Does anyone else get mad when there bf/hubby goes out or even to a friends on the weekends and your stuck at home because your pregnant. Idk if I'm being selfish or have a right to be mad. We're both having a baby, we should both make sacrifices..shouldn't we?
Re: Dad's going out
I'm different I suppose. My husband rarely gets a chance to go out and enjoy himself. I see nothing wrong with it every once in a while and I actually try to convince him most times to go. I don't think he needs to be stuck in the house because I'm pregnant. IMO, you sound a bit selfish but maybe there's more to the story....
I think in the almost four years of our marriage, he's gone to a movie once with our guy friends while I was at work. It was a movie I didn't want to see but he really did and I had to push him to go (he planned on just staying home). I wouldn't mind him going out now and then but I think it would be weird for one of us to go out with friends while the other is bored at home. That's just how we are though, and everyone's relationships are different.
That being said, I also see the other side of the coin. I had no idea one of my husband's friends was married until his wife and 16 year old daughter came to our engagement party. There's all types of people I guess.
I thought I was having deja vu too, so I had to go back and look, and sure enough....
When you start a thread with, "Does anyone else get mad when there bf/hubby goes out or even to a friends on the weekends and your stuck at home because your pregnant. Idk if I'm being selfish or have a right to be mad. We're both having a baby, we should both make sacrifices..shouldn't we?" you are asking a question, this is not venting. Venting would be posting something like, "I am so sick of DH going out all of the time while I stay home, I feel like I am the only one making sacrifices," on the Monday Bitchfest, Tuesday Twatwaffle, WTF Wednesday thread. But when you specifically ask a question, one that you have now asked multiple times, people start to think that there is something deeper going on, and believe it or not, people feel bad for you or worry that you are in an unhealthy situation. Everyone gave you advice based on what you posted and what you have posted on the same topic multiple times in the past. It is not good etiquette to post a question on a public forum and then get mad because people obviously didn't tell you what you wanted to hear and so as a result you say they just shouldn't post.
If you don't want HONEST feedback then don't post your relationship business on a public forum. Easy.
Stop venting to internet strangers then and have a talk with your immature boyfriend.
If you don't want people to answer your questions then don't post a question, easy as that.
Once you post a question, or anything honestly, you cannot control the responses. Some people may agree, some disagree, everyone is different and will have different opinions. If you can't handle that then you should post on an open forum.
Thankfully we've moved and he doesn't do that anymore. But I feel your pain. It can be very upsetting given the circumstances.