooper who didn't take action now in prison for child porn. Goes to show there is always something crazy going on in even the wholesomest families.

Everycol0r · May 2015

I'm curious, is there a statute of limitations on pressing charges? For this kind of crime.

wassuphoes · May 2015

Everycol0r said:
I'm curious, is there a statute of limitations on pressing charges? For this kind of crime.

3 years.

27alex · May 2015

Holy crap!

Everycol0r · May 2015

wassuphoes said:

Everycol0r said:
I'm curious, is there a statute of limitations on pressing charges? For this kind of crime.
3 years.

I didn't finish the article but as far as I saw, everything was from 2006?

wassuphoes · May 2015

chuchugak said:
Argh! These m-fers! The stupid state trooper who didn't take action now in prison for child porn. Goes to show there is always something crazy going on in even the wholesomest families.

All families have skeletons. Those who try to portray a perfect image have the most.

Also. No way in hell the trooper who gave him a "stern talking to" getting caught with kiddie porn is coincidental. Jim Bob took him to someone he knew would never press forward on charges against him.

Everycol0r · May 2015

wassuphoes said:

chuchugak said:
Argh! These m-fers! The stupid state trooper who didn't take action now in prison for child porn. Goes to show there is always something crazy going on in even the wholesomest families.
All families have skeletons. Those who try to portray a perfect image have the most.

Also. No way in hell the trooper who gave him a "stern talking to" getting caught with kiddie porn is coincidental. Jim Bob took him to someone he knew would never press forward on charges against him.

Yea a "stern talking to" of how not to get caught.

kpalt · May 2015

Also when victims were all interviewed they either didn't remember it happening (while they slept or too young, it was years after) or that it happened but nothing has happened since. Because it was so far in the past and no victims said things happened recently (most were his sisters so who knows if it's true or they were told to not say anything) he wasn't charged.

wassuphoes · May 2015

Everycol0r said:

wassuphoes said:

Everycol0r said:
I'm curious, is there a statute of limitations on pressing charges? For this kind of crime.
3 years.
I didn't finish the article but as far as I saw, everything was from 2006?

....I think it happened in 2002/2003. so 06' would have been teh last year to press charges. Jim Bob waited a year before taking Josh to "talk" to the police, and then the trooper they talked to did not pursue charges.

Said trooper is now in jail for kiddie porn.

lostkyte · May 2015

This is brutal on so many levels. I feel for the girls, I'm horrified that it was so mishandled in the first place, and that it was hidden for so long. I've watched 19 Kids for the past 3 seasons and will give it up now. What a horrible thing.

MagicMikki · May 2015

I'm so not surprised. I figured this family had some whoppers of skeletons.

Everycol0r · May 2015

He's apparently just admitted to it & released a statement of apology.

kpalt · May 2015

I also wonder if him doing this is because he was a victim himself, since most young people who are the abusers were abused themselves. It's just a sad world we live in.

CharmBombExplosion · May 2015

kpalt said:
I also wonder if him doing this is because he was a victim himself, since most young people who are the abusers were abused themselves. It's just a sad world we live in.

True, he was only 14, right? The whole thing is so sad

MrsJG3 · May 2015

WTF?! I have watched that show for years. I mean I know no one is perfect and that there has to be some weird stuff in a family that size but sex crimes?! I never really liked Josh but I wouldn't have guessed that. So pissed!

kpalt · May 2015

walbs said:

kpalt said:
I also wonder if him doing this is because he was a victim himself, since most young people who are the abusers were abused themselves. It's just a sad world we live in.
True, he was only 14, right? The whole thing is so sad

Not yet 14 when he was caught and it seems he had been doing it for awhile before the parents found out.

27alex · May 2015

He has children...

CharmBombExplosion · May 2015

27alex said:
He has children...

Yup. And another one on the way.

crogers19 · May 2015

Hugh Hefner grew up in an extremely rigid religious home, where his mother never touched him, and look at him now.

Honestly I'm not surprised at Josh ' s actions as a 14 year old in the environment he grew up in. We're they wrong? Yes 100%, surprising, nope.

bbrianax · May 2015

They have always seemed "too perfect" but this is just kind of insane. Josh isn't one of my favorites but guess there goes my guilty pleasure show. I bet it will get canceled anyway.

I hope he doesn't do these things to his kids.

MrsJG3 · May 2015

27alex said:
He has children...

I imagine he will be getting a CPS visit now. I would guess he has been a victim at some point himself. Doesn't excuse his actions though. I am surprised that police report of a juvenile would be released to the media. Glad that it was but surprised.

Everycol0r · May 2015

Just wait, this is going to open the flood gates on the family. The blood hounds are sniffing now.

27alex · May 2015

MrsJG3 said:

27alex said:
He has children...
I imagine he will be getting a CPS visit now. I would guess he has been a victim at some point himself. Doesn't excuse his actions though. I am surprised that police report of a juvenile would be released to the media. Glad that it was but surprised.

Me too but they're stating Freedom of Information Act. TLC will probably cancel tonight.

redshoes2015 · May 2015

Goodbye side hugs and tater tot casserole! His poor kids and siblings. Makes me feel so sick to think about!

CharlestonJ · May 2015

It's pretty horrible for everyone involved. This should have been dealt with years ago when it was found out. I feel for the poor girls having to relive everything because the press wanted to dig up dirt. Maybe proper education on sex and appropriate behavior when those kids were younger might have prevented it from even happening. Prevention through proper education and mental health support!! Also tlc should cancel the show or remove him from it.

allieinbetween · May 2015

Woaaaaaah! As much as I can say I'm surprised though, I'm actually not. You have a family that large with that strict of beliefs and there's bound to be some scandal embedded in there somewhere.

That sucks for his family, but honestly I stopped watching once Josh got the job with the Family Research Council. They can practice whatever religion or beliefs they want, but when it leads to him running campaigns against gay rights, I just can't support it.

firebaby688 · May 2015

So, I understand the concern for his children, but I'm hesitant to assume he will act on them. There are a ton of studies that show that juvenile sex offenders can be rehabilitated and the relapse rate is way lower than adult sex offenders. So I have hope, however it seems as though he didn't actually go to a program that could rehabilitate him, so maybe my hope is misplaced.

That being said, it is absolutely horrible. I can't believe that they kept it a secret and didn't go to the police. I understand the desire to protect your children, but in this case you are doing this at the risk of the mental health of your other children!!! I don't care if he apologized, they should know that he gets more than a slap on the wrist and that their PARENTS, not some random person, turned him into the police. As a sexual abuse survivor, I'm appalled.

Uhlease13 · May 2015

This makes me really sad because it is probably more common than we all think. I agree with pp's that in a family with such strict beliefs they will try to cover up 'skeletons' that will tarnish their image even if it means the safety or mental health of their own loved ones

kpalt · May 2015

firebaby688 said:
So, I understand the concern for his children, but I'm hesitant to assume he will act on them. There are a ton of studies that show that juvenile sex offenders can be rehabilitated and the relapse rate is way lower than adult sex offenders. So I have hope, however it seems as though he didn't actually go to a program that could rehabilitate him, so maybe my hope is misplaced.

That being said, it is absolutely horrible. I can't believe that they kept it a secret and didn't go to the police. I understand the desire to protect your children, but in this case you are doing this at the risk of the mental health of your other children!!! I don't care if he apologized, they should know that he gets more than a slap on the wrist and that their PARENTS, not some random person, turned him into the police. As a sexual abuse survivor, I'm appalled.

I do agree with this. I have a close friend who tried to have sex with his sister and a same sex classmate when he was between ages 5 and 8. Very obvious he was sexually abused himself. He was disciplined but no one looked into why he did it, and he would have been too young to remember it. He actually did not engage in sex until he was married because he was afraid he was a freak. It wasn't until he was older he realized his actions were because he himself would have been abused and it wasn't him that was "bad". He never abused anyone else after the two incidents when he was a young child.

firebaby688 · May 2015

kpalt said:

firebaby688 said:
So, I understand the concern for his children, but I'm hesitant to assume he will act on them. There are a ton of studies that show that juvenile sex offenders can be rehabilitated and the relapse rate is way lower than adult sex offenders. So I have hope, however it seems as though he didn't actually go to a program that could rehabilitate him, so maybe my hope is misplaced.

That being said, it is absolutely horrible. I can't believe that they kept it a secret and didn't go to the police. I understand the desire to protect your children, but in this case you are doing this at the risk of the mental health of your other children!!! I don't care if he apologized, they should know that he gets more than a slap on the wrist and that their PARENTS, not some random person, turned him into the police. As a sexual abuse survivor, I'm appalled.
I do agree with this. I have a close friend who tried to have sex with his sister and a same sex classmate when he was between ages 5 and 8. Very obvious he was sexually abused himself. He was disciplined but no one looked into why he did it, and he would have been too young to remember it. He actually did not engage in sex until he was married because he was afraid he was a freak. It wasn't until he was older he realized his actions were because he himself would have been abused and it wasn't him that was "bad". He never abused anyone else after the two incidents when he was a young child.

That breaks my heart

I interned at an organization that did group therapy with sex offenders. I would read their files and go to their meetings. Almost every one of those guys were sexually abused, and they were adults. Granted, it's a small sample size, but studies show that most sex offenders were abused themselves.

cattlebride · May 2015

Ugh I would flip if it were my daughters. I don't care who the offender is.

wassuphoes · May 2015

firebaby688 said:

kpalt said:

firebaby688 said:
So, I understand the concern for his children, but I'm hesitant to assume he will act on them. There are a ton of studies that show that juvenile sex offenders can be rehabilitated and the relapse rate is way lower than adult sex offenders. So I have hope, however it seems as though he didn't actually go to a program that could rehabilitate him, so maybe my hope is misplaced.

That being said, it is absolutely horrible. I can't believe that they kept it a secret and didn't go to the police. I understand the desire to protect your children, but in this case you are doing this at the risk of the mental health of your other children!!! I don't care if he apologized, they should know that he gets more than a slap on the wrist and that their PARENTS, not some random person, turned him into the police. As a sexual abuse survivor, I'm appalled.
I do agree with this. I have a close friend who tried to have sex with his sister and a same sex classmate when he was between ages 5 and 8. Very obvious he was sexually abused himself. He was disciplined but no one looked into why he did it, and he would have been too young to remember it. He actually did not engage in sex until he was married because he was afraid he was a freak. It wasn't until he was older he realized his actions were because he himself would have been abused and it wasn't him that was "bad". He never abused anyone else after the two incidents when he was a young child.
That breaks my heart

I interned at an organization that did group therapy with sex offenders. I would read their files and go to their meetings. Almost every one of those guys were sexually abused, and they were adults. Granted, it's a small sample size, but studies show that most sex offenders were abused themselves.

What worries me about Josh is he didn't go to any sort of rehabilitation, and while I am a Christian, I am skeptical any sort of "pray the sin away" his parents might have encouraged would do anything. They let it go for so long, I doubt he really got any sense of "wrongdoing" on his part.

Also a survivor, from my bio dad. It wasn't until after my Grandmother died that I learned of her mental instability and the abuse she did.

firebaby688 · May 2015

wassuphoes said:

firebaby688 said:

kpalt said:

firebaby688 said:
So, I understand the concern for his children, but I'm hesitant to assume he will act on them. There are a ton of studies that show that juvenile sex offenders can be rehabilitated and the relapse rate is way lower than adult sex offenders. So I have hope, however it seems as though he didn't actually go to a program that could rehabilitate him, so maybe my hope is misplaced.

That being said, it is absolutely horrible. I can't believe that they kept it a secret and didn't go to the police. I understand the desire to protect your children, but in this case you are doing this at the risk of the mental health of your other children!!! I don't care if he apologized, they should know that he gets more than a slap on the wrist and that their PARENTS, not some random person, turned him into the police. As a sexual abuse survivor, I'm appalled.
I do agree with this. I have a close friend who tried to have sex with his sister and a same sex classmate when he was between ages 5 and 8. Very obvious he was sexually abused himself. He was disciplined but no one looked into why he did it, and he would have been too young to remember it. He actually did not engage in sex until he was married because he was afraid he was a freak. It wasn't until he was older he realized his actions were because he himself would have been abused and it wasn't him that was "bad". He never abused anyone else after the two incidents when he was a young child.
That breaks my heart

I interned at an organization that did group therapy with sex offenders. I would read their files and go to their meetings. Almost every one of those guys were sexually abused, and they were adults. Granted, it's a small sample size, but studies show that most sex offenders were abused themselves.
What worries me about Josh is he didn't go to any sort of rehabilitation, and while I am a Christian, I am skeptical any sort of "pray the sin away" his parents might have encouraged would do anything. They let it go for so long, I doubt he really got any sense of "wrongdoing" on his part.

Also a survivor, from my bio dad. It wasn't until after my Grandmother died that I learned of her mental instability and the abuse she did.

Oh, no, praying the sin away doesn't work unless you are working on it too. Hands down. I read somewhere that he got counseling, but I've only read that one place so I don't know what kind or how accurate it is. It's questionable.

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