I have dreams of cheating on my husband regularly. My dreams are so hot and steamy and vivid. I'm a bit of a whore in my dreams and sometimes wake up feeling guilty. Lol.
I havent had mcdonalds in 11years and i just devoured 1 and 1/2 cheeseburger and fry. I hate soda but guess what...i craved something bubbly...not sure if it was coca cola or pepsi but it was gone in about 2 min lol. I knew i had bison meat in the freezer but it wasnt thawing fast enough and i was hungry!! Ohhhh welll...next time i will be more prepared
I'm a little jealous of moms who are preparing a nursery for their LO. We will have to have little man in our room until we move. Might be able to squeeze him into DD's room but she's 5 and plays a lot in her room. I've been making wall hangings and name his name with wood letters to decorate but it's not the same.. Got to do what you gotta do I guess. I'm sure I won't care once he's here!
We just got our 20 week scan, everything was normal and healthy. We also found out it's a boy! But I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed (literally, slept on my shoulder wrong and I'm in so much pain). Fantastic time for pregnancy hormones to kick in, right? I'm acting like a total b on what should be one of the happiest days of my life. I know it's wrong, but I'm still pissy! And don't even get me started on my DH, who, upon learning the news, first reaction was to tell me he now didn't like the boy name we picked out weeks ago!!! Ugh...
I'm really missing one of my old best friends latetly. I know I shouldn't because at the end of our friendship she treated me TERRIBLY and said a lot of awful and not true things to me but before that she was a great friend.
My other 2 best friends (who were also close/best friends with her) tell me that they can't believe the way she acted and that I shouldn't miss her.
In the past year I've gotten engaged and now getting ready to have a baby and it makes me sad that she's not around to share that excitement with. Neither she nor her fiancé (who I introduced her to and used to be a friend but naturally he went with her and ceased talking to us) congratulated my fiancé or I on our engagement or pregnancy news yet my fiancé and I both congratulated them on their engagement news (which was a month after ours).
She and I are no longer friends on Facebook but my fiancé told me when her dog passed away in the fall and I took the time to reach out to her and give her my condolences. Surprisingly she responded once and kindly.
I'm really struggling with body confidence right now. I'm not used to looking so big, particularly my arms. Trying not to let my lack of confidence show, but it's going to be a hard 20 more weeks.
This is exactly how I feel. I was a little bigger in school when I was younger and I worked really hard to lose weight and get healthy about 8 years ago. I always rolled my eyes when I heard pregnant women complain about their bodies because they are making a miracle and shouldn't be concerned about their appearance. Now I feel ridiculous that I am turning into one of those women.
I'm really missing one of my old best friends latetly. I know I shouldn't because at the end of our friendship she treated me TERRIBLY and said a lot of awful and not true things to me but before that she was a great friend.
My other 2 best friends (who were also close/best friends with her) tell me that they can't believe the way she acted and that I shouldn't miss her.
In the past year I've gotten engaged and now getting ready to have a baby and it makes me sad that she's not around to share that excitement with. Neither she nor her fiancé (who I introduced her to and used to be a friend but naturally he went with her and ceased talking to us) congratulated my fiancé or I on our engagement or pregnancy news yet my fiancé and I both congratulated them on their engagement news (which was a month after ours).
She and I are no longer friends on Facebook but my fiancé told me when her dog passed away in the fall and I took the time to reach out to her and give her my condolences. Surprisingly she responded once and kindly.
I feel like I shouldn't miss her at all.
I totally get this. I have a friend I haven't talked to in many years. She has blocked me on Facebook (I'm not sure why) but I am still friends with her husband. She was kind of a jerk to me the last time we hung out. I saw that they recently had a baby. It makes me miss her. I won't reach out because she made the choice to keep me out of her life and I want to respect that, but I miss her something fierce. Don't know why, really.
I'm a little jealous of moms who are preparing a nursery for their LO. We will have to have little man in our room until we move. Might be able to squeeze him into DD's room but she's 5 and plays a lot in her room. I've been making wall hangings and name his name with wood letters to decorate but it's not the same.. Got to do what you gotta do I guess. I'm sure I won't care once he's here!
A lot of parents keep baby in their room the first few months. I know it's no fun to feel like you're missing out on something but you'll get to do your nursery eventually, right? :-)
My husband is still at work and I'm hoping to be asleep by the time he gets home so I get a break from having to have sex! Honestly I feel bad for him because of my non-existent libido; it's got to be a little discouraging to feel like your wife has lost interest in you. It's really not that, I just don't get in the mood these days and then it hurts . . .
And "Don't worry, I think I'll be back to normal in a couple years when I'm 100% done with pregnancy and breastfeeding" isn't much help!
I'm really missing one of my old best friends latetly. I know I shouldn't because at the end of our friendship she treated me TERRIBLY and said a lot of awful and not true things to me but before that she was a great friend.
My other 2 best friends (who were also close/best friends with her) tell me that they can't believe the way she acted and that I shouldn't miss her.
In the past year I've gotten engaged and now getting ready to have a baby and it makes me sad that she's not around to share that excitement with. Neither she nor her fiancé (who I introduced her to and used to be a friend but naturally he went with her and ceased talking to us) congratulated my fiancé or I on our engagement or pregnancy news yet my fiancé and I both congratulated them on their engagement news (which was a month after ours).
She and I are no longer friends on Facebook but my fiancé told me when her dog passed away in the fall and I took the time to reach out to her and give her my condolences. Surprisingly she responded once and kindly.
I feel like I shouldn't miss her at all.
That's really hard. My bf and I split for a year (sounds like similar reasons) and our friendship has never recovered. It's hard letting new people in the same way your childhood, teenage bf was. I don't feel any bond like that can be replaced and it makes me miss her and then I'm reminded she's not that person who was like my sister so it's not really her I'm missing, it's that bond and friendship I had with her that I'm missing.
My husband is still at work and I'm hoping to be asleep by the time he gets home so I get a break from having to have sex! Honestly I feel bad for him because of my non-existent libido; it's got to be a little discouraging to feel like your wife has lost interest in you. It's really not that, I just don't get in the mood these days and then it hurts . . .
And "Don't worry, I think I'll be back to normal in a couple years when I'm 100% done with pregnancy and breastfeeding" isn't much help!
I'm the same way, thankfully my hubby understands. I think he's gotten lucky once maybe twice since we got pregnant.
I rely on seamless web for food nowadays b/c I don't feel like cooking...sometimes I order twice in one day! I also ate a pint of ice cream for breakfast before my prenatal barre class
I secretly love coming across the silly drama filled threads that randomly arise. Not to be vicisious, rude, judgmental, or to chime in. It's because they are like soap operas or reality t.v. I just can't understand why some people are so nasty or some get so emotionally involved.
I don't work as much as my husband, clean as much, cook as much, or even shower as much. Somehow he still likes me and isn't bitter that I'm useless. I'm justifying it by saying I'm never going to have this much free time again and I'm going to soak it up. FTM here. but I feel like I'm in shock, overwhelmed, and I don't even know where to begin nesting or what books to begin reading. There are an endless number of things I want to do before October and I can't even start because I'm overwhelmed. The only thing getting done is I'm keeping up with all my shows and eating a lot of cereal. Yikes.. Pathetic.
I'm really struggling with body confidence right now. I'm not used to looking so big, particularly my arms. Trying not to let my lack of confidence show, but it's going to be a hard 20 more weeks.
@aah1013, I had the same issue when I was pregnant with DD. I have friends who never gain wait in their arms/face, and they just can't relate to the frustration. I remember crying when I was 32 weeks because I hated pictures, not because of my bump, but because of my arms and cheeks. I am working really hard to stay positive and be excited about the other stuff this time around, and it works most of the time. I remember that the other stuff will go away and it's only temporary, but that doesn't stop those stinky thoughts from creeping in. I hope you find some things to celebrate to keep your mind off the insecurity part. You certainly aren't alone!
I don't work as much as my husband, clean as much, cook as much, or even shower as much. Somehow he still likes me and isn't bitter that I'm useless. I'm justifying it by saying I'm never going to have this much free time again and I'm going to soak it up. FTM here. but I feel like I'm in shock, overwhelmed, and I don't even know where to begin nesting or what books to begin reading. There are an endless number of things I want to do before October and I can't even start because I'm overwhelmed. The only thing getting done is I'm keeping up with all my shows and eating a lot of cereal. Yikes.. Pathetic.
You aren't the only one, and I'm glad there is someone out there just like me. I'm amazed at times how crazy my hubby is for me with me being as worthless as I am around the house. The only thing I think I do a good job at is making sure our bills are paid and our son is taken care of. I've made it a goal for this year to start taking some of the household duties away from him so he can relax too.
I don't work as much as my husband, clean as much, cook as much, or even shower as much. Somehow he still likes me and isn't bitter that I'm useless. I'm justifying it by saying I'm never going to have this much free time again and I'm going to soak it up. FTM here. but I feel like I'm in shock, overwhelmed, and I don't even know where to begin nesting or what books to begin reading. There are an endless number of things I want to do before October and I can't even start because I'm overwhelmed. The only thing getting done is I'm keeping up with all my shows and eating a lot of cereal. Yikes.. Pathetic.
Omg did I just write that? Haha. In the same boat. Thank goodness for great husbands.
rparr1984....I am right there with you! I am 17 days, 2 days....haven't felt baby move yet. I am so eager for it. I have also been pressing on my belly to see if it gets baby to move or kick! Hasn't worked....
Re: Confessions
I'm a bit of a whore in my dreams and sometimes wake up feeling guilty. Lol.
My other 2 best friends (who were also close/best friends with her) tell me that they can't believe the way she acted and that I shouldn't miss her.
In the past year I've gotten engaged and now getting ready to have a baby and it makes me sad that she's not around to share that excitement with. Neither she nor her fiancé (who I introduced her to and used to be a friend but naturally he went with her and ceased talking to us) congratulated my fiancé or I on our engagement or pregnancy news yet my fiancé and I both congratulated them on their engagement news (which was a month after ours).
She and I are no longer friends on Facebook but my fiancé told me when her dog passed away in the fall and I took the time to reach out to her and give her my condolences. Surprisingly she responded once and kindly.
I feel like I shouldn't miss her at all.
And "Don't worry, I think I'll be back to normal in a couple years when I'm 100% done with pregnancy and breastfeeding" isn't much help!
Think I need to brush my teeth....